He's coming back at all hours, do I have trust issues?
Q. i've been in a 3 year relationship with this guy. while dating, we hung out, had fun, and would come in late or not at all. now, we reside with one another, have children together, and he continues to do the same thing minus not coming in. in a past ...
A. 24 August 2010: Hey, you are not the problem here... not your past either.
Geting home at the wee hours of the night is not acceptable when he is doing it more than once.
You deserve better. If I was in your place, I would let him know what I expected and... (read in full...)
How do you talk about sex in a flirty way?
Q. How do you talk about having sex with a guy in a sexual flirty way?...
A. 24 August 2010: Well, the first thing I will say is that you won't have to. ANd I would advise against it... unless you want him to get the idea that you are out for sex and nothing more.
Having said that... less is more. Use your gaze, your body language... (read in full...)
Need some advice/tips on dating for someone who's 23 and has one year of uni left?
Q. I dated up until I was 20 and then some personal issues occurred with my last girlfriend which resulted in low self esteem kicking in. I built up my confidence after some help from parents and mentor and I am now more confident in all forms of life ...
A. 24 August 2010: Bars and nightclubs are dreadful places to meet anyone you want to seriously get to know. It is much better to meet someone on campus- or in an activity you do ( say a sport or something). And these days, on line can be useful too.
Just start by... (read in full...)
We're sleeping together, but he'll never just talk on the phone!
Q. Hi I have been in a sexual relationship for some time with this one guy, what i don't understand about him is that after we have sex he never calls me for days at a time sometimes 6 or more days go by, yet he txts me twice a day everyday sometimes ...
A. 24 August 2010: Wow ... would you call him shy? If he's not shy then I say he's avoiding intimacy. I think it is quite possible that he enjoys sleeping with you but does not particularly want to be intimate with you.
Of course I could be wrong... I only have a f... (read in full...)
I like this guy and we've been IMing, but how should I start dating him?
Q. hey so i just turned a sophmore a this guy who went to the same drivers ed with me and goes to a school very near to ours has been IMing all summer. I really like him and im quite sure he likes me but he hasnt really made a big hint just little ...
A. 24 August 2010: Hey,
No harm in finding out what he likes to do and then setting up a time to go and have some fun together. Go for a bike ride, go for a swim, go to the movies... hell go play video games. It really doesn't matter as long as you both enjoy it and ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything for the man I used to love.
Q. Hey there, I've been dating a guy for about two years now, and we've been engaged for one year and a few months. We were very happy when we first met each other and continued to be happy for the first year; however, now that I'm in college for m...
A. 24 August 2010: Well, Brian, this must be very hard. I can see you care very deeply for Brandon. He has become a big part of your life. He is obviously caring and loving. IT is easy to see all these wonderful things, but it is also obvious that you are not ... (read in full...)
Feeling used and betrayed!
Q. Hello, A long time ago there was a guy in my life, and we liked each other, but he had a long term long distance girlfriend, and I was leaving town to go to uni and to escape a violent family. So, we came close, but never actually made anything ha...
A. 24 August 2010: @ sugarbuns... I think you are on to something.I know he has a young daughter. ... (read in full...)
Should chance calling him?
Q. my ex told me he had a girl visiting for a few months and she will be going home once the visa is up. We spoke about this June 11th or so and he said 2 and a half months she will be gone so its not a permanent thing. Has it been two and a half m...
A. 24 August 2010: SO it sucks when you still love your ex... and want to get back with him.
Has he given you any signs that he feels the same? IT seems to me that having another girl live with you is a pretty strong sign that you don't want to go back.
As for ... (read in full...)
What are this guys intentions?
Q. Having trouble figuring out what a guys intentions are here.. But I don't want to ask him just yet. We met 4.5 years ago, on a weekend away. An hours flight away in another country. He hung out with us for the weekend after meeting him in a...
A. 24 August 2010: Well, I have to say being the first to admit you want to take it to the next level is bloody terrifying- but I think you are forgetting how insecure we all feel when we are at that point if you think he knows you well enough to know you're "either ... (read in full...)
Is it an addiction? or is he using that as an excuse?
Q. recently i have found out my boyfriend of 12 months has joined a firting website to chat to other girls i have had a look and it seems more like a sex site, iv confronted him and he said he was waiting to tel me but knew i would see it on his phone ...
A. 24 August 2010: Hey, these things are addictive. Suddenly there are all these people saying really hot things to you. They are telling you how much they want you... and it is safe because you don't ever ever have to meet and do anything.So you can be a "fantasy ... (read in full...)
Betrayal by sister and mom!
Q. okay, so here it goes. I have this Horribe problem. im 17, and I have this Amazing, most wonderful boyfriend in the world. Hi name is Greg, and His 19. And my name is liz : p I have this bratty lil sister, named clair. and well. ok here i...
A. 24 August 2010: Hey, have to agree with fatherly advice. Seriously! If you don't have the kind of relationship where you can share stuff, then he is not the one you deserve. You can do better
As for your sister... well you can't chose your relatives... but I woul... (read in full...)
Feeling used and betrayed!
Q. Hello, A long time ago there was a guy in my life, and we liked each other, but he had a long term long distance girlfriend, and I was leaving town to go to uni and to escape a violent family. So, we came close, but never actually made anything ha...
A. 24 August 2010: Oh dear.. I think I am a little unclear in my writing style. Still thanks for your replies.
@ under the stars... I was happy to meet him as a friend and told him so... he did not want to meet up, and I was going to be in town ( unrelate... (read in full...)
We freeze up and don't know how to talk to eachother in person!
Q. hello all. i have a beautiful, smart funny and sexy girlfriend and i couldn't be happier its just when we meet up in real life we sometimes freeze. we find it hard to communicate to one another when together but online we chat for hours. i don't k...
A. 23 August 2010: Hey, use your online communications to plan dates that will be really fun...
Say.. ( my taste may not be yours - but) go bike riding, or play a computer game together at the arcade...
The great thing is that you can find out what each other l... (read in full...)
Insecure girlfriend, need help fast!
Q. I've been dating with this girl for 6-months now. I can feel our affection is growing day by day. However, she has some insecurity issues. She is 28, and I'm 24, she was divorced a year ago (kind of lost faith in men). Yesterday we went to t...
A. 23 August 2010: Hey, we ladies are all a little insecure... and let's face it- there are some seriously heavy expectations on women to look young! So what can you do?
She needs to feel that you love her deeply not just for how beautiful she is on the outside ... (read in full...)
We're both shy and it's creating a problem! Help!
Q. Hey... ok i have a slight problem, me and my boyfriend are both really shy.. before we started dating we could talk to each other really easily but after he asked me out we dont have much 2 talk about because we are both shy around the people we ...
A. 23 August 2010: Hey, you are young. It's a beautiful thing. I think the most important thing is to do things together that are fun--- that way you both relax, have a laugh, and the rest will come easily.
Why not try a bike-ride together.Maybe play a computer... (read in full...)
He's hitting on me he has a g/f and now I don't think I can trust him
Q. A male friend of mine who i've known for a while had been very flirtatious towards me so, as he has a girlfriend, i told him to knock it off, he said he didn't mean and would never cheat on his girlfriend. So, anyway he invited me out for a drink as ...
A. 23 August 2010: He is attracted to you, and he has a girlfriend... and he wants to sleep with you. So stay clear of him.
If you like him you could tell him the only way it will work between you is if he breaks up with his girlfriend, otherwise ONLY friends.... (read in full...)
Does she really like me or is she just trying not to be attracted to me?
Q. so me and this girl like each other but don't show it up easily though she is much younger than me i am just waiting for her to give me a hint that she is willing to talk to me ,as i get close to her she kinda get nervous n looks down or pretend i m ...
A. 23 August 2010: Yes, she likes you. She is shy. That's all.... (read in full...)
Advice for sensitive guy
Q. Hi my names dave 22 and i am a sensitive guy. I met a girl jenny 19 on a drunkern night out 4 months ago, wasnt really looking for anything but ended up in bed with her that night. we carried on meeting at hers watching dvd's and having intercourse, ...
A. 23 August 2010: Hi Sensitive guy. You know, some times beautiful girls want to make sure you know they are desirable to other men. They WANT to make you a little jealous.
Do you tell her how beautiful you think she is, that you know men desire her? That's w... (read in full...)
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