I'm so guilty that I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?
Q. A few days ago, I slept with a male friend while my husband was out of town visiting relatives. It only happened, once, i swear, and I did not intend for it to happen. I didn't set out looking to cheat, it's something that just happened. We'd had a ...
A. 8 September 2009: you should have thought before doing what you did. I am no one to judge you but I don't take the remark: "I didn't set out looking to cheat, it's something that just happened" Nothing like deciding to sleep with another man "just happens" by the ... (read in full...)
Loneliness is a drag. Will I ever stop feeling like this?
Q. I am so desperately lonely that I just can't bear it anymore, and my heart is broken because I feel like my life is passing me by. I am in tears as I write this. I wish and wish I had someone to call or tlak to, but I feel like everyone has ...
A. 18 July 2009: wow you have a long story that used to sound like mines. I used to fight against my loneliness only to submitt myself into situations i wished never happened. You are thinking too much on yourself. Look around you, do you think you are the only ... (read in full...)
Husbands vacations with ex-wife and adult children
Q. My husband is going on a camping vacation with his exwife and some of his adult children. He kept it secret from me untill recently when he had to admit it because of buying a airline ticket. She is not bringing her husband and he asked me to go ...
A. 17 July 2009: Something is going on there. Sometimes ex partners are not really over the other.... (read in full...)
I was doing fine until my ex asked to see me. Now I am so confused and can't stop texting him
Q. I am really confused of what's going on right now... Recently, I met with my ex as he terrorized me with texts saying he wanted to see me so badly he has something to say. He kept calling until I agreed to see him. When i saw him, all he sa...
A. 14 July 2009: wow you really fell for it. He just used you for that night cause probably there was nothing else available to get him off. I think he used you for his own relief with a whole lot of lovy-dubby and you fell. If you continue to fall for his ... (read in full...)
I was so upset over him that I cut myself
Q. i'm 16 and in high school. ok so i like this guy. he's amazing and i think i'm in love with him. i just can't stop thinking about him. we're friends and we always talk on the bus cause he's not in any of my classes. i think he might know i like him, ...
A. 3 June 2009: You need to calm down and know that LIFE GOES ON. It does not end for one single guy! First of all, Why would you want to loose your life for a man? It doesn't matter how hot he may look, you need consider yourself VALUABLE PROPERTY. Once you ... (read in full...)
I really want a baby!
Q. Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?...
A. 30 May 2009: I KNOW!!!!! Get a baby sitting job! If you're too young for that volunteer at an early head start or hospital nursery. You will get an "I want to have a baby boot camp" experience which would help you greatly in your decision of wanting to have a ... (read in full...)
I'm a stressed out single mum but I don't want to lose my boyfriend!
Q. Where to start? Okay i dated this guy for about 8 months(I broke up wih him twice because i was scared to start a relationship but we put that in the past on Jan. 1st) things were really serious we were getting ready to move in to our apartment we...
A. 20 May 2009: Well, I KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO STRUGGLE BEING A SINGLE MOM and guess what? I DID IT!. Don't let the stressors of a relationship affect your abilities to be a mom. Your child come way ahead than a man who is yours today and gone tomorrow. Your ... (read in full...)
Deployed for 10 months to Iraq and now my wife claims she is no longer in love with me!
Q. Hi everyone, I need a little help with my marrige. Im in Iraq right now and i have been deployed for 10 month. I call my wife last sunday and she tells me she loves me but is no longer in love with me. This came out of the blue and i have no idea ...
A. 20 May 2009: wow, first of all let me tell you that life goes on. Second, let me thank you for serving our country. I can bet that you are not the only veteran that is going through this. Heck! everyone goes through break ups. In this case, you need to give your ... (read in full...)
I don't want to turn 30!
Q. I'm 29 and my birthday is tomorrow. I know that it's inevitable, but I can't help it. I don't want to be 30... Most people probably wouldn't consider that to be young anymore. I need words of comfort, please, the thought of my youth being over...
A. 3 May 2009: oh my god, you sound like you're about to die! Anyway, happy birthday. I am about to turn thirty too. Kicking and screaming we're bound to age. I would also love to turn back time and done things differently, or ask God to at least make me look as ... (read in full...)
Help me realize this disrepectful man is not going to change?
Q. I am so tired of this selfish, heartless man ive been messing with him for two years and i just lost a baby i feel hes been cheating on me the whole time now he comes in my house at 5am and claim been over nephews im so tired of this man liein, ...
A. 25 April 2009: He is not going to change, why? because you can't teach an old dog new tricks, and you can't never expect to change any guy when he already has a different mind set. You sound like this girl my ex was seeing or still dating who knows. He cheated on ... (read in full...)
My ex is coming back into the scene and I'm so angry. Help.
Q. Hello, I am stressed as hell. My ex is coming back into the scene after four months of absense. After offending me and humiliating me with his fling. He is saying that "now" he was wants to see his son. He wants to paas by my home to see his son....
A. 18 April 2009: my mother begged me not to kill myself. But what do I do with this pain I have inside? What do i with this anguish, anger, with this never ending torture which I am forced to live in because there is no way out, because that son of a bitch will be ... (read in full...)
My ex is coming back into the scene and I'm so angry. Help.
Q. Hello, I am stressed as hell. My ex is coming back into the scene after four months of absense. After offending me and humiliating me with his fling. He is saying that "now" he was wants to see his son. He wants to paas by my home to see his son....
A. 18 April 2009: He is undeserving! Yes I know he is the father and has rights but after I took care of my child on my own, went through turbulances, he passed the child on and washed his hands from EVERYTHING, now he wants to show up. He already have a court order ... (read in full...)
I dreamed of kissing my ex.. but it was weird
Q. So the dream starts with me looking in the mirror and my reflection tells me, "You will be very lonely when you are 32"... I sort of scoff at the mirror and go into my bedroom, and my Ex gf is laying on the bed in lingerie! We say nothing, I just ...
A. 17 April 2009: it sounds like a nightmare. Do you miss her? After a kiss that could have been of indifference may reflect her not wanting to be with you anymore? And her fading away into the hall may reflect her not being in your life. That is why i ask if you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has cheated 6 times and I don't know how to get him to stop
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me yet again. This is the 6th time that this has happened and I keep taking him back. The girl called me and said that he was with her on Valentines day when he told me that he had to work. I found ...
A. 15 April 2009: Reading this post and the answers has helped me a great deal. I mean, it all measured to me and I noticed that I'm not the only one when went through a cheating and deceiving man. The answers were great, especially anonymous' experience where she ... (read in full...)
Any information on lambskin as contraception? I don't like condoms
Q. My wife needs to go off the pill because it is messing with her mental state. She has told me that in the past she has had this type of reaction to the pill and never wants to go on it again. Not interested in any hormone thing at all (e.g. IUD ...
A. 11 April 2009: The only IUD that is hormone based in Mirena which should remain inserted inside the uterus for five years. However, PARAGUARD IUD is not hormone based. It is a small copper IUD which is also inserted inside the uterus and can remain there for at ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but is trying to break up with me...
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. We have talked about marriage and know that we want to be with each other forever but the past month there have been some fights and things haven't been picture perfect. I see this as growing but he ...
A. 10 April 2009: Does she really have to leave it up to him to choose? He can only make it more complicated and leave her "in limbo". To an extent where it can turn out to be manipulative. It happened to me. That's when an opportunity to emotionally abuse her may ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but is trying to break up with me...
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. We have talked about marriage and know that we want to be with each other forever but the past month there have been some fights and things haven't been picture perfect. I see this as growing but he ...
A. 10 April 2009: I don't think he's a commitment guy. If I were you, I would not waste time with him. You sound like me when I was meeting my ex. He had the same characteristics as your boyfriend. We got married (because I got pregnant and some how he felt he had to ... (read in full...)
Still Hurting...
Q. what do you think about a man who went out with his new fling and ex wife, both women confronted each other, he bashed his ex with his new fling, then has the nerve to ask his ex for another sexual encounter? What to advice the ex who still feels ...
A. 9 April 2009: Thanks anonymous for the reply. I had to agree with you when you wrote that he is mentally insane. I started to remember many things. When he and I were waiting at court to be called, he sat on one bench across the room from me. I literally saw him ... (read in full...)
Still Hurting...
Q. what do you think about a man who went out with his new fling and ex wife, both women confronted each other, he bashed his ex with his new fling, then has the nerve to ask his ex for another sexual encounter? What to advice the ex who still feels ...
A. 9 April 2009: Thanks to moderators for reposting my original title.... (read in full...)
Still Hurting...
Q. what do you think about a man who went out with his new fling and ex wife, both women confronted each other, he bashed his ex with his new fling, then has the nerve to ask his ex for another sexual encounter? What to advice the ex who still feels ...
A. 9 April 2009: (Ummm, I don't know but the moderators in this site totally distorted my original title to my post. Just to clarify to our agony aunts, my ex didn't "publically" humiliated me. It was all done via text messages and phone call between me and that ... (read in full...)
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