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My boyfriends family keep picking on me and my bf...what should I do??
Q. Okay so I have a dillema that I'm having trouble on how to handle. I've been with my boyfriend for going on nine months now. The issue isn't with my boyfriend its with his family. He has cousins all younger than we are and for some reason they find ...
A. 27 June 2008: Thanks for the advice everybody. He doesn't live with his family so its not a necessary thing I go to the family get togethers. I went to them in the first place because I love my boyfriend and it just seemed like the right thing to do. Getting to ... (read in full...)
Should I be suspicious?
Q. My man said he had to work this evening. When he returned home he acted strange, ran into the shower and then I was in his car, I found an empty box of 3 condoms. He said that they were not his and it must be the guy he gave a ride from work. I ...
A. 22 June 2008: I think when it comes down to a situation like this you have to be careful. Us as women are over thinkers and we over analyze everything. Are his actions suspicious? Yes they are but on the same token that doesn't always mean he's up to something ... (read in full...)
Do I inititate contact, or do I wait for her?
Q. i've been in a very confusing on and off relationship for almost a year now. It's been pretty complicated. In a nutshell, i messed up and lost her trust; not because of cheating but because i kept some things from her. She forgave me for what I've ...
A. 22 June 2008: I'm pretty much in the same exact position your girlfriend is in right now. To say the least in the past my boyfriend has done some things that have caused me to view him as untrustworthy. The best thing I can suggest is I think you need to sit down ... (read in full...)
My BF is bipolar and finds it hard to obtain work, should he lie about his medical history, other suggestions to facilitate the opening of perspectives?
Q. Hi my boyfriends bi-polar and struggling to get work because of his medical history. He seems to be getting more depressed and recently said he as to accept is life is over. Should he lie about his history? Does anyone know where he can get help ...
A. 4 April 2008: I myself know exactly what that feels like. I am 17 soon to be 18 and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder at fifteen years old. I personally don't tell anybody that I'm bipolar or then you for sure won't get the job and people will be afraid of you. ... (read in full...)
I just want to "fall pregnant" !!
Q. I know i'm only young but i'm in love with my boyfriend...but there's a problem, i love him too much, i hate it when i'm not with him, and i miss him uncontrolably!! He's someone who really understands me and i trust him compleatly! But i had a preg...
A. 4 April 2008: I am 17 and was recently in your position, kind of. I found out that I may have been pregnant and it scared the hell out of me at first, I was like I am too young, this isn't the right time, I am not financially stable to support a child etc and I ... (read in full...)
Am I alone in feeling jealous and insecure because my man is handsome and charming?
Q. I apologize for the long rant. I'm overwhelmed right now with feelings of insecurity and jealousy. My boyfriend of 1 year is a very charming man with good looks and great sense of humor. He is flirtatious, he is very out going and meets new girls ...
A. 28 March 2008: In my opinion it sounds like you don't trust him and you are insecure with yourself, so when he really is going out to whatever with these girls on a friendly basis you start to get all down on yourself and the relationship because you are insecure. ... (read in full...)
Are there any alternatives to shaving or waxing 'down there'?
Q. Personally, I think that it's more attractive to be totally hairless 'down there,' but I've got incredibly sensitive skin, and whenever I shave it gets red and bumpy, and ingrown hairs all the time, which is even more unattractive! Most unfortuna...
A. 28 March 2008: When you use a disposable razor and get bumps and ingrown hairs it means you are shaving the wrong direction and it causes that. I myself use an electrical razor that you can buy at alot of drug stores or somewhere like wal-mart and it works great ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me and I'm pregnant with his child. Will he come back?
Q. my ex-broke up with me over a text msg and told me that he has been cheating on me. im pregnant with his child that he wanted with me...everyone i talk to dont think that it wont last with them because the girls a skank and her relationships dont ...
A. 27 March 2008: If I were you I wouldn't take him back or even consider it. You may be pregnant with his child but he cheated on you and is with another woman. If you did take him back and he was still running around cheating when your baby comes thats not the kind ... (read in full...)
His comments about other women make me feel insecure, and I want to be more confident!
Q. Am a 48 year old, attractive, intelligent woman. I have been seeing this wonderful man for 4 months. Just back from holiday with him. On occasions when we are out, he'll say things like "that barmaid was gorgeous, wish I could take her home" or ...
A. 27 March 2008: I am in somewhat the same situtaion except my boyfriend doesn't take it as far as to say things like that. I have confronted him about it and he just says "at the end of the day who do I come home with?" which makes me feel somewhat better but I ... (read in full...)
How bad of an age gap is this? We met on Hot or Not.
Q. Hi, Not too long ago i met a guy on 'hotornot' he was gorgeous so left a message telling him so. i was quite shocked to find out he was living in england, and this is a world wide website. Even more scarier was that he lived in the same county....
A. 18 March 2008: Legal age of consent in the UK, as well as many states in the US is 16. So lets say you are 16 and dating a guy who is 30, legally there is nothing that can be said or done. Does that mean that its appropriate, no. I think that a 9 year age gap is ... (read in full...)
I accidentally ran over my potential boyfriends foot. Where to go from here????
Q. Hey aunts, I really need your help, advice and wisdom here. It's complicated, but basically there is this guy I'm seeing/dating. We've been seeing each other for about a month now. Last night we went out for Saint Patrick's day. It felt like we ...
A. 18 March 2008: First of all it was an accident, its not like you puposefully ran over his foot being pissed off. If he can't realize it was an accident and wants you to leave him alone over an accident he obviously has some issues and I would quit talking to him ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.
Q. So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest ...
A. 12 March 2008: I answered this question before not logged in so I am not sure my answer will get posted or not so here I go again. I am 17 and at first I told my current boyfriend I was 18. I don't have the legality issue, I pretty much told him I was 18 because ... (read in full...)
My father is an alcoholic. How do I get him to stop?
Q. im 16 years old im pregnant and my dad is an alcoholic. I want him to stop coz he is tearing the family apart and he keaps promising but ends up breaking them. What can i do please help. ...
A. 5 March 2008: I myself was recently in your situation. I am 17 and was pregnant, I sadly had a miscarriage but my father is also an alcoholic. He has been for years, and my family has had to accept the fact that he's not going to change, and I hate to say this ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my Mom I lost my virginity?
Q. I recently had sex for the first time but i dont know if i should tell my mum or not, i dont want her hatin me for it, what could i do?...
A. 28 February 2008: I think that telling your mother that you lost your virginity is a personal choice but in my opinion I would tell her. I am around your age and when I told my mother that I lost my virginity it strengthened our relationship and she was glad I told ... (read in full...)
How long can someone last without food?
Q. heyx I am 15 years old, and just out of curiosity, how long would you say i can last without any food? And dnt tel me about how its bad for me, i already know that. Im just curious how long a girl like me, about 5 ft 3 weighing in about 9 and a ha...
A. 27 February 2008: Fasting for religious reasons I understand, fasting/starving yourself to lose weight I don't understand. In reality starving yourself will only cause you anguish, and take alot longer for you to lose weight. Most people try and starve themselves by ... (read in full...)
How can I move the conversation on with girls I don't know??
Q. Hi, to say abit about myself. I'm 18 years old and I have had a girlfriend before but this was 2.5 years ago. I am NOT shy and NOT afraid of rejection my ONLY problem is I NEVER know anything good to say other than "hi" then the conversation dies on ...
A. 26 February 2008: In my opinion, I would rather a guy try and start converstaion with me instead of hitting on me. For a few days pay attention to the little details, maybe things she reads,maybe things you have in common and spark conversations off of that. Don't ... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 23 February 2008: Why don't you put yourself in his position, better yet my position. I am an overweight girl, and do you know how hard it is to hear or read things like this? Its almost as though people think that overweight and fat people shouldn't be loved and ... (read in full...)
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