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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, to say abit about myself. I'm 18 years old and I have had a girlfriend before but this was 2.5 years ago. I am NOT shy and NOT afraid of rejection my ONLY problem is I NEVER know anything good to say other than "hi" then the conversation dies on my part.The issue below has 2 problems, the main one is how do i talk to this girl? and how do I talk to girls I like in general that I dont know? Alot of people say "just talk" or "just say hi" but thats it, nothing after. Also I dont want to seem fake by kicking a dead horse when I talk to girls i want it to flow naturally. The issue I am having now is I really like this girl in one of my classes, mainly for her physical features but im not shallow and I want to get to know her. She has done somethings that MAY OR MAY NOT help with your judgment on this issue. Before she withdrew from the first class we were in she wasnt doing any work and she sat beside me, assignment sheets were being handed out and she handed me her copy by saying "an extra one for you"I didnt say anything in return and with the corner of my eye I seen her eyes look at me for an extra amount of time.So now she is in 1 of my classes only. Well, im good at noticing little things and I am certain she caught me glancing at her once and as she looked away she smiled then a few days later abunch of people were making noise around her and she moved infront of me to sit :D.
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reader, SouthernBelle +, writes (26 February 2008):
 In my opinion, I would rather a guy try and start converstaion with me instead of hitting on me. For a few days pay attention to the little details, maybe things she reads,maybe things you have in common and spark conversations off of that. Don't worry if it doesn't come right away, just start off with small talk and move from there. Girls like it when you take an intrest or share an intrest in things that they like. If you find out that you both share an intrest for a particular thing, start with that. Hope this helped some. Good luck =]
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reader, wwwchrissy  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 All you have to do to get a girl talking is to get her talking about herself. Ask her what she likes , where she goes, what is her favorite drink etc etc. Its really not that hard. If you are interested in her then you should naturally be interested in everything about her :o) if you ask all the right questions she will do all the talking :o)
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