How do I stop our insecurities wrecking our relationship??
Q. Ok guys and gals, Im really counting on you for this one. Sorry for length. The situation is this: I started chatting to a girl about 6 months ago online, at the time that fell apart and a relative died. I helped her through this and we became c...
A. 23 April 2006: Hi Dazzerg,
I think most of what I want to say are already in everyone's posts. However, I do think it's wrong that she pokes at your wound this way. Your trust and love for her shouldn't be tested this way.
I agree with Irish49 that you... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is catholic and won't sex before marriage because of it. I don't feel the same.
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and i (both 20) have been together for just over 3 years now and we've hit a pretty big problem. She is Catholic and has a problem with sex before marriage. I am not Catholic so right now in the relationship my feelings are tell...
A. 23 April 2006: Hi,
I understand that your desire to further things and I also understand that everyone has needs. But in this case, I really think that you should respect her choice.
In my opinion, I believe that love is definitely worth more than a coup... (read in full...)
Depressed and low and been rejected so much. Any advice??
Q. Ok here's my story: Im 16 male had no relationship for a year n bin turnd down more times thn i can count. I jus given up, had enough I just feel really depressed. I have low self-confidence, I always think im ugly n worthless, that's probably ...
A. 22 April 2006: Hi cw, Confidence is something you need to work on for yourself and for that someone very special in your future. You need to break the cycle of being rejected and feeling more depressed. Try putting off dating for awhile. Discover yoursel... (read in full...)
She says she's looking at porn on the web to see what I was exposed to when I used to see strippers!?
Q. my wife and I are in our forties, both are in second marriages. I was intimate with a number of woman before my first marriage and been to strip clubs about 10 times in my life. my wife who has been with 2 guys before we met and got married. when ...
A. 22 April 2006: Hi, I am going to give you advice from my personal experience on this one so I will warn you that it may not be very objective. My husband is older than me and he dated a lot of women before I came along. It's not to say that I didn't date a ... (read in full...)
I think my gf is seeing somebody else!!!
Q. I think my gf is seeing someone but i dont know...I've been going out with her for a little over a year now and i think she may be seeing someone else, i try to confront her and ask her about it but she always avoids it or leaves me with an answer ...
A. 20 April 2006: Hi, I think you should demand for a straight answer. Why wait for her to hurt you? No one should be used as an achor or a backup. I hope you find happiness. Softie... (read in full...)
Can I make my period stop??
Q. Ok, I would reeeally appreciate advice on making a period stop. Something that acts fast. although it doesn´t need to stop for a long time.. delay it for a few days would be great. i´ve not seen my lover for a long long time ( we live apart) and ...
A. 20 April 2006: Yes. There are two ways to do it. First is as the first reply just to take the new row of birth control pills to stop your period. (The row of different color pills you are supposed to take during your period are sugar pills with no hormone.) ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to do stuff with him I'm not comfortable with... What can I say!?
Q. i have just got a boyfriend and he wants me to do things to him i dont want to say no coz ill look like a wuss and i dont want to say yes coz i dont want to what shall i do...
A. 20 April 2006: Um... niki, you posted on the forum saying that you are 11.... (read in full...)
I cheated on my gf and I'm wracked with guilt. How do I tell her?
Q. very sorry, but it's a long one. I am 23 and very happily living with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years. we weren't together over easter, i was at my parents and she was at hers, on the sunday i went out with a couple of mates, got drunk (altho...
A. 20 April 2006: Hi, I think this is a question you need to ask yourself. Would you be okay with never telling her? Lets say one day you two decide to get married. Would you feel as you deserve her love and loyalty for the rest of your life while never told her... (read in full...)
Her uncle hates me and is making our lives so difficult!
Q. Hello, Cupid. I am Rex, age 23, male and a Nigerian living in Nigeria. I have a girl which I love so dearly but along the line her uncle hate me and so makes life so difficult for us. But despite all this we are still dating. The question is, do I...
A. 20 April 2006: Hi Rexmannuel, I am not very familiar with Nigeria; however, I will give my opinion based on limited knowldege I have. 1. Is her uncle her primary father figure? Would you need to ask him for permission to marry her? If not, I don't really see... (read in full...)
I lied to her about my age because I thought she wouldn't like me. I want to tell her the truth but will she think I will always lie, in the future?
Q. Hi i have just met a girl over the phone. I got her number off a friend of mine. I havent actually met her in person ive only seen a picture of her. She likes the sound of me and i like the sound of her. But i told her a lie over the phone she asked ...
A. 20 April 2006: Hi, Come clean, hon. Relationships based on lies won't last. I have broken up with people for the same lie before except he said he was younger than he really was. By lying, you are giving her reasons not to like you. Good luck to you. Sof... (read in full...)
She went from loving me to not caring in a week. How?
Q. About 3 months ago my girlfriend of three years decided to end our relationship for reasons still unknown..we bought a house together and had been living there for about 8 months when she came home a few days in a row and said she wasn't ...
A. 20 April 2006: Hi, Your problem seems a bit harder to give advice on. However, I would like to give you a bit of information. "What is the FDA warning all about? Depression is a serious medical condition, which can lead to suicidal thoughts and behavi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to do stuff with him I'm not comfortable with... What can I say!?
Q. i have just got a boyfriend and he wants me to do things to him i dont want to say no coz ill look like a wuss and i dont want to say yes coz i dont want to what shall i do...
A. 20 April 2006: Hi niki, I will come right out and say this. NEVER EVER do anything that you are not comfortable with. It is your body and it is your choice to do or not do something. NO ONE should ever force you to do something you do not want to and no o... (read in full...)
After having a colposcopy exam, sex is just unbearable!
Q. Since having a colposcopy exam about 6 months ago ( which i found particularly distressing) i have found sex (oral and penitritive) very painful, to the extent that the strss and nerves that i feel before hand are totally putting me off sex. prior ...
A. 19 April 2006: Hi, I cannot tell from your post whether it's painful physically or just very stressful. So, I would first like to say that if it's painful physically, please go back and see the OB/GYN. If it's more mentally, I think the experience of th... (read in full...)
She feels depressed, I don't want to lose her, I want to help her...
Q. hello people once again i'm after advice or in some sense reasurrance, my relationship has it breaking point my girlfriend says she is not happy with life but although she loves me and says i've done nothing wrong she says she don't know if she can ...
A. 19 April 2006: Hi,
First of all, I would like to say that I am very glad that you are not giving up and are willing to talk to her and try to work things through.
She seems to be depressed about her life as a whole. She wishes to take some time to fin... (read in full...)
Vaginal intercourse doesn't do much for me..
Q. Alright guys. Simple question. I need tips. I can't have orgasms during sex. Clitoral orgasms are fine. My boyfriend is amazing at giving me those with his fingers, but penetrating does nothing? Advice?...
A. 19 April 2006: Hi, I definitely agree with trying different positions. A lot of women said being on top actually stimulates them better. Most women have their G-spots at different places. Some have it much farther back and some have it easier to reach.... (read in full...)
The sex is terrible... And now he ogles other women in public and jerks off to porn...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 18 months. He has intimacy issues but is a good man who I have felt pretty happy with. A few months ago, I discovered that he was looking at online porn. It bugged me a little, but I am by all means not a ...
A. 18 April 2006: Hi. This is going to sound harsh and almost selfish, but I am going to give you my opinion in all honesty. I honestly think that he has more issues than you should have to try to resolve for him. Life is too short to make yourself so miserable ... (read in full...)
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