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writes: i have just got a boyfriend and he wants me to do things to him i dont want to say no coz ill look like a wuss and i dont want to say yes coz i dont want to what shall i do Reply to this Question
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reader, niki +, writes (22 April 2006):
niki is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx anjelicdivauk i never thought of it like that
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reader, angelicdivauk  +, writes (22 April 2006):
 simple - just say exactly what you've just told us...you dont feel comfortable yet.xx
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reader, willywombat +, writes (20 April 2006):
 Say NO!!!!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (20 April 2006):
 If he really cares about you then he won't force you to do what you don't want.If he tries to force you, it shows he is only thinking of himself and not you. And you don't want to be forced to do somethng you don't want by someone who doesn't care about you, do you?Explain that you don't want to do it, that its not up for negotiation, and if he continues to hassle you then you won't want to stay his girlfriend. As for looking like a wuss... the best way to not look like a wuss is to be strong in yourself and stick up for yourself. The wuss thing to do would be to give into him. Saying 'no' will not make you look like a wuss, saying 'yes' will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006): [laughs] I can read and download your mind from my work computer. o_O
No, you umm, posted your age in the forums.
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reader, Softie +, writes (20 April 2006):
 Um... niki, you posted on the forum saying that you are 11.
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reader, niki +, writes (20 April 2006):
niki is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmartini how do you know im 11
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (20 April 2006):
 be honest tell him how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006): Aren't you 11 years of age?
Umm, anyway, if you don't want to do it, say you don't want to do it. Who the... Why the... Why would you care if he thinks your a wuss or not? Oh big whoop that you don't want to suck his thumb! Bottom line is, if you're uncomfortable, then don't do it.
Some of my umm, 'friends' want to go street racing in their Type R's and 350's. If I don't do it, would that make me a wuss? If I don't take X, because every other retard is taking it, does that make me a wuss?
A good boyfriend won't force you into anything you don't want to do.
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reader, Softie +, writes (20 April 2006):
Hi niki, I will come right out and say this. NEVER EVER do anything that you are not comfortable with. It is your body and it is your choice to do or not do something. NO ONE should ever force you to do something you do not want to and no one has the right to make you do something you do not feel comfortable with. Tell him that you are not comfortable with it and you will not do it. If he does like you or even loves you, he will respect your decision. Good luck to you.Softie
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