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I lied to her about my age because I thought she wouldn't like me. I want to tell her the truth but will she think I will always lie, in the future?

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Question - (19 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi i have just met a girl over the phone. I got her number off a friend of mine. I havent actually met her in person ive only seen a picture of her. She likes the sound of me and i like the sound of her. But i told her a lie over the phone she asked me when was my birthday i told her it was in May when its really April. I did this because i was a year younger than her and i was afraid that she would not like me because she would think i would be too young for her. I feel silly doing this to my self. What should i do. Will she think i will lie to her again. Your advice please.

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A female reader, lea22dc +, writes (20 April 2006):

Tell her the truth. It was a silly thing to lie about and it's only a year. the truth is always the way to go and considering the lie you told, she might just have a good laugh.

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A female reader, Softie +, writes (20 April 2006):

Softie agony auntHi,

Come clean, hon. Relationships based on lies won't last.

I have broken up with people for the same lie before except he said he was younger than he really was. By lying, you are giving her reasons not to like you.

Good luck to you.

Softie

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