My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!
Q. The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...
A. 12 May 2008: Girl, really, stop;put them brakes on! Let's examine the facts:
1) He is a 35 year old man. His expectations of a relationship, thus, are going to be different than yours as are his emotional needs: 22 year old men rarely marry these days (th... (read in full...)
Am I doing this correct to heal my penis.
Q. Hi I think that this is an embarrassing situation so please be gentle. I am worried about the state of the head of my penis. It has become "cracked" and dry and i have read that excessive use of soap on the penis can cause this, is this co...
A. 10 February 2008: Hmm...could be the soap...but it could also mean phimosis.Go to the doctor after you stop with the soap (have a light rinse with water instead) to rule out the first.... (read in full...)
Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?
Q. Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the ...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, Well, it has been awhile, and though I haven't had much time to go out lately I have had time to think about what has been said here. Trev and Devilish, thanks a lot; it meant a lot to hear your thoughts. I hope you don't mind an update a... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to fancy women.
Q. Hi. Is it wrong for me to fancy women? I oome from a catholic background and both my parents are against the idea of it. I enjoy sex with men, but I imagine that I'm with a woman....
A. 3 February 2008: Hey,
I also come from a Catholic background; I see nothing wrong with two ladies together (in fact I shouldn't, as my sister is currently dating a woman.)
I guess I know for a fact that a person can be gay and Catholic and still be a good pe... (read in full...)
Will I ever get another chance to be a mother?
Q. When I was 21 I had to make the most difficult decision of my life, to have an abortion. Myself and my partner have been trying for a baby for over a year. Because I haven't conceived yet, we are both blaming ourselves as he suspects he maybe ...
A. 22 January 2008: Don't worry too much; I doubt you are sterile.
My own grandmother was pregnant nine times: 3 were miscarriages, one died at birth....and the other five were healthy, fat, baby boys (including my father.) This was all in a time when prenatal... (read in full...)
What is adequate wear for a wedding, please?
Q. I've been invited to a wedding, please excuse the fact that this isn't entirely a "dear cupid" question, but I would really asppreciate some advice as to what I should wear! I haven't been to a wedding since I was 10...I'm just really stuck as ...
A. 21 January 2008: Hmm, lots to go over here... Whatever you do, do not wear the following: red, low cut, short, tight, spike heels. This is a recipe for disaster (it makes you look like are after something more than just a polite chat from one of the usher... (read in full...)
Where best to propose? Paris or restaurant on Valentine's day?
Q. I can't decide which of the two events I should use to propose to my girl friend. I originally planned to propose to her on valentine's day in the same Italian restaurant we had our first date. I have the ring and I have made arrangement at the ...
A. 21 January 2008: Hmmm....
I would probably pick Paris. Look for a spot near Notre Dame Cathedral (I believe there is a walking path there) and buy yourself a nice hot chocolate. Hide the ring in the whipped cream and ask her to stir it with a spoon. W... (read in full...)
Shall I take revenge on my ex?
Q. Dear Helpers, I just found out my ex had been cheating on me when were together and not only that he had been kissing one of my friends and some of his own. I am so angry I want to take revenge but I know it's wrong to take revenge but for my own ...
A. 21 January 2008: This is not the way to get revenge. Fraud can get you in trouble you never dreamed of-technically what you are doing is identity theft (I don't know what the penalty for this is in New Zealand, but where I am it is fairly steep: 10 years in prison ... (read in full...)
We were to be married but he dropped me for a woman with money! Can love be sold out for money?
Q. I belong from a very conservative country where people still believe in caste and religion. I was in a relationship with this guy from last 4 years. He was from a higher caste than me. He always knew but he said he doesn't believe in all this and ...
A. 19 January 2008: Hmmm. This is a tough one.
Unfortunately the truth is that it will be very hard to get him back. If you can find a way to figure out where he goes when he goes out in order to talk to him it might help a little. (Do not expect much when and... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to go places, for fear that people will ridicule me or bully me!
Q. sometimes i am afraid to go out, because i'm afraid people are going to make fun of me, laugh at me, and call me names such as ugly, EW, and etc.There was this one situation during summer I was at a store a random women told her friend that I am ...
A. 19 January 2008: Hmmm.....
Reading your post brings back a few memories: when I was younger I was also the target of some really nasty people and even nastier remarks: people thought I was crazy because half of the time I would be muttering things to myself a... (read in full...)
We are in love but my parents won't agree to our relationship. What should I do, marry him anyway or forget him?
Q. i love a guy and he too loves me a lot,but my parents wont agree for our relationship, due the circumstances he is telling let us forget and marry the person our parents like. how should i react and wat should i do. should i marry him or forget...
A. 19 January 2008: Poor girl.My heart goes out to you.
Listen, think of it from a practical point of view: if you let your parents decide for you who to marry, you have no guarantees of the man they choose: you'll be entering a marriage where you basicall... (read in full...)
Can getting a girlfriend make you bad at sports?
Q. I was wondering if it is true that sometimes when people get a girlfriend they start to get worse at sports? I was wondering because I really like this girl, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out because I've always heard that girl friends make ...
A. 19 January 2008: Can getting a girlfriend make you worse at sports?-I am happy to say that the likelihood of this is very, very unlikely. Think about how many basketball players there are out there with wives or girlfriends (watch the television-yep, those are them ... (read in full...)
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