My sister and I are in love. Should we continue our relationship?
Q. I've always thought of my self as an ideal big brother. My household has always been unstable home. Having a natural protective nature to those close to me since birth, In my infancy I had made it my silent duty to defend my little sister from ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi,
Youve done a good job up to now and youve been the best big brother that she could have ever wanted, keep on doing that.
Your sister needs you now to be strong and to realise that she needs protecting now, not just from your feelings but from... (read in full...)
Dazed and Confused! Please help!
Q. I left the father of my son and partner of 6yrs for my childhood sweetheart who after 3 months broke my heart for the second time. I then went on to find myself a new man, which I might add is totally in love with me and I love him to bits, minus ...
A. 4 September 2007: Hi,
Youre romantisizing about your childhood sweetheart, he isn't exactly what you think he is and obviously not good for you, when youre together you end up breaking up and when youre apart you want him.
Move on and at least give this new guy a ch... (read in full...)
Completely move on or just do my own thing and wait?
Q. Completely move on or just do my own thing and wait? I'm in love with a girl (she currently has a bf) and she knows it. She'd do things like let me hold her, sleep next to her (never spoon or ne thing like that), and slow dance with me, while t...
A. 8 July 2007: Is she gay? you say she has a boyfriend so she could be bi,or maybe shes straight and doesnt know how to behave around you after you confessed your love for her.think about it when you two were just best mates nothing could have a double meaning, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never wants to have sex anymore!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. When we first got together it was without a doubt the happiest that I have ever been in my life. But now things have changed and I don´t know what to do. She doesn´t want to have sex with ...
A. 29 June 2007: I agree with the other aunts to give it some time but dont just let it slip into oblivion, it is very easy to leave it alone so as not to rock the boat. There are many reasons why this sort of thing happens, but comunication and understanding is the ... (read in full...)
My 17 year old friend is going out with a 28 year old and I don't approve
Q. My mate who's 17 is going out with a 28 year old... She says they are very much in love. Should I accept it coz if I tell her to stop seeing him I know she'll just carry on. What can I do?...
A. 14 June 2007: What business is it of yours,
Sure if he's abusing her or in the isle of man she's under age or anything like that then step in but first think about it, in any relationship that breaks the mold especially age gap relationships the main problem ... (read in full...)
Marriend and looking for extramarital sex with no strings
Q. How do I find a discreet sensual partner without ties? I am a mature man with longstanding domestic committments but with a still strong sexual interest. My partner has had no interest in lovemaking for a long time and I am very frustrated. I ha...
A. 14 June 2007: Disrupting what MARRIAGE, Talk to your wife and tell her what you intend to do, see what she thinks, this is an AFFAIR that you are talking about.
If you cheat on your wife then you have no marriage, if she has a problem with sex then talk to ... (read in full...)
I miss the passion in my affair with the bad boy
Q. I have been married for 8 yrs.24 months ago we were having a rocky relationship and were having counselling. I was emotionally down and depressed during this time and wrongly turned to a friend of mine for comfort. We ended up having an affair and I ...
A. 14 June 2007: Here, I'll Say it Straight,
THE GRASS ALWAYS LOOKS GREENER THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE,ever heard that one, like Uncle J I too get a reaction when I hear women saying that they have to look outside their marriage for love, Tread very carefull... (read in full...)
Anyone else in a large age gap?? I'd love to know!
Q. Ive been in an age gap relationship for 3 years, me and my partner got married last year and life couldn't be better. Im 20 and he is 59 so a 39 year age gap. Sometimes I feel like we are the only people in the world with a big age gap but I ...
A. 12 June 2007: Hi, it's good to see so many positive posts here, normally when someone posts an age gap question then the same old reasons get wheeled out yet again, kids, pensions, "when your forty, he'll be eighty" etc etc, SO WHAT, there are so many other re... (read in full...)
I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower.
Q. I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower. when i got the chance t look through her phone i saw text messages to another guy. now she claims that her and this guy are just ...
A. 10 June 2007: Hi, Been in your shoes and i know where you are, i know that you try very hard to believe that it couldn't be happening, but it is,she is cheating on you, no easy way of saying it, Bite the bullet, tell her that your not happy with it, she is not b... (read in full...)
I don't have a house or a family to support, so I send money to my ex to help her out, after all it IS my money to do with as I want!
Q. Ok, heres the situation. I am still in touch with my first girlfriend from 25 years ago. She lives in another country and we see each other every couple years or so. She is divorced and has 2 kids. I dated her before she married and had the kids, ...
A. 9 June 2007: If you are a single person then no body should tell you what you should do with your own money. If you are in a relationship then her opinion counts, however if you are just helping out a friend then that should be all that it is taken as, the only ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him?
Q. hi im julia im 14 from uk. i have not been sexually active in a term i can relate to (if that makes sense) when i was 13 i was abused and raped and left naked in my own bedroom while my parents had nipped over the road to see a friend, i said i w...
A. 29 April 2007: Dave has given you some very sound advise and it's very well put, you won't go far wrong listening to him,
Sorry for what you've been through will never be enough but by progressing slowly and thinking about what steps you take and when you'll g... (read in full...)
My 29 year old husband has been seeing a woman of 64!
Q. hello i was wondering if you can help me with this sensitive problem. i'm 23, my husband is 29 and we've been married for a year and together since we were 17. a good friend told me she'd seen my husband with a 64-year-old woman. she...
A. 25 April 2007: When he gets back confront him again, ask him wether he wants to be with her or wether it was a joke, I had a friend who was suspicious of his wife checking up on his every move, he did a similar thing when he knew a friend of hers was eavesdropping ... (read in full...)
It seems like I can't offer him anything but my heart and my love... Will this work?
Q. Well i am an 18 year old girl who is currently dating a 35 year old who will turn 36 next month when we are together its so perfect its like time stops and were so happy with each other and the age difference doesnt even make any difficult ...
A. 25 April 2007: Realistically, thats all you should be offering, if thats not enough then prehaps its not ment to be,
The age difference is not a problem, its only other people on the outside of a relationship that have problems with age gaps.
HELL, if you both... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a relationship with a 30yr age gap ?
Q. im in love with someone who is 30yrs older than me, is it possible for people with such different time gaps to be in a serious long term relationship..any thoughts on this much appreciated xxxx ty...
A. 22 April 2007: Hey, Sue
Most of what you say could relate to problems in any relationship, I know some people in their twenties that are more set in thier ways than some of the fifty year olds that i know.
Relationships have problems, there is no shch thing as... (read in full...)
If hes cumming and we are not using a condom does that mean I'm pregnant!?
Q. While me and my boyfriend are having sex,he says "Im cumming" Does that mean im pregnant if he doesnt use a condom?...
A. 3 April 2007: yes,if your boyfriend ejaculates(cum's)inside you and neither of you are using protection the chances of you getting pregnant are very high.... (read in full...)
Are inter-racial relationships a bad thing?
Q. I am white and i have a black boyfriend is there ANYTHING wrong with that? ...
A. 8 February 2007: no nothing at all... (read in full...)
I'm a recovering alcoholic. I'm just wondering, in new relationships is it best not to mention it until later?
Q. It's been four weeks since I split with my ex. I can now see what a damaging relationship it was. She had so many issues, played so many mind games and lied so much that I can now see that I should have got out much sooner. I have not made contact ...
A. 20 January 2007: fistly congratulations on 3years sober your obviously a strong person:-)
Being a recovering alcoholic is nothing to be ashamed of,quite the obvious in fact. If your going to date honesty is usually the best policy,if the person you like cant deal... (read in full...)
We cry all the time b/c we live 60 miles away and rarely see each other. Any advice?
Q. i have a girlfriend that i have not seen in almost a year, we talk a lot over the phone and have done since we last saw each other, the reason i have not seen her in nearly a year is ecause she lives 60 miles away, we love each other very much but ...
A. 17 January 2007: 60 miles,!!! I had a girlfriend who put the phone down on me once, (she was like that and she was soon my ex) anyway, I borrowed a car and drove over three hundred miles and banged on her door at midnight just to finish the rest of the conversation, ... (read in full...)
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