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writes:Well i am an 18 year old girl who is currently dating a 35 year old who will turn 36 next month when we are together its so perfect its like time stops and were so happy with each other and the age difference doesnt even make any difficult situations on us, but see he says he loves me with all his heart and he cant breathe and he just wants to spend every moment with me, and i feel the same way, do you think we have a possible chance of ever making it all the way, he says if i want marriage or kids in life he wants to give it to me, but see he has 3 kids from a perviosuly relationship they were never married but he fell out of love with her about 6 years ago, im just concerned on where this will lead for us, i want him and only him, i love his kids im not talking about him not seeing them, oh and to top things off he has so much money, i mean he is a very intelligent buisness man, and he buys 5 thousand dollars watches and i feel like i have to live up to his expectations, which i think he has, but if you ask him he'll tell you different, it seems like i cant offer him anything only my heart and love. What do i do? Are we okay for each other? plz give me some advicethanks
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reader, kaziajade  +, writes (26 April 2007):
if you feel ok and happy in this relationship then stick at it, just try not to get to emotionally involved whilst your havin these doubts jus have fun
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reader, Say It Straight +, writes (25 April 2007):
Realistically, thats all you should be offering, if thats not enough then prehaps its not ment to be,
The age difference is not a problem, its only other people on the outside of a relationship that have problems with age gaps.
HELL, if you both love each other and are happy and want to be together then you've got it all, GO FOR IT, good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): It sounds like your relationship is something all couples should aspire to have. Although I don't know how long you have been dating for, you both seem to be in love with each other and to know each other very well, and if this understanding and love continues, you have a better chance than most of making it all the way!
The one thing about the age difference is that you might get a few close-minded gossips, jealous of your happiness, trying to hurt you and your man. But only 200 years ago your ages would have been considered perfectly normal in a couple; which just goes to show that as long as you are both happy, there is no right or wrong age difference.
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