He stares and smiles at me, does he fancy me?
Q. Theres this guy and ive seen him on my daily routine for awhile when im out and about and i always catch him staring at me and the other day for the first time we were on the same path which had road works and he walked on to the road to let me ...
A. 12 September 2009: hey hun
have u guys only stared and smiled? or do you actually have conversations? if not then thats the first step! even if your shy just make like a comment on the weather or something phatic :) if u see each other lots then it should be easy... (read in full...)
I feel a bit left out...
Q. I am just starting grade 12. I have my group of friends that I always hang out with at school. I recently found out that for the past year and a half they have gotten together on saturdays at one of their houses and I have never been invited. ...
A. 10 September 2009: just ask them
if they are horrible about it then they are not friends worth haveing
ok so dont rule out simple mistakes, mayb thay are just doing some activity they dont think u will enjoy, or they think you are busy on saturdays??
its bette... (read in full...)
How to prevent pregnancy?
Q. I am in a relationship and we have had our first baby together. I'm on the pill but I still don't want to get pregnant again. My partner doesn't enjoy sex with a condom so what other ways can prevent pregnancy??...
A. 10 September 2009: you should go to a GP there are injections and coils that can be inserted in your arm that will provent pregnancy, discuss with ur doctor, or even an info shop your options and which u can use along side your pill there are also female condoms a... (read in full...)
How can I let him know I like him?
Q. Today my guy friend on the bus made fun of his cousin sitting next to me so I would laugh. He said mad a dumb blond joke about me and I said that he was a natural blond and since he was a guy that he was stupid and he laughed.Does a guy like you? If ...
A. 10 September 2009: something i'v recently learned, its best to say something! believe me :) if u make it clear than u dont want to threaten any friendship u already have with him it should b cool if hes the decent kinda guy but isnt it best to say something than al... (read in full...)
How far would a partner need to go for it to be considered as cheating???
Q. hi What would your girlfriend/boyfriend have to do for you to consider they have cheated on you? Thanks I'm really confused right now :( x x x x...
A. 9 January 2009: I think it depends on the people to be honest hun. For some it's just a kiss, personally if my boyfriend kissed another girl and he was drunk then I'd forgive but maybe make him pay a bit ;-) but sober there's no excuse. If he'd slept with someone ... (read in full...)
I can't handle my girlfriends past!
Q. I am a 26 year old guy and am in relationship with a 24 year old girl.I am deeply troubled by her sexual past. My girlfriend is a caring,lovely person,she is highly emotional and friendly person. My girlfriend was molested multiple times by her uncl...
A. 3 January 2009: previous posters are right, she needs help it seems her sleeping with so many guys is a result of her abuse and she need to talk through this wih professionals
and hun try not to let things from her past hurt you, u'v gotta b there for her, thi... (read in full...)
In love with my first cousin
Q. Omg... I'm in a big dilemma, so I fell in love with my first cousin. Yes I know it sounds nasty but it really isnt. I never knew who he was. I knew he existed somewhere in the map but we were never brought up together. One summer he came to visit my ...
A. 3 January 2009: althou u were brought up apart ur still blood related
if u think about it u share grandparents, ur parents r brother n sister (etc)
thts way to close to comfort besides the fact its illeagel (not sure on US laws but it must be??)
theres wa... (read in full...)
I feel he is a bit distant and I think he still love his ex-girlfriend.
Q. Hi I have been dating this guy for 3 months. We met in a online site and things are going really slowly. He says he is serious and wants a long term relationship. His ex-girl friend broke up with him 9 months ago. After 2 months he left the onli...
A. 3 January 2009: heya hun
just to say i kno how u feel, my guy works lots and i barely see him but what u gotta do hun is just make the most of the time u do have, if he works as much as he says then its understandable if hes tired
dont let the thoughts of an e... (read in full...)
I don't know where I stand and it's driving me nuts!
Q. Dear Cupid, Basically, I met this girl (she's a friend of an aquaintance), we really clicked, got on really well, and eventually ended up kissing... we said goodnight etc, and were texting each other when we got in and she ended up saying that "...
A. 6 April 2008: it seems like she may have a confidence issue
like she cannot believe that you would be interested in her
in which case you should reassure her or offer to take her out or something
if it was just a drunken thing messing around then i dont thin... (read in full...)
14, Is my height the reason why I can't get a Boyfriend?
Q. I am a freshman, 14 years old, tall (5'8''), brown hair, brown eyes, smart, funny and sorta pretty, people call me pretty sometimes. I have a good personality and i have never had a boyfriend. I don't have that much self-confidence and i am really ...
A. 11 October 2007: i agree i think it might be your confidence
guys pick up on things like that, thay want confident girls and dont want to make fools of themselves (at that age) by asking out a girl they are not certain likes them back but by no means do yoo not be u... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for teenagers to kiss numerous people in a single night at a disco?
Q. Where I've grown up boys start kissing girls at about the age of 10 or 11 at discos and that out on friday nights, I suppose thats all cute and innocent in the past, no tongues barely for any longer than 5 seconds. I first went with someone at the ...
A. 10 October 2007: your a teenager, this i guess is expected
your not having a relationship with these girls so your not hurting them as such
just dont be rude to them when you see them, to me it doesnt seem like your ready for a relationship so you shouldnt thr... (read in full...)
I've just started high school and like this cute guy. How can I get him to like me?
Q. I am only 12 and just started high school but I have seen this really cute guy, problem is guys never like me because I'm probably pretty but I have spots on my face. Please can anyone tell me how I can get him to like me it would help me more than ...
A. 10 October 2007: i used to have spots all through high school so i know how you feel
in a perfect world if he is a nice guy then he wont care how you look but we live in a superficial world and men are naturally drawn to the more attractive - tis not their faul... (read in full...)
She found out I looked at porn and now she's broken up with me. How can I tell her I adore her?
Q. Hey, I'm new to this whole thing but I am in a bad spot. I looked at porn a few times on the internet and lied to my giirlfriend about it. We have been together for almost a year and she wants to break up over it. She is really hurt and I feel like ...
A. 10 October 2007: porn can be a difficult subject
like the previous posts i agree that lying about it made it much much worse but the clocks cannot be turned back
what you need to do is reassure ur girl, she probably feels unattractive because you were looking... (read in full...)
My oldest brother sexually abused me and left scars on my body. I want to tell someone, but I don't know if I could handle it.
Q. This may end up being rather long so i apologise in advance - its just tht i hav never really spoken about it in detail and i need help before it consumes me I think i was about 11 or so when it happend am not sure but i kno i was still in junior ...
A. 10 October 2007: thank you so much for your responces
your advice has been useful but i still have not been able to discuss it fully
i have spoken to others than my bf about it but still no one knows it was my brother who did it
i still cant bring myself to... (read in full...)
I cheated on him, so we broke up. Now he wants me back - and wants me to leave my hometown and go live with him!
Q. Ok we have known each other since we were 16 years old. We met in a fantasy not even looking for love. So we start off as friends and keep in touch over the years. Nine years later we decide to take it to the next level after just being in a ...
A. 10 October 2007: him asking you to move to where he is is probably a kind of test to see how much he means to you unfair i know but he probably needs this reasurance
i wouldnt go rushing into things, it didnt work last time exactly so i think you should iron out... (read in full...)
Why is it weird to use tongues?
Q. Why is it so weird to tongue someone for the first time? I mean, when I did it, i realli didnt enjoy it. I prefered just kissing to be honest. This makes me scared, is it always like that? Will sex be the same? Or is it jst coz im bad? I need help!...
A. 10 October 2007: relax!
the first kiss is bound to be a bit dodgy but dont worry
you are bound to get lots of pracise in over time your still young
you were probably nervous so this could have dampend the enjoyment but over time you will learn what you do and ... (read in full...)
My man-boobs are uneven. Am I normal?
Q. Dear: READERS I would like to ask you a question that i dont want to go to the doctors about it as its silly. Recently i was looking at my chest/man boobs and my left one seems to be a bit upper then my right one, and i see the line where my le...
A. 10 October 2007: as a male you have probably noticed that womens breasts are not always even but atleast we have bras hey that kind of desguise the fact
anyways i dont think you have a health problem as such aslong as there are no hard lumps then i think you are ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have female friends?
Q. Is it ok for married man to have female friends? No sex just talking on the phone and text messaging? ...
A. 10 October 2007: i think it depends on the couple
if you are not jealous and male friend of your own then personally i think it is ok
if you deffinantly know that nothing is going on between them then it is ok he probably sees her as a sister or something or ... (read in full...)
I couldn't be pregnant because of this, right??
Q. Hi, a couple of weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were at my friends sixteenth. Me and him went upstairs, and were having dry sex, but my knickers were down and his boxers were off. He didn't go inside me, but his dick was there and came. afterward...
A. 24 September 2007: you could be pregnant yes ther doesnt hav to be intercourse but if sperm can reach an egg ther is a possability but dont let your mind race untill you hav taken a test i was in a similar sit recently we used protection but i was then two weeks... (read in full...)
My bf beat me up, now he wants to talk about it and it's making me uncomfortable! Am I reacting how I should?
Q. a while back my boyfriend beat the crap out of me, like literally. i don't even want to talk about it. and for some silly reason i decided to stay with him. now he's getting into the wanting to talk about it phase and the other night he was like "ho...
A. 24 September 2007: a way to explore your thoughts is to right them down sounds silly i kno but it helps you say you dont what to talk about what your bf did to you so mayb you should write it all down tht way you will soon find out how you feel in my eyes you s... (read in full...)
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