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*ovestuck95
writes:I am only 12 and just started high school but I have seen this really cute guy, problem is guys never like me because I'm probably pretty but I have spots on my face. Please can anyone tell me how I can get him to like me it would help me more than anything?
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reader, lovestuck95 +, writes (10 October 2007):
lovestuck95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm off to da cinema wiv im n mi m8 n his m8
its really hard to tell im
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reader, JonHD +, writes (10 October 2007):
 Having suffered with acne myself i am well aware of how it can make talking to someone you like a little bit more trouble than its worth. Its hard to say best way to get rid of the spots since everyone responds diffrently to diffrent products, even now i have a few spots. If i might recommend however, Savlon i have found it to work even on my stubbon spots and if you find that isnt having alot of effect you can always get spot pills (which i shall admit i take) they work, but you will prob find it easier (and cheaper) to wait until they start to fade on their own. A doctor can perscribe them, just tell him you are haveing a hard time losing your spots.As for the guy himself, as already has been suggested try and learn abit about the guy first ( i know, easier said than done right? ) talk to a few people that know him, try to avoid being to upfront with the questions since you dont want to drop the hint before you feel ready. I know asking random people about someone else is at the very least...embarrasing awkward, but take it from a guy point of view it could very well pay off in the end. A few hints in general which you will find will work best when talking to guys are Confidence, all guys enjoy girls that are confident makes them feel like that girl is more of challenge and isnt afraid to be herself, guys are drawn to that like moths to flys.Dont be afraid to be a little rude to him either, nothing horrible ofcourse but tease him abit, play hard to get i guess would be the word to a degree.Make eye contact and dont be afraid to get a little touchey feeley, a stroke of the hand and grip of the arm, remember now, boys at that age hormones are going crazy so a simple touche will drive them wild inside.Take careJon
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 Ehh, You might have messed up there. If you really like him you should have told him so, now if you approach him he might think you are messing with him. The best thing I ca tell you is that you should just tell him you like him. Your never gonna know until you try.
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reader, lovestuck95 +, writes (10 October 2007):
lovestuck95 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is nearly 12blonde wowfriend but not besti met his best friend firstsome1 told him that i fancied him so like a girl wud i told him otherwise
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (10 October 2007):
I don't even have to see a picture of you to tell you that you are a beautiful young lady. Do not ever let anyone, even yourself, tell you any different.
If you would like some adivce, I would need to know a little more about your situation.
How close to the young man are you? Is he in your circle of friends, or did you just happen to see him and fall for him?
What grade is he in? Age isn't very important, but knowing his age would give me a better idea of who he is.
What kind of guy is he? Is he friendly, or is he a loner?
The more deatils you can give me about him and your current relationship the more help I can be.
Looking forward to hearing from you!!
XxAngeldust89xX
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reader, S - soadlover :-) +, writes (10 October 2007):
 i used to have spots all through high school so i know how you feel
in a perfect world if he is a nice guy then he wont care how you look but we live in a superficial world and men are naturally drawn to the more attractive - tis not their fault
am not saying that spots make you unattractive - no ways
kiera knightley has a special team who touch up her pictures and films to hide her acne
anyways what i would do is get to know this lad first, get to know him as a person not a cute face or fit body but never change yourself to be more appealing to him - just be yourself
if you are that bothered about your skin try creams etc i found that not many worked and that it is better to go to the doctors
if he doesnt like you then it is his loss, you seem like a lovely girl and there are lots and lots on lads out there, and you are still young so dont go leaping into things
good luck - take care x
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