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Why is it weird to use tongues?

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Question - (10 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2007)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why is it so weird to tongue someone for the first time? I mean, when I did it, i realli didnt enjoy it. I prefered just kissing to be honest. This makes me scared, is it always like that? Will sex be the same? Or is it jst coz im bad? I need help!

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A female reader, S - soadlover :-) United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2007):

S - soadlover :-) agony auntrelax!

the first kiss is bound to be a bit dodgy but dont worry

you are bound to get lots of pracise in over time your still young

you were probably nervous so this could have dampend the enjoyment but over time you will learn what you do and dont like and begin to relax more and enjoyment will come easier

there could be a number of factors why it was not as you expected, maybe the situation or timing wasnt right or maybe it was who you were kissing

if you find that kissing with tongues is not for you then dont stress believe me you will find things that you do like :-)

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A male reader, CLHLCRS United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2007):

different people like different things. you not liking that has nothing to do with sex but more to do with personal preference. it's nothing to do with being bad either, maybe it's just not your thing.

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