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writes:I am just starting grade 12. I have my group of friends that I always hang out with at school. I recently found out that for the past year and a half they have gotten together on saturdays at one of their houses and I have never been invited. This weekend they are having a party with each other and some other mutual friends from camp. Should I confront them and invite myself over, or should I casually bring up the subject and ask what's going on on the weekend and hope to be invited or should I try some other approach? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): I agree with Soadlover ... ask to be included, if they're rude, they're not your freinds and don't deserve you.
The exciting thing is that your at a point in your life where you're going to be able to start being more in control of who your freinds are.
I hope that you're headed to college- that's where i was finally able to make freinds with people that I had alot in common with and find a great crowd of people that I'm still close to. Life can get alot better than it was in high school!
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reader, S - soadlover :-)  +, writes (10 September 2009):
 just ask them
if they are horrible about it then they are not friends worth haveing
ok so dont rule out simple mistakes, mayb thay are just doing some activity they dont think u will enjoy, or they think you are busy on saturdays??
its better to ask them, it would be awkward if u just turn up at the party so casually mention it
or you could suggest things for you all to do at the wkends?
just dont beat urself up about it hun, its not your fault if they are being inconsiderate
hope it goes well x
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