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30-35,
*oungandconfused
writes:Where I've grown up boys start kissing girls at about the age of 10 or 11 at discos and that out on friday nights, I suppose thats all cute and innocent in the past, no tongues barely for any longer than 5 seconds. I first went with someone at the age of 12 at the usual 'make-out' spot and I suppose that was still a bit pre-teen. but now I'm older, 15, and sometimes go out to the rock clubs on friday night.I remember the first time I went there it was one of the best nights of my life, it was just crazy like nothing like anything I'd ever seen. I didn't drink that night but drink more and more each time I go. I know some people who could be kissing 5 to 8 different people in one night!? I usually go with someone about once per night, I heard once that you tongue with someone, you retain their saliva for weeks which is kinda gross. So I was talking to some of the people that wouldn't usually go out to discos or clubs and they seemed a bit horrified that me and my friends would be drinking or kissing many people on one night. It made me feel slightly insecure and out of it, which isnt usually something I feel.Is there something wrong with what me and friends get up to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): This isn't necessarily wrong. It's really how you feel about it. Obviously, you do have some hesitation, or you won't be here asking the question.
When it comes down to it, ultimately, you probably think about how others perceive you more than how you feel about it.
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reader, S - soadlover :-)  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 your a teenager, this i guess is expected
your not having a relationship with these girls so your not hurting them as such
just dont be rude to them when you see them, to me it doesnt seem like your ready for a relationship so you shouldnt throw yourself into one
you'll have years to find the right person just make sure you dont let some one special slip away
its not like your having one night stands
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Are you kissing men & women? I don't know if its necessarily wrong, but I don't see why you feel the need to kiss as many ppl. in 1 night as possible. And at 15, you should not be drinking anyways. Are you trying to prove to yourselves that you can get girls, is that why you do it?
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