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My name is Danial. I am 22 years old and immigrated to USA from Pakistan a month ago. I live in Virginia.
I am not a successful guy as far as relationship with a girl is considered. I got betrayed in my only one time relation I had in my life uptill now that lasted for 3 years. I did everything that a crazy devoted partner would do for his girl like telling her that she is a fairy and there is not such a beauty in the world like she is, telling her "I LOVE YOU" 5 times in a day, taking care of her diet and health, carrying her books in the uni all the time etc etc. But still she cheated on me several times in the relation and I kept forgiving as I loved her like hell. But as I moved to America, she broke up with me with the excuse of me being un-Islamic and that she did not needed me anymore. She did all that on the facebook infront of the world. I was dead inside.
I am a born Muslim but I do not believe in Islam.
As far as helping people, I like to sympathise and condole with people going through the same phase that I have gone through and still suffering. Feel free to talk to me. I will always like to help the hurt like me. |
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How do I find out if this beautiful cashier at Target has a boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone. I posted it yesterday but did not get a single reply. Help me out here please. It is long but it is interesting. Please give me 5 minutes. It is the 6th month in USA. I guess I have done good in the new country. Have a job, doing c...
A. 13 August 2011: Thankyou so much everyone. There are 2 things I want to clear here. Technically we are not co-workers. She works in one area(apparels) and I work in another area(everything other than apparels). So being co-workers is not going to be an issue her... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him or finish everything?
Q. i am in relation from last 4 yrs. We both love each other, but my partner is very hot tempered. I never wanted to hide anything frm him, he is my first and last love. i have many male friends, yesterday i told him about my phone chat with one of my ...
A. 1 August 2011: Hi there. Forgive me in advance cause I am going to be blunt and straight forward. You cannot forgive him cause he is not apologizing. And as far as it is concerned, he should only apologize for calling you "characterless". This is the only mistake ... (read in full...)
Can't get over 4 year relationship, feeling depressed and lonely. Help.
Q. Hi everyone. It is me again. I just keep asking for help. Don't I ;) Well the problem is the same. But with a new symptom now. It is the 6th month since she dumped me after a relation of 4 years for another guy in only 10 days after my departur...
A. 18 July 2011: I have immigrated. She was committed with me and I was going to marry her. She sent me with a promise to never leave me for anyone. And are you saying that if there are loveable people around you, you dump relationships? If that is the law of ... (read in full...)
Girls like jerks and reject the nice guys?
Q. I posted this a week ago but didn't get any replies. So I am trying again today cause I want some advise. I m really down. After being dumped by my gf of 4 years for another guy 5 months ago and after most of the healing process, when I tried to ...
A. 5 July 2011: Thankyou all of you who replied. I have a job and I am starting networking certifications next weak too. I went for a job 3 months ago and got it. I am a very witty guy trust me. I crack jokes all the time. It is this incident that has injected ... (read in full...)
Can I make my man's penis bigger?
Q. hi am a 21 year old woman and i have a problem my fiance have a small pennis and i real love him so much we are getting married by december what am i suppose to do?is there anything that can help to grew up his pennis?please help me....
A. 3 July 2011: You don't love him dear.
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Nice Guys
Q. Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...
A. 1 July 2011: Follow-the-black-rabbit; if I was near you, I would have saluted you literally. Chigirl; 1. I am not edicted to video games. 2. I was and am confident. 3. I held her tight in my arms and gave her everything in the world I could. I INVESTED mys... (read in full...)
Nice Guys
Q. Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...
A. 1 July 2011: Follow-the-black-rabbit; if I was near you, I would have saluted you literally. Chigirl; 1. I am not edicted to video games. 2. I was and am confident. 3. I held her tight in my arms and gave her everything in the world I could. I INVESTED mys... (read in full...)
Help me romance her with roses to show how beautiful she really is!
Q. hi I have a new gf, but I want to show her how beautiful I think she is, but I have a idea, but need advice on if its good or bad. basically im going to buy a bunch of roses(12 but take one out), and give them to her, with the one of followin...
A. 27 May 2011: Dont give her so much value. She will one day leave you for someone else. They are like that. I was like you. More than this. She left me for someone else. The more you stay reserved, the more they will get attracted. Just give her the roses. Dnt ... (read in full...)
I've been hurt and I'm not sure how to proceed with this new relationship..
Q. Hello everyone. I need quick help with my situation. It might be a little long but your time and attention would be most appreciated. Some background information (I have again and again posted on this site about myself and in my profile too and got ...
A. 12 May 2011: I am the one who posted this. I most of the time think about this. Yeah if that happens I will tell her that she hurt me a lot and there is no way we are going to be together now. I have tried to tell her this not directly but as hints and she said... (read in full...)
Why is first love so hard to get over?
Q. Why is first love so hard to get over? It's been 15 months since my girlfriend dumped but I still find it tough getting over here. Every night, I see here appearing in my dreams. any help from you guys in this regard would truly be appreciated. ...
A. 30 April 2011: Hey man! We are on the same boat. I was also from Pakistan. 2 months ago when I moved to USA, my grlfriend and my 1st love who was my everything, DUMPED ME. We were together for 4 years. It has been 2 months and I still get dreams of her running ... (read in full...)
I just cant move on even after I quit communicating with her. Help!
Q. Hello everyone. Please help me. I just need your 10 mins. I need love. It has been 2 months since I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years. I live and die everyday. I moved to USA from Pakistan 2 months ago and after 10 days she dumped me. After...
A. 26 April 2011: I am the guy who posted it. No you stand misunderstood a little here. I was never underconfident. I was the one who used to give her confidence when she was out of it. I used to encourage her on various things. This underconfidence has come now in ... (read in full...)
Confused that BF interrupted love making to use bathroom.
Q. Can someone explain this to me? Woke up when the alarm went off this morning, bf of 7 months was kissing my neck...so we ended up having sex, and kinda half way through, he stops and says "gotta go, baby"...I was like, "go where?" and he jumps out ...
A. 31 March 2011: Yes. Only when you do right after you wake up in the morning. At that time. the bladder is full. And it is not a good idea to have sex right after you wake up. It can damage the penis as the urine pressure is there and you are trying to have an ... (read in full...)
She liked that guys flirted with her, I broke it off, but I can't get over her and she wont talk to me!
Q. SO this is my story. I dated this girl 2 years ago ...now after a year and 10 months she was texting a guy behind my back i forgave her ...then again there was another guy that flirted wiht her on fb and she liked the post! now i dont like that and...
A. 26 March 2011: And yeah one thing more buddy! This is the link to my story if you want to get some courage and move on. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-going-to-be-ditched.html... (read in full...)
She liked that guys flirted with her, I broke it off, but I can't get over her and she wont talk to me!
Q. SO this is my story. I dated this girl 2 years ago ...now after a year and 10 months she was texting a guy behind my back i forgave her ...then again there was another guy that flirted wiht her on fb and she liked the post! now i dont like that and...
A. 26 March 2011: Superman123!!! Now I am going to beg you to let her go man!!! Listen my name is Danial. I don't want to see another Danial get repeated. Man what you are wanting to do, I did it a lot of times. We had sex several times. EVEN THEN SHE DITCHED ... (read in full...)
She liked that guys flirted with her, I broke it off, but I can't get over her and she wont talk to me!
Q. SO this is my story. I dated this girl 2 years ago ...now after a year and 10 months she was texting a guy behind my back i forgave her ...then again there was another guy that flirted wiht her on fb and she liked the post! now i dont like that and...
A. 25 March 2011: Just let her go. She has used you. What Shigirl has said, I disagree 90% with her. Only doing hardcore sex is cheating in your dictionary? Yes ma'am when you are in a relationship, you ARE responsible for taking care of your partner's feelings... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend always smell like urine?
Q. Dear All, I have a big-big problem with my boyfriend. He is an Indian, 24, and for 3 months we are living together in Germany. I love him very much, he is perfect in every way for me, but I have a big problem. Everything he is wearing smell...
A. 5 March 2011: Hey I am from the same culture and I know certain foods that result in this smell from the pours of your body. Does he eat "methi"? It is a vegetable that looks similar to spinach. But man its smell comes in sweat, urine everywhere. Just figure that ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin! How do I explain to my boyfriend that I am not ready?
Q. I've been in a relationship for about six months, and my boyfriend and I are very attracted to each other. He's made it clear from early in the relationship that he'd like to have sex, or at least be more intimate. I'm nowhere near ready, and have ...
A. 10 October 2009: Well the best I can understand from you is that you want to give him yourself but you are not giving him right now because of the following 2 reasons: 1. You are afraid of sex. 2. His past haunts you as the relation will be over soon as the your... (read in full...)
Hate spending time with boyfriend.
Q. I'm really confused I've been alone for so long,and have been so unhappy.I finally meet a really great guy,and its all going wrong. At first when I thought he didnt like me, i found him really attractive. We started seeing each other as just ...
A. 2 October 2009: Oh my God! You are ignoring him? Girl wake up. He is an angel always wanting you and you ignoring him. You will be crying one day on loosin him.... (read in full...)
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