How to talk to guys? How can I put my fears aside? I worry about being rejected
Q. How do I get more confident around new guys? I'm 16 and I'm kind of shy around people when I first meet them, especially guys. Obviously once I get to know the guys I don't care about trying to impress them or doing weird stuff, its just at first...
A. 11 December 2015: I had similar problems when i was your age. Fear of rejection is hard. An easy way to strike up a conversation with a guy is find a common interest. If he is playing a game of ultimate frisbee ask if you can join (or you and your friend if you don't ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my boyfriend will end things during the holidays
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out since February 2015 and we are from different countries but living and working in the same place and that's where we met. Its Christmas time and we are both going to our home countries. He hadn't asked me how ...
A. 11 December 2015: well first off are you officially together or is it just a we are "seeing each other" kind of thing. If you haven't established an actual relationship then he doesn't have to stay in contact with you. If you do have a title and you are in a ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love but he hasn't called me in a week
Q. So here is my problem. I think that I am in love. This makes absolutely no sense. Here is my story... I was in his class, he was my professor, I his student. There was some sexual comments made but never to the extent where someone would report it, ...
A. 15 March 2012: To all those who answered this question, thanks for your advice. Against all better judgement I went with my "heart" and got it smashed into little pieces. The professor and I no longer speak and I am now seeing an amazing man who loves me for being ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my boyfriend or give my ex another chance?
Q. Hello, My question isn't a dire circumstance as most questions on this site often are. It is just a confusing situation. About a month ago I was in school in Indiana, I began dating and met a wonderful man (lets call him Dan). He has a job, he ha...
A. 15 March 2012: Thanks for the advice. Having been home a little longer and gotten over the initial shock of being around my Ex a lot of the time I have determined that I was correct in originally breaking up with him and that if he and I decided to get back ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my currently platonic best friend.
Q. Let me just start by saying how horrible at the dating game I am. I'm a high school senior girl, and I have yet to have a single official relationship or even kiss a boy. I've had plenty of guys like me over the years, and the farthest I've gone is ...
A. 9 March 2012: Wow, what a story. Well I have been in your situation once or twice in my life and my conclusion has been tell him. Why not? Whats the worst that can happen? He will say he isn't interested in you. Yeah it might be a little awkward for a while but ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy Test Came Up Negative Instantly - Too Quickly to Be Accurate?
Q. I just took a pregnancy test for the first time ever...it was the CVS equivalent of the FirstResponse one, the kind that shows a blue stripe in one circle if you are not pregnant and in 2 circles if you are. It says the results can show as early as ...
A. 9 March 2012: Having a pregnancy test show instantly negative doesn't mean it is inaccurate. The most surefire way to tell if you are or are not is to get tested by a doctor. I have taken many pregnancy tests (first response) and they show negative almost ... (read in full...)
She's been dating him and me for almost 4 years, now she says she wants me. Is she lying?
Q. I'm so confused right know I've been sorta dating this girl now for almost four years now and I am madly in love with her but she also has a boyfriend of three years. And she was always sleeping around with other guys and then lieing to me about it ...
A. 9 March 2012: Women are pretty easy creatures to understand. Look at her track record. The fact that she has been leading you on for 4 years yet dating another guy tells me that this girl isn't going to be leaving this guy anytime soon. She senses that you are ... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant on the last day of my period?
Q. Hi, I'm sixteen years old. Last month, it was the very last day of my period and there was hardly any blood but I was still spotting and I gave my boyfriend oral sex. He came in my mouth and I swallowed it and continued to suck him off. He pulled ...
A. 9 March 2012: Yes it is in fact possible to get pregnant on the last day, even during your period. Sperm can live for days in the fallopian tubes, though certain times of the month make it harder to become pregnant it is not impossible.
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What is he really saying when a guy says he's not ready to be in a relationship?
Q. There's this guy and I know for sure he likes me but he says he's not ready to be in a serious relationship because he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago. He said that I'm really beautiful and he's given a lot of thought about us. What d...
A. 9 March 2012: Ok, when guys tell you they aren't looking for a serious relationship, it means that they ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. It is his way of saying, hey i'm not really looking for a girlfriend right now. Do not fall into the girls trap of ... (read in full...)
My g/f has had 35 plus partners and I know 4 of them!
Q. my girlfriend of 10years has had about 35previous partners an i can't stop thinking about it and 4of them i know. i have these feelings of anger alot i still even think theres more an she is lying an theres a chance she cheated with 2 or 3 aswell im ...
A. 9 March 2012: Sounds to me like you need to determine what you are actually mad at her about. You discuss how she has had multiple partners and that you think she cheated on you? Also the fact that she has 4 children with different men.
If you think that you... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love but he hasn't called me in a week
Q. So here is my problem. I think that I am in love. This makes absolutely no sense. Here is my story... I was in his class, he was my professor, I his student. There was some sexual comments made but never to the extent where someone would report it, ...
A. 17 January 2012: Answering some questions: No he is not married. He has no kids or girlfriends or anything. I would have never gotten involved with a married man. Also he is not technically a professor at my college right now. He is an assistant professor or ... (read in full...)
Why are women so close about allowing a new woman to join them? I feel excluded and cannot understand why they do it.
Q. Something I don't think I will ever really understand is relationships among women. Specifically friendships. I have never been apart of the 'girls' clique. Ever. Not even when I was a child! To this day I am still faced with this problem. I l...
A. 17 January 2012: You are not an anomaly. Women in cliques can be very hesitant to allow a new girl into the circle. When you join a group there are already friendships established and they feel threatened by someone upsetting the balance of their group. This is ... (read in full...)
If I'm not attracted to my boyfriend's friends then why am I so awkward around them?
Q. Why am I so awkward and shy around my boyfriend's friends? It's not like I'm at all physically attracted to either of his good friends, I just can't seem to speak up or say what's on my mind. I throw in a few jokes here and there but with great di...
A. 21 November 2011: This is not a strange situation to be in. I am probably the most talkative person you will find anywhere and I have trouble meeting the guy that I'm dating's friends. Its just the fact that it is hard to come into any group of people that are very ... (read in full...)
How can I pursue her in a way that allows me to save face if I fail?
Q. So my recent troubles is not really a trouble, I'm just looking for advice. i have started to think about what-ifs about this girl I'm starting to get to know. She's funny, athletic, outgoing, and very upfront. I recently was the only friend of ...
A. 21 November 2011: So you are looking for a way to take a risk without actually taking a risk? Well if we knew that the whole world would be a heck of a lot easier. Everything in life has an opportunity cost. Whether it is something as small as picking up a penny to ... (read in full...)
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