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41-50,
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writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out since February 2015 and we are from different countries but living and working in the same place and that's where we met. Its Christmas time and we are both going to our home countries. He hadn't asked me how we are going to keep in touch and I worry that he doesn't want to keep in touch and that's how our relationship will end. I am scared that when we get back he won't contact me. What do I do?
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reader, Risingstar624  +, writes (11 December 2015):
well first off are you officially together or is it just a we are "seeing each other" kind of thing. If you haven't established an actual relationship then he doesn't have to stay in contact with you. If you do have a title and you are in a relationship then you need to relax. If he cares about you he will keep and touch and being away from you will make him more happy to see you when he does. If he doesn't want to stay in touch then he wan't that interested in you anyway and why would you want to stay with someone like that? If they don't care to give you the time of day, i don't care what country you live it, there is someone out there who would walk through fire just to tell you the time. You are a strong, beautiful, confident woman who doesn't owe anyone anything. If you have asked him how you were going to keep in touch and he hasn't responded that is probably his way of giving you a hint he isn't taking this seriously. If he hasn't asked you can bring it up nonchalantly. don't freak out and don't ask more than once. You don't want to appear desperate because if he is on the fence about anything, making yourself super available to him will just be a turn off. So let him ask you, if he doesn't ask, say something once. If he doesn't try. then move on because you are worth much more than that.
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