What can I do to kick start my life?
Q. Ok so I dont know how to really put this but im male, 17, rather intelligent and not the worst looking but not the best :S basically my childhood sucked. i used to live with my great grandmother and my brother. my great grandma died and me and ...
A. 19 July 2010: Hey, It sounds like yuh hav been through alot. It will be very difficult for yuh to start a fresh if yuh hav no idea of what yuh want t do. Yuh say yuh are intelligant so im guessin yuh have good grades. This is always goox as it wil make it easie... (read in full...)
How can I flirt subtly to show I'm interested?
Q. I am 13 years old and I have just realised I like this guy that I've known for around 8 months now. I think the only reason I didn't see this sooner was because I didn't want to admit it to myself. He teases me quite a lot but I only see him once a ...
A. 9 July 2010: Heyyah, There are many ways in which you can find out if someone likes yuh. Yuh can flirt, hint on that he might like someone else and see what he says or just ask him. Thu third option is usually for people that wil tell thu lad they like him. F... (read in full...)
How can I flirt subtly to show I'm interested?
Q. I am 13 years old and I have just realised I like this guy that I've known for around 8 months now. I think the only reason I didn't see this sooner was because I didn't want to admit it to myself. He teases me quite a lot but I only see him once a ...
A. 9 July 2010: Heyyah, There are many ways in which you can find out if someone likes yuh. Yuh can flirt, hint on that he might like someone else and see what he says or just ask him. Thu third option is usually for people that wil tell thu lad they like him. F... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is upset wont tell me whats making her upset
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend who I'm deeply in love with. We've been dating for about 7 months now and have had our ups and downs but recently, just a couple of days ago, she got really moody towards me; answers my ...
A. 26 March 2010: Right, there are several things that it could be. The obvious scenario could be that maybe something has happened between her and another lad. This is common in long distance relationships. If she wont tel you wat it is, dont push her. Tell her that ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my mate, or try to get my ex back?
Q. Ok so as i have said before, i was seeing my ex for 8 month and we split up 5 month ago now. He was my first love and i also lost my v to him. I still love him and i would do anything to get him back. He has said several times that he doesnt want to ...
A. 23 March 2010: Thank you to everyone that has left a comment on my question. I am really struggling with moving on and I have tried to ignore my ex. I saw him with another girl today and yeah although they arent seeing eachother and were only talking, i still ... (read in full...)
My friend keeps asking me if certain girls like him. How can I tell him I don't want to talk about it?
Q. My friend likes to ask me whenever I see him if so and so girl(s) like him. I keep telling him I don't know, and to go ask them himself. It seems that's what he's constantly talking about and it bothers me. I always change the subject and let it ...
A. 24 February 2010: Well first of all the reason he is talkin about it with you is obviously because a very good friend of his. You are almost his connection to the girl world. Girls know all the gossip so he wants to know about anyone that likes him.
Is the reas... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want him back?
Q. Hey, Me and my ex have been split up for 3 months and are good mates. I really like him and want him back. I love him. But he doesnt seem interested. He is single and we have a laugh together but it only seems to be as mates. Just after we broke u...
A. 2 February 2010: yes thats true and i have told him a love him now and he does kinda seem interested a just cant stop thinking bout him everything reminds me of him and a cry wen i think bout him there is nothing i can do... (read in full...)
How do I cope with losing my virginity to the wrong guy? Dumb dumb dumb!
Q. lost my virginity last night - still feel like a virgin. It hurt and it was completely with the wrong guy - i remember crying after nad just wanting a cuddle - he feel a sleep and i was left in the darkness thinking about what i had allowed. I was ...
A. 7 December 2009: Your right, the only thing you can do is learn from this and move forward.
Maybe the lesson to learn here is that you should always do what you think is right, not just go with the flow. Also that you should get to know someone before you do anyt... (read in full...)
Does he love me back the way I love him?
Q. Hello everyone, So my question is... Does he love me? He says he loves me but how can you really tell... Well let me start from the beginning. We have been dating for 4 months and we try to see each other as much as possible... sometimes we don't ...
A. 4 December 2009: Well thats a question I think all girls/women would like answered. How can you really tell.
Well to be honest, do you really want to know. If you ask him for an honest answer and he says that he doesnt think he loves you, but really likes yo... (read in full...)
Why did he change his mind about getting married?
Q. Both of us have been married twice, we have been together 2 yrs and known each other for 8+. When we first got together we both wanted the same thing to get married again one day but now 2 yrs later he is saying that he doesn't want to do it again. ...
A. 4 December 2009: Im very sorry to hear that he has decided he doesnt want to get married.
The most likely reason he doesnt want to get married is because he has been married twice already and doesnt want to get hurt a third time. Maybe he feels that getting marr... (read in full...)
I can't just be his friend... it hurts too much...
Q. I am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago and i thought things were going to be fine. I started seeing this other lad and things seem good to start with. Then all my feelings for my ex came back and i split up with my ...
A. 4 December 2009: I have tried to stay away from my ex but he is always around. I Love Him and I want to go out with hi,. He is the best thing that ever happened to me.
And being away from him is really hard because I just want to be around him all the time.
And s... (read in full...)
Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed
Q. 16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy want...
A. 4 December 2009: Good, just be a friend and think about how you want them to treat you. If you know how you want to be treated, its so much easier to be friends with people because you can treat them the way you want them to treat you.
But dont become too obsessiv... (read in full...)
Should I go with my husband to view his dead friend?
Q. My hubby's friend died and his viewing is tonight. He hasn't asked me directly to go with him, but when I ask him if he wants me to go, he says "I dont care, you can go if you want. What should I do?...
A. 3 December 2009: Umm...
...It seems a bit strange that you had to ask. Surely you should to to support him anyway. If it was your friend who had died, would you want him there.
Even if you dont feel comfortable about going in to see his friend, you should at le... (read in full...)
Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed
Q. 16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy want...
A. 3 December 2009: Am not saying your a slut.
But maybe yu are giving off the wrong idea to people because of something that happened in the past.
Do try and get to know someone, even if its just to be friends. Lads want to get to know the real you, not the per... (read in full...)
Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed
Q. 16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy want...
A. 2 December 2009: You sound as though you are giving yourself a bad name.
'Grinding and boners'
Why not try to get to know a lad the way you would want someone to get to know you.
If you jut try to talk to a lad and get to know them, then you never know, they m... (read in full...)
How To Get Your Ex Back
Q. Do you miss your ex and want him/her back? Have you tried begging, buying them gifts, being clingy, etc? None of that is going to work. That is only going to push them further away from you. Try doing these steps and I know that these steps may seem ...
A. 2 December 2009: What if you have spoken to your ex about getting back together and they have told you that there is no chance it will happen and they dont love you anymore?!? What do you do then ?? huh... (read in full...)
Ex or new boyfriend...?
Q. Me and my ex have been really close since we have split up and we see each other a lot more than what we did when we was going out and get on a lot better too. I have a new boyfriend that i hardly see as he lives so far away but we get on and when ...
A. 2 December 2009: Your best idea is to do what you are doing and try and sort this out yourself. The chances are that your ex is acting like this because he wants you back and wants to show you that he has changed and can be a both a good friend and a good ... (read in full...)
Please help, I need to get this idiot out of my head.
Q. Hi , Yes iv written before when my then boyfriend was being bad, distant and cold. He kept calling i rejected the calls and avoided the texts. then he turned up at my doorstep a couple of days later begging for anothr chance and I gave him one (de...
A. 30 November 2009: Hey you say that you cant stop thinking about this guy. Well is it the good or the bad things your thinking about. You need to try and think about all the times he hurt you and decide if there was really any need to hurt you. He sounds aggressive ... (read in full...)
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