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Does he love me back the way I love him?

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Article - (3 December 2009) 5 Comments - (Newest, 31 December 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone, So my question is... Does he love me? He says he loves me but how can you really tell... Well let me start from the beginning. We have been dating for 4 months and we try to see each other as much as possible... sometimes we don't cuz he wants his day alone... that's cool we all need our space a bit. Anyway we are very different, we do things different in our life. Our family have issues and deal with them differentially but we all get along... we have been through a lot and we have our ups and downs... we hate fighting so we try to avoid it... he says he wants communication in our relationship but he doesn't tell or talk bout anything. I know I love him, I can feel it... when I'm with him and when I'm not with him... but does he really love me?

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A female reader, moca17 United States +, writes (31 December 2009):

moca17 agony aunti think the real question is do u really love him because to me it seems like he does love u girl everybody haves there ups and downs if its meant to be then yall will last if not your still young and able to heal

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009):

hmm know this is a bit confusing. to me, i don't think a guy that doesn't tell me anything that's going on in his life loves me, but thats just me. i'm the extroverted type of person,i want to know everything and such. but if you too are the introverted type, maybe he does love you. maybe he's shy and he's not the type to just show it to the world etc.

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A female reader, FleexNicanor Argentina +, writes (6 December 2009):

take him out on a romantic date and then you'll see the results. He has to be relaxed the same as you. You'll see if he loves ya back if you can feel it. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009):

take it from someone whose been there asked that question, if he says he loves you, invites you over, and calls you at a normal amount, chances are he loves you. Just go easy on him, give him some trust. You'll be surprised if you just give him HIS space how much he will show you he loves you.

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A female reader, RichTea United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2009):

RichTea agony auntWell thats a question I think all girls/women would like answered. How can you really tell.

Well to be honest, do you really want to know. If you ask him for an honest answer and he says that he doesnt think he loves you, but really likes you and wants to stay being your boyfriend, your going to be crushed.

But if he says yes that he does love you, are you going to believe him or are you going to keep wondering the same thing..does he really love you.

And as for the talkin thing, well maybe he is waiting for you to start talking about something with him

Ask him how his day has been nd things like that

Good Luck

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