Should I take things further with a friend I slept with one night?
Q. Hi everyone. I could really use your help. I'll try and explain so please bear with me. A few months ago I flew home from university for a friend's 21st birthday. I started talking to a male friend at the party and he bought me a few drinks. When ...
A. 23 April 2011: Hi, thanx for taking the time 2 reply. I think I will tell him, just need to pluck up the courage.lol.Thanx again, I really appreciate it.xx.... (read in full...)
You think he likes me or is he a complete idiot that I should cut out of my life?
Q. Hi everyone, plz help with this. I had a drunken 1 nigth stand in uni with the guy who lives in the building opposite. We decided it was a mistake but decided to remain friends. We txt over Easter and when I arrived bk 2 uni after Easter he was wait...
A. 14 May 2009: Hi,
Thanx for taking the time to answer my problem. You're right it is a tricky situation. Since I posted the question he's been very nice to me and hasn't said or done anything to hurt me.(not yet anyway.) I think I will continue to play it cool... (read in full...)
FWB but it means more to me than that and he's really hurting me
Q. Dear Cupid, For the past six months i have been in a kind of friends with benifits relationship with a guy in my group of friends, i only started talking to him last september and one of my frends gave him my number.He seemed like such a nice...
A. 3 May 2009: Hi hun,
I'm sorry that your going through such a tough time. I know how you feel as I went through something similar not so long ago.
Right ok, when you first kissed and he txt saying that nothing was going to happen again, maybe he wasn't sure abo... (read in full...)
Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.
Q. Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having ...
A. 7 May 2008: Hello,
The song 'Songbird' by All Angels is a beautiful song to come into. Hope this has helped.xx.... (read in full...)
He's paranoid and depressed coz I'm going to college
Q. Well, I'm in my last year of school, with only this week left of school till my exams, and then I'll be off to college in September. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately because we are in the same school and he's a year younger than me ...
A. 6 May 2008: Hello,
This must be a difficult time for you. I've done my gcse's and a levels and I understand how stressful it all is. First of all I think that you should concentrate on revising for your exams and getting the best grades you can. It's unde... (read in full...)
My husband avoids my calls. What can I do?
Q. My husband and I got into an arguemtent few days ago on the phone while he's away working and now he is avoiding to keep in contact with me. He will not pick up his calls, email, one in a while he just txts back but is vague to me nothing with "i ...
A. 6 May 2008: Hello,
If you had a really big argument then maybe he just needs time to cool down. Try and text/email/phoning him again and explain how sorry you are. How long is he away for? If he still doesn't answer you in a few days then you really must find... (read in full...)
My husband is abusing me
Q. My husband is verbally and emotionlly abusing me. With this I have been in depression for two years now cause if this, and it's getting way worse than better. I lead my anger and deprrion on food, that now I'm obese. He doesn't understand that ...
A. 6 May 2008: Hello, I'm so sorry to read about what your going through. You sound like a lovely,caring person and don't let anyone tell you different. Your husband is a bully and must understand that he can't keep abusing you like this. Please consider leaving ... (read in full...)
How can I get this guy in my class to ask me out??
Q. This is a silly question but how could i get this guy in my class to ask me out...?...
A. 6 May 2008: Hello,
Does this guy know that you like him? First of all maybe you should try and make him notice you. Be friendly towards him, show him that you're a fun person to be around. If you catch his eye then smile at him before looking away. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
She has backed off. What can I do?
Q. A girl i like was all over me a week ago and now is just treatin me as her mate. We were all over each other but since her mate spoke to her she has backed off me and dont wana see me. Also a close relative died so she would be upset what do i do?...
A. 5 May 2008: Yep there's plenty of other people out there and one day you will find someone who appreciates you. You sound like a really caring, friendly guy so it won't take you long to find someone you want to be with and take care of.xx. ... (read in full...)
I've been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time now, but.....
Q. Hey, i'm 14 years old and before i go into anything personal, i am very mature for my age when it comes to relationships. Like i've never had an actual relationship with any boys my age as i think they are too imature.(i prob sound like a brat or ...
A. 5 May 2008: Hello,
When I was your age I also wanted to lose my virginity. But I decided to wait until I felt 100% ready and waited until I was 17 and in a long term relationship. It doesn't seem as though your completely ready to lose your virginity beca... (read in full...)
I've always liked him too, but I have a boyfriend! What to do?
Q. Please help me, im so confused. Ive been with my bf for nearly a year but even though i love him dearly we have drifted apart a bit, and i dont feel like he loves me anymore. I got talking to an old school friend (male) who moved miles aw...
A. 5 May 2008: Hello, I would urge you to speak to your boyfriend about your relationship before you meet up with your old school friend. After you've had a talk then only you can decide whether your relationship has a future. I was in the same situation as you, ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one that has breasts like this? It makes me insecure!
Q. I have a question. I am insecure about my breasts. I have large breasts which men love, but the colored part around my nipple seems realy big to me compared to other breasts i've seen. Does it matter. Do men prefer one or the other? Am I the only ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
No your not alone. I have the same as you. It doesn't matter because everyones bodies are different. Every man has different things they prefer. A lot of women would love big breasts. Be happy with what you've been given.
xx.... (read in full...)
I didn't have sex and now he ignores me.
Q. I had a go with a boy in my course but did't have sex as I told him I only have it on a relationship basis and would prefer to know him better and so on, he told me to phone him and we agreed to date a week later but to muy surprise he look the ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
First of all well done for saying no to having sex with him if you weren't comfortable with it. I don't think that you should go with this guy. It's obvious that he's using you because if he really liked you then he would make the effort to t... (read in full...)
How can I impress my girlfriend?
Q. Im 13 and i have a really nice gf she hasnt really opened up yet and her friends really annoy me how can i impress her???...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello, I think that you should try and spend time with her away from her friends. You should just be yourself, don't try and be someone your not. You seem like a nice, caring boy and if you spend time with her alone then she will see this too and ... (read in full...)
What do you do after two break-ups and someone you love wants to try a third time?
Q. what do you do when someone you love a lot breaks up with you twice to be with someone else and then wants to get back together?...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello, I wouldn't get back with them for many reasons. It's clear that this person has no respect for your feelings because they have broke up with you twice for someone else. This person sees you as a doormat, even though they've left yoy twice t... (read in full...)
What are the signs your husband is cheating with a coworker?
Q. what signs should I be looking for, I think that my husband is cheating on me with his co-worker while being away on business. I have no solid evidence but something in my stomach says it. how do i go about knowing if i am right or wrong?...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
If you have a 'gut feeling' then maybe your right. You've got to trust your own instinct. Has his attitude/ behaviour changed towards you? Has he gone off sex/wants more sex. Try bringing her up in a conversation and watch how he reacts. I wo... (read in full...)
I really want him back even though he was violent. What do I do?
Q. Last night me and my boyfriend had an arguement, which caused him to get angry at me, he used violence against me and as a result im bruised, he told me he doesnt want a relationship and maybe in a few years time me and him will get back with me ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
Please don't ever think of getting back with this guy. He's been violent with you which has caused you to bruise.
What's next,a broken arm? broken ribs? Or worse? Real, decent men would never dream of being violent with a woman. He kissed a... (read in full...)
He says I really need to tell him something good, so what do I tell him?
Q. I have been with this guy for a year and a half and I kind of cheated on him, we broke up, then he took me back, two weeks later we have another fight and he kicked me out. I have been gone for two weeks, he is telling me he loves me and wants me ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
I think that this guy is having difficulties in coming to terms with the fact that you cheated on him. He doesn't know what to do. Have you both had a talk about why felt the need to go with someone else? Have you reassured him that it won'... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt him again-but what do yo think my feelings are?
Q. okay so basically i am very confused as of what to do. i have so much problems right now and it's so hard to deal with. there's this guy that i kind of like.. i don't know if i like him really. like when i first met him i kinda teased him i guess ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
I think that you do have feelings for him because it wouldn't be on your mind if you didn't have feelings for him and because you feel good when you see him at school and when you text. It's great that you're really close after the last time... (read in full...)
Whenever I like someone it goes wrong. What is wrong with me?
Q. Whenever i like someone it always goes wrong. When I start a relationship with someone i really like them a lot in the beginning, but then i just feel bored and the feelings just go away.. this happens every time i like someone. And every time i ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello, At the beginning of a relationship you hardly know a person (unless you've been friends with them before the relationship started.) and maybe when you got to know them a little you realise that you don't get on as well, don't have a lot in c... (read in full...)
I want to go on the pill. Will the doctor tell anyone?
Q. hey i am worried i am 14 and want to go on the pill but i cnt let my mum find out so i was just wondring if i sneack to the doctors will they tell my mum or any of the family ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
no the doc can't tell your mum because of patient confidentiality unless your mum demands to see it. Maybe you should talk to your mum about it. You may find that she'll be really supportive. After all, she was young once and has prob... (read in full...)
I have feelings for an older guy, but my family might be a problem
Q. Hello, I really need your help. Right, here goes. . . I'm a 19 year old girl and I live in a small, close-knit village in South Wales (basically everyone knows everyone and everyones business.) For a while now I've been having feelings for a gu...
A. 4 May 2008: Ye I think you're right. Thanx for taking the time to help.... (read in full...)
She has backed off. What can I do?
Q. A girl i like was all over me a week ago and now is just treatin me as her mate. We were all over each other but since her mate spoke to her she has backed off me and dont wana see me. Also a close relative died so she would be upset what do i do?...
A. 4 May 2008: It may well be jealousy. If she's still grieving then give her some time. She might feel different in a few weeks. Wait a little then if she still doesn't show any interest in say a month or so then maybe you should move on. There's no point in ... (read in full...)
It was special for her, but are there other methods to ensure she has an orgasm?
Q. some educated answers would be great here!! I'm with a women with whom I make love with, literally for hours!!! Its great. The other day she had an orgasm through penetration, and I was shocked to learn that that was only the second time that had...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello, I think that you're putting too much pressure on giving this woman an orgasm. Your partner isn't difficult, everyones bodies are different. I recently read in a magazine that some women never experience an orgasm in their entire lives. I... (read in full...)
He is going to tell me he loves me, but I'm confused and nervous
Q. okay so ive been dating this guy for about three months and really like him a lot. we both have had our hearts broken in the past. he handled his break by sleeping around and what not, for him its been a year and a half, im the first girl hes wanted ...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
I'm sorry that you've been hurt in the past. I can sort of understand how you feel. I broke up with my fiance last year and I'm absolutely terrified of going on a date with a guy!! I'm too scared to get close to another guy. It's great that... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want to go further, but his actions say different
Q. hi my question is i have a friend that i have grown closer to and now have feelings for. i asked him to be honest about were he wants to take our friendship. we are both with other people. he told me he wants to go further but has to much to loose...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello, I was also in the same situation not so long ago. I also developed feelings for a friend. Like you,I asked him to be honest about where he wanted to take our friendship. He kept telling me that he didn't have feelings for me but was always f... (read in full...)
She has backed off. What can I do?
Q. A girl i like was all over me a week ago and now is just treatin me as her mate. We were all over each other but since her mate spoke to her she has backed off me and dont wana see me. Also a close relative died so she would be upset what do i do?...
A. 4 May 2008: Hello,
There could be a number of possibilities here.
She could be confused as to how she feels about you. Maybe at first she thought that she had feelings for you but now maybe she's realised that she hasn't. I don't really like the idea of her b... (read in full...)
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