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How do I get my old teacher to be with me??

Q.   I'm graduating high school in a couple of months and I can't wait to finally start my life! However, I've fallen hard with a former teacher of mine who's 31. I'm legal now and don't want to cause him to lose his job or make him feel uncomfortable so ...

A.   22 February 2010: wow. i swear this is like im writing to myself. everything that you say you feel happened to me in my senior year of high school and junior year. i had a thing for my friends math teacher and i always went to him after school we would talk,joke, and ... (read in full...)

I feel like an outcast and alone, is there anyone out there I can talk to?

Q.   Is there anyone who I can talk to about my issues? I'm new at my highschool and I came because I felt like an outcast at my old school. I thought things would be better once I came to my new school, but they are not. I never have anything to say, ...

A.   12 February 2010: oh god, hi. i know exactly how you feel. ive graduated from highschool but this brings back memories. when i first started highschool i met two friends and became really close to them and through them i met other people who were crazy and fun to ... (read in full...)

Is it just me, or are lots of young people having sex nowadays?

Q.   is it only me or you guys see that lots of young has experienced sex already, and they are so open about it. do you have kids that age (13-15ish) are they doing it? are you aware of it? i don't have kids, and I'm not going to for that reason...

A.   12 February 2010: hi. ok i dont have any kids because i am only 18 so i will wait another couple of years to even think about that. but i can honestly tell you that yes there are kids around my age especially and even younger who willingly talk about sex. to me sex ... (read in full...)

Should I email him my feelings?

Q.   I have recently noticed that I only have a few more months until I graduate from high school and my high school years come to a close. For those four years, I have had an obsessive crush on one of my teachers. I have thought of him every single day; ...

A.   10 February 2010: hi,whoa. this sounds exactly like me.. i'm not saying i have an obsessive crush or anything but i feel confused about a teacher i had in high school last year. its been a year and no im not constantly thinking about him i've been staying busy and i ... (read in full...)

Should I go back or move forward in my life?

Q.   I think i may still be in love with my high teacher. For some reason its like i cant move on and go through college without feeling like something is missing. I am not the type of girl that will cry over this or be depressed i just want to go back ...

A.   11 November 2009: Hi, petunia. Now i dont know you personally but i can see what you are going through. I think that you should just follow what you think is best. If you want to go back then do it and dont expect the worst or best things to happen when you ... (read in full...)

Is my teacher crossing the line?

Q.   Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we h...

A.   17 October 2009: Hi. Ok yeah reading throught this i can see that he find you attractive. you say how he stands behind you or puts his hand on your back this is a way of showing that he has affection for you and some way wants to be physically close to you without ... (read in full...)

How do I build up my confidence to leave this verbally abusive man?

Q.   these are some of the comments i receive from my boyfriend. fatty,u dress stale.u arent the cleaniness person,u smell. im with u cos i feel sorry for u.your mum is ugly and looks like a witch. im not looking foward to u getting old if u are going to ...

A.   9 August 2009: God im really sorry that your in this relationship with such an ass. I dont know him personally but just by what ive read it makes me want to slap the taste out of his mouth. Like everyone has said you dont have to be in this relationship and i know ... (read in full...)

Improved myself but the boys are not interested, what else can I do?

Q.   hey . Im a shy girl , introvert, and im struggling to get my next bf. I had only 3 bfs. What should I do? I already had cut my hair, got some new clothes but nah.. theyre not intrested... Please help ...

A.   9 August 2009: God we must be sisters.lol i know how you feel. ive been trying to change my looks and personality just to try and get guys interested but nothing ever seemed to work. it got so bad that i got jealous of my friends and begun to think that i was ugly ... (read in full...)

Fell in love after internet relationship, now he's gone, did he fake the 3 years, we were together?

Q.   As it says there, i really didnt know where else to turn. i don't have many friends left.. So i'll start from the begining. it all started when i was only 13, i'm now 16. it started as an internet relationship and i never intended it to go far i ...

A.   9 August 2009: it has nothing to do with you. in life today its really hard to have a long distance relatinoship but sometimes people still manage to keep that fire burning in their relationship. internet dating is another hardship. you may see eachother pictures ... (read in full...)

I'm an author looking for your stories about teacher/pupil relationships...

Q.   Hi all Have a bit of an unusual question but here goes - I am a published fiction writer in the UK, and am in the early stages of writing a book about a teacher/pupil relationship. I have been reading through stories on this site and others ...

A.   20 May 2009: Wow the number one subject isn't it? Student's want for teachers. You know it is pretty cool that you are writing a book on this and asking people their stories because it lets people express them selves and open up to you without feeling like they ... (read in full...)

A request to all the young teens out there

Q.   well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...

A.   21 April 2009: Ok well im not pregnant but know some girls that have given birth or just gotten pregnant. We all know the consequences of having sex whether it be stds,hiv, or becoming pregnant by not using a condom, missing birth control, or a condom breaking. Ge... (read in full...)

Am I already on the shelf at 30?

Q.   Well, where do I start? I'm 30 now and my life is coming together nicely. I have had a lot of crap to deal with in my life over the last 7 years after my Dad passing away unexpectedly, looking after my Nan (his mum) who has been suffering from ...

A.   21 April 2009: I'm really sorry about what happened to your dad because its really hard losing someone you love. you seem so confident and passionate about what you do for your career. That's just so great. I may just be 18 but i know one thing that a guy like... (read in full...)

Is my age really that big of a deal? What happened to mental maturity?

Q.   hi everyone.. i sort of started with this girl. Well not formally saying we like each other we we both know how we feel about each other. But last few weeks she was so cold and i started to worry and two nites ago she said stupid hugger, wh...

A.   21 April 2009: Hey. Finally i'm the first person to comment :)/ Well she is 17 so there are going to be guys that will interest her both her age and older. I'm 18 right now and i don't even know what i want in a guy yet. I think right now she just wants to have ... (read in full...)

Does age matter when he's a young adult and I'm a teenager?

Q.   hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for ...

A.   21 April 2009: Ok here we go. Hi. This guy has a girlfriend in another state and even though he goes to college away from her literally they are still together. I think its pretty cool that you can hang out with him and really have a connection with each other. ... (read in full...)

I just need some honest opinions on age differences.

Q.   I just need some honest opinions on age differences. What would you think of a 17 year old girl going out with a 29 year old guy? Right/wrong/doesn't matter? I need some insight to this, thank you....

A.   21 April 2009: Hi honestly i say that you should go go for it. I mean life is worth taking risks. This guy likes you for who you are and not what you have underneath your clothes. I mean yeah he is a guy so he does think about sex but i really think he wants more ... (read in full...)

My ex-boyfriend/teacher is mad I hooked up with another guy in my class

Q.   well... i have a really stressful situation.... ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now.. hes 23 and im 18.... im in my last year of school, and he's an english teacher... a few weeks ago, he got a permanant posting at my school!! ...

A.   25 January 2009: Hey. I totally understand what you are going through. You were in this relationship with this guy who is your teacher and im thinking it was alot of connection( not just physical but mental to). he told you that you were going to take a break since ... (read in full...)

Should I pursue things with my teacher?

Q.   I know what all your replies will be with this question, 'oooh finish it now, or he'll lose his job' or 'you'll both get hurt and left with nothing' but listen to my story anyway. Basically, i'm 16. I go to a private school in the north of the cou...

A.   31 December 2008: Hi. I can totally understand what you are going through. I have been in a similar relationship with a teach. Lets call him X. He was my friends history teacher and evryday i would go to him for tutoring, At first we were goofy and just friends, but ... (read in full...)

Why are females more infatuated with their teachers than males?

Q.   After reading a lot of teacher/student problems around here, quite clearly it seems that females more than males fall into infatuation for their teachers. Why is this?...

A.   23 October 2008: Well its actually easy(saying from a females perspective). i mean @ leat for me in highschool the guys my age are kinda immature and just r players 2 c how many girls they can get. Thats y i think many girls dont date guys their age. The male ... (read in full...)

I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

Q.   Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...

A.   28 September 2008: I just want 2 say thnks 2 everyone for their advice. yea some were kind of hurtful and extremely ignorant. but tats just how some people and those B**ches dont hurt me @ all. I understand where u r coming from but yall have 2 understand that just ... (read in full...)

My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?

Q.   Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions ...

A.   20 September 2008: Ok look 2 anyone i dont LOVE MY TEACHER AND I NEVER WILL!!!!!!. I just said did he like me? Man im asking you for advice and the only thing u can say is that its WRONG and they could lose their job. Look im not retarded i already know the ... (read in full...)

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