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6 August 2010: Often in a relationship you find yourself behaving more like you're other half would like you to be. Pretending to be interested in the same things as them just to make them happy. Which of course isn't healthy and is really not a good idea at all. ...
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My boyfriend went back to his ex while I was pregnant, but now he wants to come back to me! Should I give him another chance?
Q. I'm 3 months pregnant with my boyfriend who i've not been with for long. I became in love with him very quick and even though my family was shocked at me being pregnant at 18 they became happy and excited. Just last week i found out he was meeting ...
A. 23 August 2010: You said it yourself - you don't trust him. He doesn't deserve your trust either after what he did, if he's done it once what's to stop him doing it again? You deserve better than him, don't let him walk all over you as he comes in and out of your ... (read in full...)
Stabbed in the heart by her comment...
Q. So this morning was the biggest heart break I could ever handle. I found out my girlfriend... my best friend... my everything cheated on me a month ago. She told me this intoxicated and also took an e pill saying some guy performed oral on her, but ...
A. 22 August 2010: She doesn't deserve a guy as great as you if that's the way she treats you. Some people just aren't ready for a commitment and she probably just wants someone to look after her kids while she goes clubbing. Maybe she knows one day that she will want ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I try to make new friends, they won't hurt and betray me like my old ones?
Q. my confidence is rock bottom since i found out one of my best mates tried it on with my fiance while i was around 5months pregnant! i cant trust anyone anymore and have lost all my friends! i was in college in 2009, i fell pregnant in apri...
A. 9 August 2010: It's a risk you'll have to take just remember that not everyone is two faced and bitchy. Try and find friends that have lots in common with you (maybe people with children) what those girls did to you was horrible and unforgivable but you will find ... (read in full...)
I broke his trust, but I really want him back. Is there hope?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 2 weeks ago because i hurt him badly. I didnt cheat on him but he just doesnt trust me now and i've ruined everything. I regret it so much but he has accepted my apology. The thing is he told me he still loves me very ...
A. 7 August 2010: Have you tried explaining to him that the guy was just a good friend, and telling him that if he's uncomfortable with the way you treated him then you won't do it again. Tell him that you love him and you only want him and that this is all just a ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex physically. Should I ask him to be FWB?
Q. I miss my ex.... physically? Alright, I don't understand it. I truly do not want to be with my ex boyfriend ever again. He's a complete tool and neither of us wants a relationship. But I miss the stuff we used to do together. I miss having someone ...
A. 7 August 2010: If you become a friend with benefits it could lead to you getting back into the mess you just escaped and prevent you starting a new relationship with someone else in the future. It's completely normal for you to miss all of this but it could ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish by keeping him in my life?
Q. I am 14 and me and my friend haven't really been great recently, I guess the most important thing to mention is he's also my ex-boyfriend. He lives more than an hour away and this is one of the reasons we broke up (about a year ago) but I insisted ...
A. 7 August 2010: Thank you for your imput but it's the summer holidays and I do also focus on a career and education but I think it's important to keep balance in my life. It doesn't properly answer my question but thank you for your help and opinion and I promise ... (read in full...)
I broke his trust, but I really want him back. Is there hope?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up 2 weeks ago because i hurt him badly. I didnt cheat on him but he just doesnt trust me now and i've ruined everything. I regret it so much but he has accepted my apology. The thing is he told me he still loves me very ...
A. 6 August 2010: I think that the problem is we can't help you until you tell us what you did that caused you to lose his trust. However him still wanting to be your friend is a good sign maybe one day he'll trust you enough to be more than friends again, but don't ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend opened up to me and I don't like what he told me
Q. My boyfriend just opened up to me about his past relationships some of them really made me mad because while we were dating girls were asking him out and telling him i would never found out about it since were in a long distance relationship i know ...
A. 6 August 2010: You're very young to seriously consider marriage, it's very likely that the two of you won't work out. It's a good sign that he told you about the girls however it shows he wants to be open and honest with you. Don't punish him for his honesty ... (read in full...)
Hair part 2.
Q. [OP original title] In connection with the other "Hair" question - What age should a woman get her hair cut shorter? Long hair looks great on women and girls - but not so much on older women (ie 50s, 60s) - so at what age should a woman get it cut?...
A. 6 August 2010: Some older women look great with long hair there is no age when people should have their hair cut. People are allowed to do whatever they want.. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't want me there because of his ex.
Q. my boyfriend asked me to go to his convocation but then later changed his mind. i had no idea why then we had a talk and we ended up decide that i should go to share the moment with him. i realised that his ex gf is going to be there and it'd put ...
A. 6 August 2010: He does not deserve you! You should end it with him... sounds so blunt and harsh but it's true. He lied about what you wanted and said, he invited you and not the other way round and he knows it but he lied to his ex. He obviously cares about what ... (read in full...)
He'll go to Canada to meet a girl, but not to see me!
Q. I have been seeing this guy for over a month now. He is sweet and all that. He seems to be the perfect kind of boyfriend. As for our relationship, I have no clear idea about it. First he said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now ...
A. 6 August 2010: Ok he just wants a fling and is willing to do more for another girl than you...? Seriously there's probably something between them. And you deserve better, he isn't being straight with you. And you can't really ask him about this girl as you aren't ... (read in full...)
I'm Engaged to Someone I Don't Trust
Q. *OP Title* I met my fiance about 6 yrs ago in college. We began dating for about 8 months, but eventually broke up. Nothing serious happened we were just young college grads and decided to remained friends. Over the yrs we dated other people but ...
A. 6 August 2010: If you can't trust the guy you sure as heck shouldn't marry him. If a guy has failed to commit to just you several times in the past he doesn't deserve you. Do you really want to get married to a guy that may just be using you as a rebound from that ... (read in full...)
She's been physical with someone else and I can't love her anymore.
Q. hii guys...m 21 n ihave been in a relationshp for d last 2 years. Ours was a vry beauiful bond..we love each oder a lot..so much dat v had plans for marriage..!! She never told me about her past..But some days back..during a conversation my ...
A. 6 August 2010: Honestly if you love her as much as you say then maybe you can work around it. But honestly if you can't trust her maybe that shows that it won't work, and if she can't be completely commited to you maybe she doesn't love you enough. However the ... (read in full...)
Does he think I'm dirty or something?
Q. I realized this a while ago, but now I'd like someone's input on it. So fast forward, my sex buddy does oral sex or atleast did. When I met him he did and he even offered but it never happened. It was actually my first and I was a little shy. After ...
A. 6 August 2010: If you want him to give you oral ask him to.. he's not going to know you want him to if you don't. If you find that too embarrassing or awkward then maybe you shouldn't be having sex with the guy if you don't feel completely comfortable with him... ... (read in full...)
Pregnant from blow jobs?
Q. I'm wondering if you can get pregnante through blow jobs exetra.Is that possible ???...
A. 6 August 2010: You can only get pregnant from sexual intercourse not from a blow job. However you can catch STI's from oral sex so always use a condom. ... (read in full...)
All I think when we have sex is I wish he was my ex.
Q. i came out of a 4 year relationship with a guy i love. i am with someone else and my ex knows. this has happened very fast. when we have sex all i can think is i wish he was my ex,i know i have made a foolish mistake. if he is with someone else it ...
A. 6 August 2010: Honestly if you're not happy with this guy you shouldn't sleep with him, it's not fair on him if you wish it was someone else. But you broke up with your ex he has no right to stop you having sex with other men when it's over between the two of you. ... (read in full...)
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