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30-35,
*aryan
writes:hii guys...m 21 n ihave been in a relationshp for d last 2 years.Ours was a vry beauiful bond..we love each oder a lot..so much dat v had plans for marriage..!!She never told me about her past..But some days back..during a conversation my girlfrnd told me that she has been physical wid some other guy in her past.Though she sayz dat they jst kissed n touched and also dat she never felt emotionally attachd to him..!!!Apart from dis she also has been in another relationship wid some guy in our college...!!She says dat they never came close to each other n she never loved him..!!I bilieve her but i feel Betrayed.I feel angry n frustrated all d time.Though i still love her..but i cant show it..!!She cannot tolerate my behaviour nd thus v fight all the time.V r on d verge of Breaking Up..PLZ HELP
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reader, Redstars14  +, writes (6 August 2010):
Honestly if you love her as much as you say then maybe you can work around it. But honestly if you can't trust her maybe that shows that it won't work, and if she can't be completely commited to you maybe she doesn't love you enough. However the fact that she told you about it shows that she wants to be honest with you, and that she doesn't want to pretend with you anymore. This is a really good sign, just tell her you love her but she broke your heart and you're glad that she was honest with you but it was still really hard to hear and you just need some time to get your head around it. I hope it all goes well and good luck.. I hope everything works out
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