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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend just opened up to me about his past relationships some of them really made me mad because while we were dating girls were asking him out and telling him i would never found out about it since were in a long distance relationship i know he loves me with all his heart we plan on getting married but what should i do i see him differently now and the pain really kills me?
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reader, Redstars14  +, writes (6 August 2010):
You're very young to seriously consider marriage, it's very likely that the two of you won't work out. It's a good sign that he told you about the girls however it shows he wants to be open and honest with you. Don't punish him for his honesty otherwise in the future he may not tell you the truth. Just tell him that you love him and you're glad he was honest but you found it tough to hear and you need a bit of space. Seriously consider your relationship and whether you want to commit yourself to one person so seriously and such a young age. Things could easily change as the anonymous reader said. However you don't have to concentrate on your studies, just make sure you keep balance in your life. Yes you may have him but whether you really want such a serious relationship with someone when you still have so much of your life before you. But if nothing happened with those girls then really you have nothing to worry about because it shows that he is commited to you and loves you a lot.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (6 August 2010):
 really young and i know your like meh im old enough but seriously every 5 years we change from our taste buds to our hair styles what we like dislike. most marriages at a young age end in divorce i know many friends who are divorced on principle they changed whether it was from cheating to other things. your young he says hes with you. if you do not believe him and dont trust him this relationship is as good as over! good luck hunny aphex x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): plan on getting married? i think you should concentrate on your studies, especially at your age. No one can promise such a thing at your age. People change and change a lot when your age. And plus you're being very childish. he's with you, get over it.
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