I'm a spohmore, my BF is a Junior and a guy flirting at me is a highschool senior!!!
Q. Hi Aunties, I am a sophmore. I have a boyfriend who is a Junior and i love him but... there is this guy who is a senior in highschool and he keeps on smiling at me and flirting! and he knows i have a boyfriend. Do i tell him to back off or try ...
A. 14 April 2011: I hate to be the one to say this, but he just wants you for a piece of ass. most guys in high school are at the age where hormones are stirring up their sexual appetite. from what i read it seems as if he does not care that you have a boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Despite his words, boyfriend leaves me feeling sad and neglected
Q. I've been in this relationship for almost 4 months now. During the first 3 months everything was great, he was very attentive to my needs, never really misses my calls, gives me sweet messages all the time during the day, etc, you know the drill. ...
A. 14 April 2011: you two are spending way to much time together. you dont want to feel as if your married quite yet. at most 3 times a week you should see each other and once at minimum in my opinion. doing this will build up suspense and make him anxious to see ... (read in full...)
I can't trust my b/f, he doesn't trust me...so now what?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out over a year at first it was great and now its all starting to go down hill. I can't trust him because he would always hang out with another girl and do things for her and I find out and when I confront him ...
A. 14 April 2011: this is a uphill battle. whenever people start thinking like this it is usually a bad sign and in general will never change. my parents were like this for years until they admitted defeat and seperated. my advice would be to split your chips and ... (read in full...)
My b/f cannot orgasm during sex
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months and we're blissfully happy together; we're in love. There's just one problem. My wonderful guy cannot orgasm when we have sex. It's something he has never done even with previous girlfriends, so I am ...
A. 14 April 2011: He needs to quit masturbating for a week or two. alot of time guys get used to how they perform the "act" on themselves and cannot ejaculate when a woman tries to satisfy. We know how we like it but we cant explain that and it takes awhile for a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is angry and moody all the time...I am no longer attracted to him sexually and considering leaving...
Q. I just need some helpful advice. I am in a relationship which is about 2 and a half years old. In the beginning things were fantastic, i had met the love of my life, the man i had always dreamt of. We moved in together, which went very well f...
A. 6 April 2011: my advice is if you think he'll change then continue to mend the relationship, but honestly he sounds as if he is Bi-polar with maybe some a.d.d. i had a relationship once where my woman would snap on a dime, go from happy to straight up pissed. she ... (read in full...)
Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get short, blunt answers...
Q. Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get blunt answers. Before the last few days I was getting really lovely texts and phonecalls from her, as if she was really eager to hear from me and was really chatty. But it doesn't feel lik...
A. 6 April 2011: i personally hate talking on phones, and really hate texts. so may be she has some personal issues currently and feel the same way. just ask her...whats the worse that can happen.... (read in full...)
I have injuries from the war and now no one wants to date me
Q. Here's the deal i got back from Iraq almost 1 year ago from a explosion in which took my leg off, and left me with bullet holes in my back. I had my leg put back on, but now there is a 10 inch scar going down the right side by my knee and wraps ...
A. 6 April 2011: i appreciate all your responses. and to the woman who mentioned psychological issue, i was evaluated and deemed in normal conditions. most of the woman that i was "talking to" saw my leg during a Karate fight that they wanted to see. i vary rarely ... (read in full...)
How important are looks really?
Q. How important are looks really? I'm not a toad, just saying. I would say I'm average. Everytime I meet someone new, they remark on how pretty I am. So theres this guy. (of course there is) and we met like once, in person. We exchanged num...
A. 5 April 2011: it depends on the guy. for me looks attract, but the personality and kindness make or break someone. you could be dropdead gorgeous with a horrible personality and my view of you would do a complete 360 and vice versa... (read in full...)
I always seem to be the odd man out, and I don't know what to do. Advise please.
Q. Hello, I guess I just need someone to talk to. I'm 22 and I have never been in a relationship. I have a horrible scary feeling in the back of my mind that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I cannot imagine any woman who would think I'm good ...
A. 5 April 2011: my bad i meant man i didnt see you were a female... (read in full...)
I can't erase the imagine of me being in her mouth
Q. I formerly formulated a question concerning how I and my girlfriend had some bad experiences with oral sex. I got answered quite well but one thing still rests in my mind. It's as though, when I look at her mouth, I can't help but thinking ''My cock ...
A. 5 April 2011: lol hey man just relize hopefully you're clean and she brushes her teeth and you'll be fine. do it as much as you want and relize your penis is just like any other part of your body. do you obsess when you put your tongue in her mouth...exactly so ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to kiss him
Q. Well I have this boy that I really like and he asked my if i would be his girlfriend. I said yes because i relly like him. But now he wants to kiss me and I am not sure if i want to. What can I say to him and what can I do?...
A. 4 April 2011: just tell him you're not ready and leave it at that if he truly like you for you then he will understand and respect it... (read in full...)
Is there any way our fooling around could have caused pregnancy?
Q. I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much. But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt ...
A. 4 April 2011: No you're fine, most of the time when semen come into contact with air or an eviroment that is not sustainable it will die within seconds. i would say 99.99% chance your golden. plus just think how much semen is released into the vagina during sex ... (read in full...)
I had to give up my friendship because he started telling me he wanted to be my boyfriend
Q. There is this guy that introduced himself to me last year and we begun talking and became good friends after a month or two went by. And he began telling me things about his personal life and ask for my advice on things, and I would always try my ...
A. 4 April 2011: guys arent friends with girls unless they want something. this is how it is im my experiences. just let the dude know your done and dont wanna be friends. if that doesnt work block his number. he sounds as if he has become obsessed and what not. ... (read in full...)
Why do I not attract nice men?
Q. I'm 33yrs lasy year a guy i normally wouldnt be interested in asked me out he a farmer 40yrs came across shy at first everything was going well except he wanted to keep our relationship secret i was ok with this at first as we have same circle of ...
A. 4 April 2011: listen there are many guys out there that are "man whores" they feed off the feelings and emotions of woman to get what they want. Mosst likely this fella was trying to get laid, and he probably had another woman/wife on the side. i have several ... (read in full...)
I always seem to be the odd man out, and I don't know what to do. Advise please.
Q. Hello, I guess I just need someone to talk to. I'm 22 and I have never been in a relationship. I have a horrible scary feeling in the back of my mind that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I cannot imagine any woman who would think I'm good ...
A. 4 April 2011: hey, hooking up and dating is not the only thing in life. i am 21 and have been in 2 relationships my whole life. i have had many and i mean many instances where i could have hooked up for a one night stand, but thats not me. I have too much respect ... (read in full...)
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