It seems that our relationship is being tested every time. How do we rebuild it?
Q. me and my partner have been together for 4 yrs engaged for 2 yrs. he has a daughter from a previous relationship which is fine and we hav our own little family. recently though he found out he has a son from 10 yrs ago i knew there was a possibility ...
A. 31 December 2008: the issues where not resolved he decided to leave and is now back with his ex gorlfriend who he has son to... (read in full...)
How old should I be before I have sex?
Q. how old do yall think i should be before sex?...
A. 31 December 2008: only you know this answer. dont rush because other people have done it and dont feel pressured. if it feels right to you then thats fine whether that be now or on ur wedding night, no one knows except you. there is no certain age. take care xxx... (read in full...)
Do I still love my husband?
Q. I have been married for 15years. We have a 4 year old son, 12 year old daughter and we raised his stepdaughter wh is now 24 years old with two young boys. Though most of our marriage he has worked a lot and we seldom had a chance to spend much ...
A. 31 December 2008: hi i would suggest trying to get spark back into marriage do things like going on dates, having cosy night in, possibly leave little notes to bring fun back into the marriage, and share out all errands and jobs so one half not stressed xx feelings ... (read in full...)
My life is a mess without my boyfriend...
Q. I've been with a guy for a year and a half it started out wrong, I accepted they way he is. He used to cheat on me and say it's meaningless and he just does it to feel "relieved".. he never used to be there for me when I needed him and he bugged me ...
A. 31 December 2008: hi chick i understand how hard it is to walk away but please walk away before you get stuck in a trap i got stuck in a trap for 4 years and i have now lost everything my dream wedding and friends. Please find someone that wants you only and ... (read in full...)
Do you think my friend and I should confront him about him going red etc.?
Q. I'm 14 and i really like this guy who is 15 and is in the year above at school. I've known him since we were in primary school. I've liked him for a few years now and i think i love him. ( Do not say that because im 14 i can't be in love) Last S...
A. 3 September 2008: hi chick dnt confront him as he is more likly to get defencive and argue n u will cause ur self a whole lot of trouble. y dnt u get him on his own if poss n ask him out this is the 21st century boys dnt have to do all the runnin. hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
All I want is for my boyfriend to be happy. What should I do?
Q. Hi all, I am going out with this guy and am madly in love him and so is he. We are very happy together. We have some common friends. But they are closer to him than i am - they are his best friends. The reason being for me being distant from them is...
A. 3 September 2008: hi chick, have you spoken to your b/f about this. my partner has 1 friend that has neva taken to me i just go out n have a good time if they tlk they tlk if not it there lose your partner shud undersand u makin the effort is there any of his friends ... (read in full...)
How can I find perfect relationship
Q. dear cupid, i fell in love to a man that got married, I really love him, what will I do, I know he will never be mine - but I'm really crazy about him, and why if the man fell in love with me deeply I will not like him any more? what do I do, I ...
A. 3 September 2008: hi chick it may seem like the end at the moment, i have been there not married man but someone i thought i couldn't live without. time will pass and it will get easier concentrate on having fun and let love come in its own time i met my partner ... (read in full...)
He seems perfect and our ages aren't an issue to us. Should they be?
Q. I am 15 and my boyfriend is 21. We started going out and we really didn't ask the whole age question. We got really close and that's when I asked him how old he was. We had sex but I told him I would rather wait because it is safer. He respects that ...
A. 30 December 2005: hi
this guy seems to really care about you and treats you with respect and how you would like to be treated, i have a lot of respect for him accepting that you are not ready for sex, and i also think you have made the the right decision not to h... (read in full...)
I got beaten up by an ex bf and it's affected me..I can't trust anyone. Will I ever be able to have a happy relationship?
Q. OK, this is a hard topic for me to put, there isn't really a catorgory for it. I don't know where to start but i dated one of my friends earlier this year as a rebound from my ex who im still not over, my friend suddenly changed dramatically and ...
A. 30 December 2005: hi
firstly i'm sorry to hear of your experience and to answer one of your questions no you didn't deserve it.
Have you tried speaking to someone who doesn't know you personally. it is a very hard experience to get over and with the love, care a... (read in full...)
When I call my gf, she doesn't sound happy to hear from me..am I being overly sensitive?
Q. I am a mature guy, but I met my girlfriend nearly a year and a half ago. we grew from friends into what I thought was a great relationship 6 months into our friendship. How little did I know, she nearly ended it with me 6 months later as I had been ...
A. 30 December 2005: hi
i advise that you just mention to your girlfriend, just say that it's not that you don't trust her or anything but sometimes it feels like she doesn't want you and just want a little reasurrance from her every now and then. Have you thought ... (read in full...)
Can you explain about bleeding when losing virginity?
Q. My girlfriend says i took her virginity away but she didnt bleed, she said her boyfriend masturbated her and she bleed, for some weird reason its tough to beleive, is that common? what do i do?...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
every girl is different, some bleed and some don't. What matters is that you both care about each other. In todays soceity how virginity is lost is not as important. All i advise you to do is think about what you both have and why you are both... (read in full...)
Does my boss fancy me?
Q. my boss has recently been very playful with me ,and saying things like i havent seen you today, and saying things like i like you. we were play fighting, and he likes to get in my face, and i have to back away, it kinda makes me nervous. what does ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
there should be no reason for you to feel like this at work. firstly explain to him that you don't like this type of behaviour from him and if nothing changes then take the matter to someone higher then him. you have a right not to be harrasse... (read in full...)
How can I win his heart though he is with someone else?
Q. i am starting to really like this man, but he has a girlfriend. he says there's nothing there, but he is afraid to make her go because she has no where to go. but he won't make our dating experience known to her. but everyone in my family knows and ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
if he likes you enough you won't need to win him over, i would advise you to sit down with him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels that way you will both know what each other expects and if the same then the rest will follow i... (read in full...)
How can a guy avoid the dreaded "friendship trap"?
Q. When getting to know a new girl, how is it possible for a guy to recognise and avoid the dreaded "friendship trap", where the man's advances are taken as friendly and reciprocated as such. i.e. purely platonic. What signals can the guy give to ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
i would advise to tell the girl how you feel. there are many ways in which you can tell a girl you like her. the places you visit together are clues such as meals out in the evening or agreeing to watch a film she want like a chick-fl... (read in full...)
My parents said it's okay for us to have sex...but my bf is afraid he'll go to jail
Q. ok im fifteen and my boyfriend is 19 and we had to sex and my parents said we could and he is afriad to go to jail and i to talked to the sherif and he said he couldnt but he wont beleive me could u help me make him beleive that he cant go to jail ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
well you have consented to sex but if your boyfiend doesn't want to have sex i would advise you not to pressurise him. you are fifteen so will be sixteen within at least a year which is legal age in england, i don't know where you live so can't... (read in full...)
He'd rather go out with his mates and just leave me at home!
Q. my partner of two years makes me feel like he doesn't want to be with me. we live together but the only time we spend together is when we are out together and i always have to get a babysitter. he goes out as often as he can with his mates and ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
I advise you sit down and talk and explain to him how you are feeling. May be you could arrange a night out with friends and tell him in advance so he knows he is looking after the child. go for a meal together and try and get back to how thin... (read in full...)
He got me and his ex gf pregnant...now he's leaving me for her! What can I do?
Q. Me and My boyfriend were together for 3 months, when we found out I was pregnant. Then his ex tells him she is 4 months pregnant with his child. Now he tells me that he is going to be with her so he can raise their child together. When I asked ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
It may feel like times are going to be hard when the baby comes along but if he is leaving you now then you would proberbly have ended up raising the child alone later on in life. My advise is to keep your spirit up by comforting yourself... (read in full...)
I refuse to be 2nd best to his former gf...am I just wasting my time on him?
Q. You may remember this question from last week, but I still need some advice real bad. On our first date my boyfriend told me (after I asked him if he'd been in a relationship since he separated) that he had wanted to be in a relationship with his ...
A. 12 December 2005: Hi
I understand you completely, Me and my boyfriend went through a similar phrase with his ex girlfriend. All I can advise is see it through it will eventually simmer out and you will both be able to settle into living together happily. If he ca... (read in full...)
I thinks she's just leading me on and playing the field..should I give up on her?
Q. I've been seeing this girl on and off for months now, the problem is I think she is just leading me on because she likes the attention. We talk on the phone alot and text each other but it never goes anywhere. She called me up a couple of weeks ago ...
A. 12 December 2005: hi
have you tried to sit down with her and talk to her about how you feel. She said she is a nightmare at the moment, you need to reasurre her that you want to be with her and if you like her as much as you say you do then you'll be able to cope... (read in full...)
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