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writes: I've been seeing this girl on and off for months now, the problem is I think she is just leading me on because she likes the attention. We talk on the phone alot and text each other but it never goes anywhere. She called me up a couple of weeks ago and told me she loved me but said she didnt want anyone to get hurt because she 'is a nightmare at the moment'. Should I just give up on her and move on because I think she is playing the field and just likes having me there for when she feels like it.
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reader, Racky +, writes (12 December 2005):
hi
have you tried to sit down with her and talk to her about how you feel. She said she is a nightmare at the moment, you need to reasurre her that you want to be with her and if you like her as much as you say you do then you'll be able to cope with a few angry words or so here and there. She may be scared of being in a relationship. I advise you to have a talk and show her that you like her for her. Also offer to help her when she is getting a little wound up or so. If her feelings are true she'll let you a little deeper into her thoughts and feelings. Hope it works out. Good luck.
Racky.
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