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writes: Me and My boyfriend were together for 3 months, when we found out I was pregnant. Then his ex tells him she is 4 months pregnant with his child. Now he tells me that he is going to be with her so he can raise their child together. When I asked him " what about me" he only say raise it yourself! I really dislike him for that, but I feel like this child should have a father. I really don't know what to do?
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reader, imsocute01 +, writes (10 September 2008):
imsocute01 is verified as being by the original poster of the question UPDATE: Well time have gone past fast. My son is now 2 years old, me and him are as happy as can be. It is tough raising him alone but well worth it in the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): If you don't grow up now, you never will. Admit the fact you got pregnant (he didn't get you pregnant) and that you made a foolish mistake getting involved with this male. Forget him (you can't make him want to stay or be a father, besides do you have any idea what that would mean being there is another woman and baby involved?) When you say your child needs a father is really you saying "I need a man in my bed. Forget getting envolved with another man right now. It is now your responsiblity to raise this child or give it up for adoption. That is the only thing you need bother your head about right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2005): Yes ur child does need a father..doesnt have to be biological...why would u want ur child growing up with a dad that told his mommy and (pretty much to ur child too) to take care of themselves...Not a father figure at all...i feel sorry for the one hes with now...as long as he has grandfathers, uncles, ur dad, ur brothers, and u will find someone who will love u and ur child and even though he will never b the biological father...he will be a great dad...ur child will be fine in this crazy world of ours...i think its jus u...realize that he doesnt love u or else he would of stayed with you...obviously he still loved his ex!
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reader, Racky +, writes (12 December 2005):
 hi
It may feel like times are going to be hard when the baby comes along but if he is leaving you now then you would proberbly have ended up raising the child alone later on in life. My advise is to keep your spirit up by comforting yourself with those close to you who will you give you love, help and advise, like family. you may feel lost at the moment but you can give your unborn child the life you want if you just believe in yourself. look after yourself and the baby and let him and his ex worry bout themselves. take care chick. all the best
racky
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