New year means new things! What is the scariest thing you have ever done in your life?
Q. Just a general question really to all you guys and gals out there; what is the scariest thing/s you have ever done? See I read this question in a magazine recently and couldn't think of anything scary I had done so I thought I'd put this questio...
A. 10 January 2007: I did a sky dive from 10,000 feet from a plane to raise money for a charity that covers an illness my Mum suffers from! Being scared of high heights this was very very scary but the most amazing experience ever! Also felt rather proud of oneself ... (read in full...)
New year means new things! What is the scariest thing you have ever done in your life?
Q. Just a general question really to all you guys and gals out there; what is the scariest thing/s you have ever done? See I read this question in a magazine recently and couldn't think of anything scary I had done so I thought I'd put this questio...
A. 10 January 2007: I did a sky dive from 10,000 feet from a plane to raise money for a charity that covers an illness my Mum suffers from! Being scared of high heights this was very very scary but the most amazing experience ever! Also felt rather proud of oneself ... (read in full...)
I had sex in the shower
Q. I had sex in the shower about a week ago and since then the inside of my vigina has been hurting whenever i do anything sexual. I was wondering what it could be and how can i fix it?...
A. 4 December 2006: It could be that you have affected the PH balance in yr vagina due to the water and any soap etc..This can cause bacterial infections (Im not on about a sexually transmitted infection by the way) which need treating by antibiotics. Simple things ... (read in full...)
Ive been having unprotected sex with my Bf since we have been together, do you think I could be pregnant!!!
Q. Since my boyfriend and i have been going out, we've had unprotected sex. Now the thing thats concerning me now is that my monthlys were due on saturday saw my bf and did it sunday, and its thursday, and still hav'nt got them yet. Im 6 days late, and ...
A. 5 October 2006: There is a high possibility of you being pregnant so you need to go and buy a test, if you cant afford to buy one from the supermarket or chemist (they range from about £7.99-£19.99) maybe you could contact your local family planning clinic who will ... (read in full...)
My ex is pregnant, but Im really happy with my now relationship!! What should I do ??
Q. My ex is pregnant, but I am in a wonderful relatinship until now. What should I do? Dear Readers, My ex(17) who I (19) was with for about a year is 4 months pregnant from me, but have been in a relationship now for about 4 months too with a ve...
A. 5 October 2006: I think getting back with her just for the baby is a bad move. You can bet that you will end up eventually breaking up again because again you will not be happy with her. You can give the baby a good start and good quality of life regardless of ... (read in full...)
How do I give good head?
Q. i have given head b4 (blow job) but how do i know im doing it right? any sugestions on how 2 give a BJ....?...
A. 29 September 2006: I find that practise makes perfect but you could start by pulling back the foreskin and licking around the rim as this is the most sensitive area, some men like you taking it very deep into your throat but if, like me, you struggle with this using ... (read in full...)
Convinced my Dad is cheating on my Mum, what should I do?
Q. I am a teenager living at home with my Mum and Dad who have been married for 20 years. I recently found some texts on my Dads mobile and I am now convinced he is having an affair. Please help me because I can't stand the thought of my family been ...
A. 28 September 2006: Id confront your Dad about the message. If he is having an affair then your Mum deserves to be told but Id say by him rather than you. Its hard because this will obviously affect your family greatly but you need to be strong whatever the outcome, ... (read in full...)
Sex on holiday, am I now pregnant?
Q. I had sex on holiday and since then i havent been on my period.I took 2 pregnancy tests but they were really cheap 1 said negitive then the other said positive im really scared im only 15 XXXXPLZ HELP XXX...
A. 28 September 2006: Id suggest you get yourself straight down to your GP or your local family planning clinic (you will find the number in the phone book) where they will offer you a free pregnancy test, both services are confidential and therefore noone will find ... (read in full...)
Been married a few months and run out of thinsg to say!
Q. I have nothing to say to my wife. We have only been married for a few months, and I am scared. We just moved because of her job, and we have no one to speak to other than each other. I am not working so I can't even tell her about my day. What can I ...
A. 28 September 2006: I agree with eyeswideopen, just because you dont work and have recently moved shouldnt mean you no longer have anything in common to discuss with your new Wife. Dont worry about it too much, your aware of it so just work on it. Keeping up with ... (read in full...)
Is this mess normal?
Q. is it normal when me and my parnter have sex for is semum to dribbel out of me wen he pulls out of me...
A. 28 September 2006: I wouldnt worry about this, it is very normal. The old 'what goes up must come down' saying is very true in this instance..! Granted not all of it comes back down (or how would we get pregnant?!) but it damn well feels like it sometimes! Lol. Hope ... (read in full...)
How can I get it through to my ex, that its well and truly over!?
Q. I am hoping that some of you can help me with this problem – you see I was with my boyf for 9 years, for 2 of them we were engaged to be married, we broke up 18 months ago after I found out he had been sleeping with my supposed “Best Friend and ...
A. 28 September 2006: Firstly, well done you for your strength over dealing with this and getting your life back on track!
You appear to have tried the nicey nice approach and you appear to have tried the straight to the point, a bit harsh approach but he is obvi... (read in full...)
I have a vaginal odour despite cleansing, anything I can take to reduce this ?
Q. i have recently found that i have vaginal odour problems and when i have sex it comes up more. I wash all the time but how can i get rid of the problem ? Are there any tablets i can take for this ?...
A. 28 September 2006: Over the years Ive suffered from recurring UTIs and the same problem your now experiencing. My Doctors did some swabs and told me I had BV, Bacterial Vaginosis. Its basically an imbalance of the PH in your vagina which is easily treated with ... (read in full...)
Kind of feeling that I want to end the relationship, but I do love her and cant see life without her, but she does act selfish.. What can I do ?
Q. Me and my fiancee have been together for 13 months now,we are both in our early 30's,when we met we fell in love very quickly.We are supposed to be moving in together at the end of this year.We are also best friends and have a solid relationship, ...
A. 22 September 2006: U clearly love her but u need to be clear that relationships are about a lot more than just being in love. Relationships compromise, trust, understanding. U say she’s selfish in her ways & stubborn in her thinking - this may be so but if she chooses ... (read in full...)
Kind of feeling that I want to end the relationship, but I do love her and cant see life without her, but she does act selfish.. What can I do ?
Q. Me and my fiancee have been together for 13 months now,we are both in our early 30's,when we met we fell in love very quickly.We are supposed to be moving in together at the end of this year.We are also best friends and have a solid relationship, ...
A. 22 September 2006: You clearly love your partner but you need to be clear that relationships are about a lot more than love. A relationship needs compromise, trust, understanding. You say shes selfish in her ways & stubborn in her thinking - this may be so but if she ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 21 September 2006: Hi, I too love the site it has helped me through some very difficult times and situations in the past 12 months.I tell all my friends and work colleagues about the site too.! I agree that removing the option to post yr question anon is a bad move, ... (read in full...)
To Swallow or not to swallow....
Q. My girlfriend and i r 15 and we've been together for around a year, we're each others soulmates and are truely in love. while having oral sex, should she swallow if i ejaculates in her mouth or not? ...
A. 30 August 2006: I agree with Dr Pete. Its entirely up to what she is most comfortable with. Some women like to swallow - its not bad for her infact sperm is full of protein. But other women dont like swallowing and hopefully men respect this and are usually ok with ... (read in full...)
Worried about his sexual past and think I should end the relationship.....
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now but I think the time may have come to end it. He is a wonderful boyfriend and would do anything for me, only problem is his past. He's slept with so many women, all one night stands, and I often have to see ...
A. 30 August 2006: Ive been with my boyf for 3 years and if I bumped into someone in town I knew he slept with Id feel a bit insecure but the thing is everybody has a past and whos to say the next guy you meet doesnt have a similar past? You seem to be in love wit... (read in full...)
What a mess... what do i do. Give up? (long)
Q. YES IT IS LONG BUT I SO NEED HELP FROM AS MANY AS POSSIBLE. PLEASE PLEASE YOU SMART ONES READ THINK AND HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING i was with my gf for three and half years, lived together for a lot of it and we had a baby eight months ago. We...
A. 30 August 2006: You really need to put your feelings in a box and move them to one side right now. She obviously is v confused about what she wants and whether she has made the right decision but all she is doing is confusing you also. You saw how she reacted when ... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 and my Dad's friend always grabs at me! Who will believe me and what should I do?
Q. hi.i'm 12 years old virgin. my dad's closest friend grabs me at any chance he gets. i've told him not to do that and i'll tell for him if he tries it again but he says no one will believe me not even my dad his good friend for years. He said he will ...
A. 30 August 2006: You really MUST tell someone about this man straight away.People will believe you, what he is doing is very wrong and dangerous. Dont feel scared you kow in y our heart your telling the truth and thats what matters.X... (read in full...)
is it wrong to sleep with your ex's best friend even though you've been split up a year and he's happily in a relationship with somone else?
Q. Just a quick question, is it wrong to sleep with your ex's best friend even though youve been split up a year or so and hes happily in a relationship with somone else? And is it normal that the ex, when they find out, will think that you did it ...
A. 30 August 2006: This has never happened to me however when it comes to me and my friends we would all agree that there is an unwritten rule that kinda goes along the lines of.."you dont sleep with a mates ex - whether its a recent ex an ex from amny moons ago! its ... (read in full...)
I have a low pain tolerance so I'm worried about sex!
Q. I haven't been going out with my boyfriend very long but we were friends for almost a year before we started dating. I'm 19 and he's 27, he's had one partner before me. I know he's ready for sex and I think I am too. I want to have sex with him but ...
A. 30 August 2006: Usually the first time is a bit uncomfortable (rather than painful) but the more you worry about it to more you will feel tense and the more it will be uncomfortable. You ned to let your body relax and your muscles relax. when the time comes just ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and obsessed with my weight!
Q. hi, im 20 yrs old, i am obsessed with my weight, i go to the gym maybe 3 or 4 times a week, constantly checking my weight, if i even gain 1 kilo gram in 1 week i become very depressed, im constantly checking my body for fat, i feel guilty everytime ...
A. 30 August 2006: Youre certainly not over weight. If you continue with these typeso f eating habits you may quickly find that your very underweight which will then lead to malnutrition and cause you other types of problems bad skin, hair and bad breath! Seriously ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my sister before we dated...
Q. My boyfriend slept with my sister before we dated. I have some trouble forgiving him still. I'm not sure if I can move on from this and forgive him. Am I making this a bigger deal than it is? I haven't been with them in the same room together ...
A. 30 August 2006: If you want to be with this guy you have to move on from this. My Sister is married with 2 children to a guy I slept with before they got together - the way she saw it was they were not dating they had no relationship and therefore noone was in the ... (read in full...)
Help! My periods are very heavy!! What can I do to help it ?
Q. I Have a major Period problem. atleast thats what i think. I'm a teen and i started my period 2 and a half years ago, and i suffer so badly when they come they last for 5 days and i spend atleast 10 minutes in the toilet each time. When im ...
A. 30 August 2006: Your friend has given you the best advice in my opinion. Every persons body is different but most GPs suggest the contraceptive pill as the hormones in it help control the flow of your periods, period pains and sometimes acne related to the 'time of ... (read in full...)
Does an ex ever come back?
Q. Is there a possibility that the person who breaks up with you would still be coming back?...
A. 4 April 2006: That’s a hard one, depends y u broke up for a start?! My boyf left me for 4 wks, I was devastated, really believed it was over for good so did he. We didn’t have n e contact and I started to accept it and tried 2 get on with life. He then he cleared ... (read in full...)
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