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writes: i have given head b4 (blow job) but how do i know im doing it right? any sugestions on how 2 give a BJ....? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): Most guys will say you're doing it right if you're willing to do it at all. But there are a couple of technics that drive them wild.
Pretend it's an ice cream cone that's melting. Use your tongue to catch the drips that run down the side of the cone. Use your tongue and swirl it around the head and then, just like an ice cream cone, take it all in your mouth and see how much you can fit in. Go slowly and then alternate with a few faster flicks of the tongue.
Two good indicators that you're doing okay: 1. He moans and seems to be enjoying himself. 2. He cums.
Need I say more?
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reader, Robin +, writes (29 September 2006):
Gently, at least initially.Fondling as opposed to holding his balls may be better, during normal intercourse the scrotum is repeatably struck against your inner leg which stimulates sperm production and heightens pleasure, so simulating this can only be a good thing for your partner.Use your lips and your tongue, pull your teeth back behind your lips so that you don't scrape them across the head of his penis, teeth gently teasing his shaft is exiting, biting the head off is not!Encourage him to guide you in your movements, at the start you will need to slowly simulate penetration and in and out action, as he becomes more exited you will need to speed up to his requirements, only he knows when this will be.Having said that, making him wait will certainly be worthwhile and make you feel a little masterful!I don't know how dedicated you are to the pleasure of your man, be advised that for his greatest pleasure you will need to let him come in your mouth. There are two ways of dealing with this, either discreetly spit out the semen or swallow!!It's not fattening and it won't make you pregnant, rumour has it that it contains beneficial vitamins and minerals.If you can't handle this then arrange a signal with him beforehand so that you may get well out of the way when eruption takes place.Immediately after ejaculation his penis will be VERY sensitive so do not continue to stimulate unless he asks you to do so.
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reader, Rachx +, writes (29 September 2006):
I find that practise makes perfect but you could start by pulling back the foreskin and licking around the rim as this is the most sensitive area, some men like you taking it very deep into your throat but if, like me, you struggle with this using your hand on it whilst sucking and licking the rim seems to be a winner.!..Also, gently holding their balls whilst doing it seems to be favourable to some!
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I think the way to a good blowjob is simply enjoying it yourself! oh and teeth out of the way :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): the only way you are going to give good head is you have to do it for yourself and enjoy doing it,not because he wants it or its expected of you.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 All I know is the worst blow job I ever got was great. LOL.
From a guy's point of view, I'll say this - keep your teeth out of the action, and everything else will be fine.
Here's a little blow job humor for you.
What's the difference between 365 blow jobs and the famous blimp?
One's a Goodyear, and the other's a GREAT YEAR!!!
Rim shot!!!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): You probably won't like this answer but it takes practise and experience to do it skillfully. Having said that, most guys aren't too fussy and are happy with anything. Just avoid biting him and go down as deep as you can that you are still comfortable with. hope this helps xx
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