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writes: I haven't been going out with my boyfriend very long but we were friends for almost a year before we started dating. I'm 19 and he's 27, he's had one partner before me. I know he's ready for sex and I think I am too. I want to have sex with him but I'm a bit nervous, I have a pretty low pain tolerence so I'm worried about how much it will hurt.Is there any way I can prepare myself or make it less painful? Thanks so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2006): My first time wasn't realy painful just a bit uncomfortable, but it was the bleeding that freaked me out!I bled loads and all over my boyfriend. it wasn't nice at all!He was lovely though and was only concerned if i was ok
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reader, Rachx +, writes (30 August 2006):
Usually the first time is a bit uncomfortable (rather than painful) but the more you worry about it to more you will feel tense and the more it will be uncomfortable. You ned to let your body relax and your muscles relax. when the time comes just tell your boyfriend to take it slowly at first and ease it in, if it feels painful ask him to take it out and try again slowly. Alternatively similar to what Mush suggests, ask him to finger you first this will probably then make the intercourse more comfortable as your body will relax. x
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reader, bonym  +, writes (30 August 2006):
 Sex is less painful if you are not tensed up and agitated. If you are relaxed and comfortable then the pain can be kept to a minimum. xXx
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reader, lucyloo135 +, writes (30 August 2006):
 hi hunhave you talked to your boyfriend about this ? if not i think you should so he can understand your worries and then he may go gentle on you also i agree with mush girl you should try fingering yourself as it will boost your confidence. hope this helps, lucy xxx
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reader, Mushgirl +, writes (30 August 2006):
 you could try fingering yourself. honestly, it should increase your confidence a lot.
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