I don't feel like he has given me any alternative about flying to see him and I think he is being cold and cruel... any thoughts?
Q. Hi - my problem is that my boyfriend that I love went to live in New Zealand 5 months ago now to work his brother also lives there. He loves it there and has no plans at the moment to come back to England. He wants me to visit and stay for seve...
A. 23 August 2008: Neither of you sound like you care about each other enough to make the relationship worth maintaining. You should put him above your job and certainly above fear of flying. He should have been willing to meet you and spend the money (not to mention ... (read in full...)
Does milk serve as a facial care product? What else could I use for this purpose?
Q. hi i was just wondering if u can use milk (like drinking milk) to get rid of or to help reduce the appearance of spots on the face or any other area. i read that u culd on a website but i didnt know if it was true can u let me no if it is or ...
A. 23 August 2008: I would advise against it, milk will feed the bacteria on your face and will soon start to smell bad.
Go to your doctor and ask for Duac cream, this is the best available cream and will reduce spots by about 80-95%.... (read in full...)
Philosophy does not draw people into a verbal frenzy but I love it! How can I make others interested in it?
Q. I am a hardcore philosophy geek. Some people have have sports, some people have music, I have philosophy. Whenever I try and get to know someone I lisen to them talk about their hobbies but when whenever I tell them I like philosophy they ...
A. 23 August 2008: I don't think you can force people into these kinds of discussions, but if you find the right place or group of people these conversations happen all the time. See if you can get into a good university or go and work somewhere with lots of smart ... (read in full...)
Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?
Q. Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...
A. 23 August 2008: I think you are on the right track, just let your brakes do their thing naturally, its pretty much impossible to "accidentally" have sex when the girl is not ready.
Mind you, it sounds like you are getting close enough that you should have som... (read in full...)
I'm shy and want to fit in at school!
Q. Hey aunties, uncles, or who ever reads this: I'm a 15 year old girl who's just moved and I just started this new school. Problem is that I'm super shy with people I don't really know (familiarity is where I'm most comfortable)but I'm really outgo...
A. 23 August 2008: Okay I know its clichéd, but be yourself (unless you want to reinvent yourself - don't over do it, make sure any reinvention is sustainable) and above all be ULTRA confident. Even if no one talks to you on the first day/s just pretend you don't care ... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?
Q. So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...
A. 23 August 2008: If either or both of you are not ready for the lifelong commitment of a baby you need to go and get the morning after pill ASAP, you only have a matter of hours to do so. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I just wish he'd wake up one day and tell himself, I was the one he wanted, and not his girlfriend.
Q. I met this guy recently. It didn't take long before the innocent talks became outrageously flirtacious. I am totally into this guy, and I know he would definetly go for it, if he was single.. I don't know much about the two of them together, ex...
A. 23 August 2008: Yep, have to agree with previous writer, if he wanted more than some kind of affair/one night stand, he would do the honorable thing of leaving his current gf first and then move on to dating you. Keep him in your circle, in case he becomes single, ... (read in full...)
By the time I figure out a girl wants me, they've moved on or lost interest. Why are girls so hard to read?
Q. True story: I knew "Ashley" for four years in high school, and then the day before we graduate I found out she's had a crush on me the whole time! If I had known about it sooner, I would have asked her out (she's pretty, smart, the whole package); ...
A. 23 August 2008: Why are you waiting 4 years to ask a cute girl out? Don't wait for them to tell you they fancy you, ask them out yourself first. Don't be two direct about asking them out, don't say "will you go on a date with me", say "hey do you want to get a ... (read in full...)
Are there possibilities of pregnancy with the withdrawal method?
Q. If you have unprotected sex can you get pregnant if the guy stops before he comes. I did and we were disturbed so stopped before he did but i have skipped a period. Is it my imagination or is it possible...
A. 23 August 2008: The withdrawal method carries a very high likelihood of pregnancy. First of all there is some semen produced before ejaculation, certainly enough to become pregnant by (it only takes one motivated sperm) and secondly guys often ejaculate (cum) ... (read in full...)
My ex moved away and I am astounded he finally replied to a mail. What should my next move be?
Q. Hi I have recently split from my bf he relocated to sheffield we always chatted on the pc b4 the split since moving he has come online and has chosen not to im me .The other night i sent him an im he never replied and logged off i had also sent ...
A. 23 August 2008: He is dating someone else, but cares about you enough that he wants to remain friends, but does not want to lead you on. Let him have a quiet period for a few months 3-12, with only brief contact. In that time he will either realize how special you ... (read in full...)
Depressed about my acne, am I using the right products to sort this out?
Q. hi so i have spots and i am really depressed by them i hate them i am currently using a moisturizer and clenzer and exfoliator is this the rite thing to do if it is not can u plz tell me wot t do to get rid or help them improve plz ...
A. 23 August 2008: Just a note to say that Zineryt is not a bad cream, but Duac is newer and much better, the scientific evidence shows it prevents spots better and unlike Zineryt the effects doesn't wear off over time.
Note with these creams you do need to use them... (read in full...)
Depressed about my acne, am I using the right products to sort this out?
Q. hi so i have spots and i am really depressed by them i hate them i am currently using a moisturizer and clenzer and exfoliator is this the rite thing to do if it is not can u plz tell me wot t do to get rid or help them improve plz ...
A. 23 August 2008: Forget over the counter treatments, they don't work very well if at all and they cost a fortune. Go to you doctor and demand some decent cream. The best on the market is called Duac. In most people there are no serious side effects, although you ... (read in full...)
I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.
Q. Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask m...
A. 23 August 2008: I think you should revel in being thin. I suspect you are surrounded by overweight people who are desperately jealous of your slimness and so try to bring down your self confidence to their level.
As a guy I prefer women to be healthy, this mea... (read in full...)
She is going back to her ex for the sake of the kids even though she loves me more!
Q. i have been seeing a girl for the past few months, we have become very close and have fallen in love with each other! she has been getting pressure from her ex to get back together and has been pulling on her heartstrings and saying she should give ...
A. 23 August 2008: I assume you don't have kids. She probably feels a passionate deep love for you, but she feels a more practical, platonic, day to day love for the combination of her husband and children. If she really hated her husband she would not go back, more ... (read in full...)
I came home and found my husband in bed with our doctor! What now?
Q. My name is Christina and I am a 30-year-old woman, my husband is 32, and we've been together for 10 years, married for the last 5 out of those 10 years together. I came home from work one night about a week ago to find him in bed with our GP/doct...
A. 22 August 2008: There's obviously something wrong with your relationship, sounds like a communciation breakdown, someone or both are not listening.
BTW I am against revenge in all circumstances, however it is against GP professional code of conduct to have a r... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've never been in love, but I care about him. I've recently started to like someone else. What do I do?
Q. hi im 16 an been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. the problem is that we r not inlove an never have been, we just really care for eachother. i know deep down we would want to be in a relationship where we r inlove with that person. anyway i ...
A. 22 August 2008: Tell him the truth, but tell him you really care about him and want to remain friends, do it in private so he is not embarrassed and come to an agreement to keep the details of your relationship confidential. If he is mature enough, you may well ... (read in full...)
Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?
Q. Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...
A. 22 August 2008: You shouldn't feel pressured to have sex. On the other hand you shouldn't fell pressured not to either, especially when you are 18. I suspect there is something holding you back, perhaps your boyfriend is not being sensitive enough to your fears and ... (read in full...)
How can one virgin really turn another virgin on?
Q. Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and we plan to have sex soon. We both really want to but I'm sensing he is a bit more nervous than I am (because he says he wants it to be really amazing). Do you have any advice about how I can ...
A. 22 August 2008: First time sex, especially among two vigins is very unlikely to ever be "amazing", at least in comparison to sex between two experienced participants, however first sex can be special and that's about being with the right person in a relaxed ... (read in full...)
My partner is undermining my self confidence. Can he possibly love me?
Q. Help! I'm lacking in self confidence and my partner has started making me even more insecure about myself. When we first met over 4 1/2 years ago, I was a size 10/12 ,my hair was shoulder length and I wore glasses and at the time felt quite confi...
A. 22 August 2008: I think he is either trying to get you to break up with him or more likely he is just using these tactics to get you to stay with him and not look elsewhere, these kind of abusive relationships are very common and have a very, very long history. You ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want me to have contact with my ex, or with guys on line.
Q. I've been dating this guy for 5 months, he doesn't like me to have any contact with my ex, even texting because his ex cheated on him with her ex. I don't talk to my ex very often, he text me once in a while to see how I'm doing and that's the end ...
A. 22 August 2008: No offence but your boyfriend sounds likes he's being a bit of a loser. Guys who are very possessive and jealous are either suffering from a serious lack of confidence or have a very immature, chauvinistic attitude to controlling and possessing ... (read in full...)
Why won't she let me cum on her face?
Q. She let's me do it in her mouth everytime I ask, even swallows sometimes. She let's me do it on he rear all the time and once I did on her breasts but she will not let me ejaculate on her face. Isn't it unusual? Why do you think that is?...
A. 22 August 2008: I'm 30 years old and about as liberal as you can get. But I simply don't understand why you would want to cum on a girl's face. They do it in porn movies because it would be pointless to cum inside her etc... they have to make everything graphical, ... (read in full...)
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