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I just wish he'd wake up one day and tell himself, I was the one he wanted, and not his girlfriend.

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Question - (23 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, *iaGrace writes:

I met this guy recently. It didn't take long before the innocent talks became outrageously flirtacious.

I am totally into this guy, and I know he would definetly go for it, if he was single..

I don't know much about the two of them together, except that theyve had a good four months together. I wonder now that he's met me, if he is questioning it. I would never like to be responsible of ending a good relationship. But, could it be really that great?

I mean, we're teenagers looking for adventure and new romances all the time.

I don't think he is willing to risk a promising relationship with his girlfriend, for something he is unsure of. I just wish he'd wake up one day and tell himself, I was the one he wanted.

Kind of a fairy tale fantasy I have going on.

I like to set myself goals prior to say, you're probably thinking these goals are not the right ones I should be thinking about but I want what I can't have, and I like to make the 'cants' into 'cans'

If this makes sense, anyways let's get to the conclusion.. do any of you have any advice you'd like to give me, do you think he will leave his girlfriend? is there any hope..

I know I am going to hear a bunch of things I don't want to here, 'why would you want to ruin a perfectly good relationship, you are such a bad person, blah blah blah' I guess I am hoping to post this question while receiving promising advice and hope.

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A male reader, pursuit of happiness United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2008):

Yep, have to agree with previous writer, if he wanted more than some kind of affair/one night stand, he would do the honorable thing of leaving his current gf first and then move on to dating you. Keep him in your circle, in case he becomes single, but in the meantime look elsewhere.

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A female reader, doe44 United States +, writes (23 August 2008):

Wake up. You are setting yourself up for grab. If a man did not tell you he love you = He Does not. however they will take anything you throw up their way. Your choice.

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