I like to experiment with everything sex wise whereas he doesn't. Is it wrong to want sex all the time?
Q. Hello- Sorry if this is a bit inappropriate but I would like to get some feedback. I have been in a relationship for about a year now, my boyfriend and I have always had a healthy and very active sex life, but now it seems like I am a bit much for...
A. 23 June 2008: I'd say that sex drive compatibility is as important as personality. If you're feeling really stifled (and don't worry, wanting sex is not a bad thing!) talk to him about it, and if it doesn't improve then maybe he's not the person for you. Hope it ... (read in full...)
Is it because of excessively watching porn videos that I have difficulty in maintaining an erection?
Q. who thinks that the porn industry wrecks men's sex lives? who thinks porn and to much sexual images causes damage in erections? the reason im asking this question is because for many years i used to masterbate to porn ( 11 years to be exact) b...
A. 21 June 2008: Rubber bands might cut off the blood supply and damage your penis. Try buying a cock ring :)
Good luck - hope it works out.... (read in full...)
Negative pregnancy tests, but odd symptoms. Ideas?
Q. Hey, around 4/5 weeks ago i had unprotected sex and i am now 2 weeks and 2 days late for my period. This is pretty strange as i have had regular periods since the age of 13. Ive noticed changes, like, all of a sudden i've got loads of spots and a ...
A. 21 June 2008: i would get checked out by your doctor. those pregnancy tests could not work and those symptoms might be the sign of an infection or something. your doctor will use a more accurate test and examine you to see what's up.
good luck :)... (read in full...)
Is it because of excessively watching porn videos that I have difficulty in maintaining an erection?
Q. who thinks that the porn industry wrecks men's sex lives? who thinks porn and to much sexual images causes damage in erections? the reason im asking this question is because for many years i used to masterbate to porn ( 11 years to be exact) b...
A. 21 June 2008: stop looking at porn and masturbating completely. when you have sex concentrate on the girl you're having sex with and think about how beautiful she is. try not to think about porn and how you're scared of becoming soft and it should feel itself. ... (read in full...)
17 weeks pregnant and we are over the moon! But I don't want to make love any more...but we are having big arguments over this...
Q. i am 17 weeks pregnant with my firt baby and me and my partner are over the moon ablout it, the only thing is i dont want to make love any more,its not that i dont love my partner because i do very much, but were starting to have really big ...
A. 20 June 2008:
He should respect that your body is changing hugely and that tbh why would you want to have sex while there's a CHILD growing in your womb? Yes, many women get horny during pregnancy but lots don't.
Just say that you don't want to have sex bec... (read in full...)
Confused about sex and orgasm. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hi, when me and my boyfriend have sex i don't really feel it that much after it goes in and hes not small so idk y. I "cum" a lot though so is that why???? I never really make any sound either, except one time when we were doing it fast and hard. P...
A. 20 June 2008: Only 25% of women can get an orgasm just by vaginal sex alone. Try getting him to stimulate your clit while having sex (try positions so this can be done easily) :)
Making no noise is no problem; some people do and some people don't, it's jus... (read in full...)
How do I know when she's orgasmed?
Q. Probably a stupid question, but I'm curious, how do you tell when a girl comes? I never know unless they flat out tell me. I figure they could be faking it, but a friend was saying a girl comes when she's wet, but I've gotten girls wet withou...
A. 20 June 2008: They shake/tremble, their vagina sort of spasms for a while, and they become breathless and don't catch their breath again for a while. Getting wet just means they're ready for sex, it doesn't mean they've actually orgasmed.... (read in full...)
How wet is normal?
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old lesbian girl. And I am madly in love with my girlfriend. She's amazing and I can't wait to finaly make love with her. We talk about sex alot and tonight she asked me if the wetness I get in vagina is excessive or normal. I ...
A. 20 June 2008: There isn't really a "normal" level of wetness; everyone is different. Obviously the wetter you are the more you're turned on, so the easier the sex will be... So the wetter the better.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a 22 y/o 6'3" gorgeous Italian boy to be interested in a 38 y/o cauc. guy?
Q. I am a bi-sexual guy. I am 38 y/o today. I met a 22 y/o guy several month's ago. He was a student of mine, he no longer is but he has kept in-touch with me. Even more recently, we seem to be spending a fair amount of time together and we are ...
A. 18 June 2008: happy birthday :P
i would just ask. don't pressurise him or show outwardly your disappointment if he's not, but if he's flirting with you perhaps he is interested.
There's nothing wrong with thinking he might be interested in you :P try askin... (read in full...)
Does anyone know why I feel like this when I masturbate?? It only happens when I use my fingers...
Q. When I masturbate with my fingers rather than anything else I get really spacey, especially when my eyes are closed. When I masturbate even using bullets or other vibrators it's fine, but when I use my fingers I feel sort of empty and hollow and my ...
A. 17 June 2008: Wow. I hadn't thought of that.... (read in full...)
Used a condom, period still late, almost no signs of pregnancy. Am I pregnant?!
Q. Hello.. first off, some background: I usually get my period a few days after my mom gets hers. So I'm about 4-8 days late, now. I had sex maybe a little less than a week ago (We used a condom-Lifestyles) I haven't taken the pregnancy test...
A. 16 June 2008: Condoms can fail. Take a pregnancy test as soon as possible to be on the safe side, but periods can fluctuate at any time so it's not a failsafe method of seeing if you're pregnant.... (read in full...)
If a woman says she hates you is that a good sign??
Q. If a woman says she hates you is that a good sign? Does it mean she as feelings for you, and thats got to be better than indifference. Does she just need turning around?...
A. 16 June 2008: Um... generally if I say I hate someone I mean it. If she's laughing when she says it though, or being sarcastic, (and you should be very sure that's the case) then it's probably not true and she's just joking, but otherwise... take it at face value ... (read in full...)
My nippes don't get hard!
Q. hi ok this is super embarrassing to talk abt whn me n my bf r havin sex or whn were fooling around my nipples dnt get hard at all the only time nethng like ths happens is whn im cold i wanna kno if thrs sumthng wrong with me cuz im embarrassed by ...
A. 16 June 2008: Small breasts are good :P 34B is absolutely fine. There's nothing to worry about - if your boyfriend loves you and finds you attractive (which of course he does) there'll be nothing to worry about with him seeing your breasts. If you tell him your ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to cum??
Q. My boyfriend and I have had sex a few times. Every time we have sex he cant cum. He has to jack off or I have given him a bj once and he came. He was married for 2 years before we got together and his ex would get up in the middle of sex and walk ...
A. 16 June 2008: He may just be tense and feel insecure after what happened with his ex. If you're the only other girl he's slept with he may not have had sex in a loving way where he can feel relaxed.
Toys might work especially rings (check out some websites... (read in full...)
How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners??
Q. How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners: shaved, trimed or with some sort of design?...
A. 16 June 2008: Bald looks childlike and you can get ingrown hairs and yuckiness. Personally just washing thoroughly when you have a shower and trimming it so it's neat is considerate and shows you care :P it's up to you what you do.... (read in full...)
I want to be loved. I need somebody.
Q. i'm still young so i can't say that i know what's love like. but, there's this guy who i like very much since 1st grade and we were together some time ago and he dumped me. we even had sex, and he told me that he loves me, but now, i'm not so sure. ...
A. 16 June 2008: I feel similar sometimes. It's so wonderful to have intimacy with someone and feel loved and when you did have that and now miss it it can feel horrible. When I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago I felt so alone. But you get over this, and ... (read in full...)
I get depressed about my "small" boobs...
Q. im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my p...
A. 16 June 2008: Don't have plastic surgery. You won't be able to breastfeed your kids, plus so many guys hate it anyway because they feel very different.
Small breasts don't sag - they stay perky forever. Many guys love them. I'm a 32C/D and they really irritate... (read in full...)
How do I go about getting a boyfriend?
Q. This is going to sound so strange... I'm sixteen and I've never had a real boyfriend. I had a girlfriend for about seven months late last year/early this year which is now a complete train wreck (I think I'm bi), but I haven't kissed a guy sin...
A. 12 June 2008: Thank you :)... (read in full...)
My periods were like clockwork, now this bleeding! What could it be?
Q. Im worried im having a miscarriage. My last period was on 15 May. I had unprotected sex on 27 May and I noticed very slight spotting of blood afterwards. Then last week I noticed my breasts had become very sore and on thursday I noticed blood in my ...
A. 9 June 2008: I agree with the other poster. Spotting can be a sign of pregnancy, not necessarily a miscarriage. Call NHS Direct or go to your GP where you can have an examination and a free pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
Can you please explain this quote!
Q. Hello:] just wondering,will someone please explain what this quote means.. Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love. thanks.:)...
A. 9 June 2008: Pangs of despised love = loving someone (or someone else loving you) and not being happy about it.
Balm = cure, aid.
Being friends with this person who you love or who loves you is the best way of getting over it.
Although I don't know... (read in full...)
Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??
Q. Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly ...
A. 8 June 2008: I'm sorry you feel this way. The truth is some people are having lots of sex, but not all people. My advice would be stop feeling bad about being a virgin - if you don't want to have sex before marriage I really, really respect that. If your wife ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are compatible in almost everything, but he is not very affectionate and has a much lower sex-drive than me. I start wonder whether this is really what I want in life?
Q. My boyfriend of eight years is not affectionate and will only kiss me before sex (less than once a month, he has a much lower sex drive than me!). If I try to initiate affection he recoils. I do love him very much and he always makes me laugh. We ...
A. 8 June 2008: This may not be the best advice, but I consider sexual compatibility as important as personality. Think about how you feel at the moment as he rejects you when you try and kiss him, and think about how that would be forever. I know you would have ... (read in full...)
Is it because I get tired to quickly that I'm not getting properly aroused?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about ten months, and I love him alot (even if it's not romantically it's as a best friend). However, whenever he tries to finger me, i only seem get partially aroused. He thinks it's because I'm anaemic ...
A. 8 June 2008: Try other things than fingering - it may not be the thing for you. Get him to give you a full body massage and touch every part of you - get him to touch your erogenous zones and make you really relaxed. If you get tired easily try having sex in the ... (read in full...)
How do I eat out my girlfriend?
Q. I've been dating my gf for over a year now. I want to eat her out but I don't know how to do it. lol can anyone help me?...
A. 8 June 2008: Go to websites - I recommend askmen.com. They give advice on techniques and FAQs if you have any worries or hangups.
If you decide to go ahead with it make sure she is very turned on beforehand and keep asking her if what you're doing feels go... (read in full...)
I want a baby but I have no boyfriend and am only 12.
Q. i want a baby but im only 12 years of age. im a single,im good with babys i baby sit my cosin 2. i feel like im ready, but am i. how can have a baby without a boyfreind....
A. 8 June 2008: Try working at a nursery or babysitting. Try not to think about this - it'll probably go away when you see what screaming lumps babies can be.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex without protection and still not get pregnant?
Q. is there a time when you can have sex without protection and stil not get preg?...
A. 8 June 2008: No matter what happens you will always run a small risk of getting pregnant. Even with condoms they're 99% effective which means if you use them 100 times, they'll fail once.... (read in full...)
Why am I still bleeding? I've had sex three times...
Q. why am i still bleeding when i've had sex three times as the sayin goes the first time u have sex your sposed to get your cherry popped but im still bleeding. why?...
A. 8 June 2008: Do you mean bleeding each time you have sex, or continuously?
It may be that your hymen isn't completely broken and each time you've had sex it has broken a little more. Either way I'm sure you'll stop bleeding soon.... (read in full...)
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