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writes:i'm still young so i can't say that i know what's love like. but, there's this guy who i like very much since 1st grade and we were together some time ago and he dumped me. we even had sex, and he told me that he loves me, but now, i'm not so sure. he's with some other girl now and i'm all alone, and i need somebody. i wanna be loved. i'm not emo or something, i'm just alone. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, peace-and-love  +, writes (16 June 2008):
I feel similar sometimes. It's so wonderful to have intimacy with someone and feel loved and when you did have that and now miss it it can feel horrible. When I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago I felt so alone. But you get over this, and you can get more perspective on your life. You will find someone else and one day I promise someone will really love you, not like this silly guy who obviously didn't appreciate how lucky he was to have you :P good luck - xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): You do not need somone to make you happy, that how people end up a mess, you as a girl need to be strong, do not end up like some house wife that gets beat by her husband and yet she dosn't leave because she thinks she need a man to maintain her. Don't be like that, you just need to be happy, having a close relationship is fun, but they are not needed.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (16 June 2008):
 You are still going through the pain of losing this guy, it does take time and you will find someone else even if at the moment you feel really alone. Do you have any close girlfriends you can share this with as it often helps to talk about these things. x
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