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30-35,
*ikibeck
writes:My boyfriend and I have had sex a few times. Every time we have sex he cant cum. He has to jack off or I have given him a bj once and he came. He was married for 2 years before we got together and his ex would get up in the middle of sex and walk off and leave him stranded and to finish on his own. Im only the 2nd girl that he has had sex with. We are planning on getting married and we want to have kids. But that will be hard if he doesnt cum in me. Can anyone tell me if there is a way that I could get him to cum during sex? Is there something that I could do, or something that i could buy or a toy that we could use or something??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): hes probly just use to finishing on his own cuz he knows what he really likes. when i no my boyfriend wants to cum but cant i usually start making more noise that is really sexy, or go up so his penis is almost out then go back down, or the one that turns him on the most is when i tell him in a sexy voice "i just came all over your hard dick"
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Try mimicking the technique you used when you gave him a blow job, as it obviously worked.
I had a similar problem, in that my bf wouldn't cum from a blow job, but I learned what made him cum from hand jobs and sex (really fast motion on the very end of his penis) and applied it to the blow job and it worked!
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reader, peace-and-love  +, writes (16 June 2008):
He may just be tense and feel insecure after what happened with his ex. If you're the only other girl he's slept with he may not have had sex in a loving way where he can feel relaxed.
Toys might work especially rings (check out some websites with him or buy one and surprise him) or just do llooaaddss of foreplay and then take it really slow with lots of lube :p
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