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2 January 2011: it used to be about finding your soulmate, whoever they might be, whatever they might be like - blonde, redhead, blue eyed, mixed race, it didnt matter if you loved them. Now days people care more about looks than personality and it bothers me, why ...
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They're both so different, which should I pick?
Q. i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue...
A. 5 January 2011: hi, urmm from the way u described them i think you know that with girl 1 it would be a serious relationship, but personality is more important than looks. But with girl 2 it would be fun, but probably wont last and i think u might b attracted to her ... (read in full...)
My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?
Q. I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...
A. 3 January 2011: NO! Dont sleep with someone for the sake of it, anyway your to young wait til you find somebody you love and care for before even thionking about losing your virginity! ... (read in full...)
Son's medical condition goes untreated by his father and father's family
Q. I am a single mum no bf with a young son who is ADHD and autistic, and I have full custody and am not involved at all with his dad. My son's dad and his family are really p***ing me off :(. This New Yr I want to change things and think I need to ...
A. 3 January 2011: you have got to go to a solicitors they are walking all over you! They are dismissing your opinions and decisions as the mother of this young boy and are using him to get at you. Also he doesnt pay a penny! ... (read in full...)
Can and should a relationship continue once violence has started?
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I got really drunk at my place to try and re-celebrate our new years. We were both running off 5 hours of sleep that night and I was very moody due to the time of the month. He also has bipolar disorder and has frequent ...
A. 3 January 2011: I hate to break it to you but violent relationships never end well, and if i was you i'd remember that and this might not be a one off, and get out of this relationship asap good luck x... (read in full...)
I really want to ask this sweet girl out, but I can't figure out anymore if she likes me. Please don't sugarcoat it, I need honesty.
Q. Happened in the last two weeks, but slowed down recently POSITIVES: I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a...
A. 3 January 2011: she is totally into you she is just doubting your feelings so doesnt want to embarass herself - just as you are! Why dont you just ask her! ... (read in full...)
Help! I have no self-esteem!
Q. okay I have no self estme or confidence what so ever. what can I do to change that cause Ive driven into hateing myself for it... (sorry if I mispelled anything)...
A. 2 January 2011: right, 1 way to boost self esteem - get close friends and family to list good things about you, and keep these lists for when you feel low, they will remind you how great u are!... (read in full...)
I really want to ask this sweet girl out, but I can't figure out anymore if she likes me. Please don't sugarcoat it, I need honesty.
Q. Happened in the last two weeks, but slowed down recently POSITIVES: I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a...
A. 2 January 2011: Because she shows all the signs that a girl does when she REALLY likes a boy! Complimenting, hinting, sharing everything just ask her!... (read in full...)
Was finding the pictures fate?
Q. Hi, I'm 14 and I went out with a boy for a couple of months early last year, we broke up and he got with sum1 else, they aren't together now. But I was clearing my bedroom out and found loads of pics of us together and its made me realize I still ...
A. 2 January 2011: thanks that helps but i feel really akward around him because i forgot to mention my best mate fancies him... (read in full...)
Does this count as sex?
Q. so first off my boyfriend and i have never had sex. okay two nights ago my boyfriend and i were messing around on the couch (like he was rubbing himself on me but not going in) and he kind of slipped and went in maybe an inch or so but n...
A. 2 January 2011: no you havent had sex yet. Dont worry just be careful!... (read in full...)
His mom walked in on us having sex!
Q. Hi. Im not gonna go round the houses with this, its embarrassing enough! My boyfriend and i (of 7 months) were taking advantage of his free house yesterday lunchtime ish. His mum unexpectedly arrived home early and caught us having rather heavy sex, ...
A. 2 January 2011: just treat her like normal, there's nothing bad about what you've done, its legal and everything. She's probably just realised her 'little' boy isnt so little anymore and is infact all grown up.
What i would suggest is a new venue in future!... (read in full...)
I like to cuddle my best friend
Q. My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing ...
A. 2 January 2011: it isnt wrong to be close to your best friend as long as it doesnt go further, trying to make a friendship into a relationship just wrecks what you had. ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to my sisters boyfriend with her blessing?
Q. So I have a complicated situation where my sister and her boyfriend are completely open to open relationships where they'll see other people/have sex with them, but will be dating each other as each other's main partners. I'm a virgin and hadn't h...
A. 2 January 2011: NO WAY! Losing ur virginity should be done to somebody you are in a stable relationship with and who loves you and who you love, it shouldnt be something you rush into 'to get rid of ur vcard' nobody knows unless u tell them that u are a virgin so ... (read in full...)
I really want to ask this sweet girl out, but I can't figure out anymore if she likes me. Please don't sugarcoat it, I need honesty.
Q. Happened in the last two weeks, but slowed down recently POSITIVES: I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a...
A. 2 January 2011: why are you even asking?? She is totally in to you but too shy to admit it! Just ask her or you are gonna regret it buddy!... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to abort our baby because his parents will otracise us
Q. I have been married for 1 year and have been with my husband for two (2) years. We have a 13 month old daughter together and he has a three (3) year old boy from a previous relationship, whom we have part-time custody of. My husbands parents were ...
A. 2 January 2011: i dont know want to suggest but dont kill your baby just to avoid upsetting his parents ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with lesbian porn...but I thought I was straight?
Q. I'm Fifteen and I think I'm straight, as I've had boyfriends in the past and I am attracted to boys. But over the past year I've had countless lesbian fantasies about friends, girls I don't know, even girls I made up in my head. At one point I was ...
A. 2 January 2011: i think its perfectly normal that you are attracted to both s... (read in full...)
I don't think my family will approve of my boyfriend
Q. hi i wouldnt write this on the internet if this wasnt really important.. im 17, hes 20... we met while i was on vacation, and he was working. at first we decided to just go with the flow and see if our relationship wil grow. eventually we were in ...
A. 2 January 2011: heey hunni, maybe you should just talk to your parents and explain the situation, and how there must be something there as you kept up a long distance relationship! Hopefully they will see that it doesnt matter about your background but your future! ... (read in full...)
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