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*lltheabove1212
writes:Happened in the last two weeks, but slowed down recentlyPOSITIVES:I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her.She sort of felt up my abs at a party. Touched my shirt where my stomach was.Smiles with me.Said she had a really fun time with me.Told me how she wanted to ask me all week to go to dinner with just the two of us.We've been decent friends for a while, but never the buddy-buddy stuff.We went on a drive together to get some food. We hung out and talked in the parked car for about an hour total.She complimented on the way I dress.When I asked why all of the sudden she wanted to hang out a while ago, she said she thought I was the coolest one in the group. She kind of struggled with answering the question.Then out of the blue in a conversation she said "Ya know when you asked me that? Well I've been thinking, and it's just I knew I didn't have much time left here, so I wanted to be with the people that mattered the most to me. Made me feel like I mattered to them. So...:) yeah."Has told me to text herInsisted on making a CD for me of songs she thinks I would like.Overall it seems like she worries about what I think about her.NEGATIVES:Recently we talked on the phone. I had her laughing for most of the time. We had thought about plans to get together. She was all for it. Then she texted me saying her mom didn’t want her to make a road trip, but we could try to get together in January. If not, she said she knows she will see me again. And she missed me. I suggested me driving up to see her. She said something about her house not being good and it’d be better if she went elsewhere. She said she’d keep in touch.She texted me recently saying she couldn't visit this week, but maybe in January and she missed me.I texted her a "what's up" yesterday and she didn't respond. Which is fine because she might be busy.Tonight I sent her a "Happy New year!" with a kirby at the end of it at 1 a.m.. She didn't respond. Then at 5:15 p.m. she sent one saying “Happy New years (my name)! : )”I posted a song from the cd on her facebook wall and said "So this is my favorite one so far. Oh and the last track ;)"---The last track was sort of a slow love song, different than the rest.She said "?:D good (my name) ! I was hoping you'd like them. and yes ;P the last onee is good too"
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reader, alltheabove1212 +, writes (3 January 2011):
alltheabove1212 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf she is doubting my feelings why would she say she knew we would be close but didn't know what, so she just wanted to be good friends like we are?
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reader, partyprincess2011 +, writes (3 January 2011):
 she is totally into you she is just doubting your feelings so doesnt want to embarass herself - just as you are! Why dont you just ask her!
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reader, alltheabove1212 +, writes (2 January 2011):
alltheabove1212 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFinal texting conversation: The friend zone text i guess
After calling her. She had to go into a store with her friend.
Me: Haha wait… I could be wrong, but it did seem like you had a thing for me? Just sayin lol
Her: Well I knew you were really nice and I just wanted to be around you. I don’t know what it would have turned out to be, but I was open to getting to know you better ha
Me:You don’t think it would have worked? Not sure what you mean haha?
Her:I didn’t know how I felt and I didn’t really think about it. Honestly. I just knew I wanted to be around you more and saw you as a good person. I knew we could have been close in some way, that’s why I just wanted to be good friends like we are. What makes you wonder now?
Me: I was just always curious. I thought the same thing that we were close and I liked that. Honestly, looking back I saw some potential for something good to happen. But if anything, we’d always be good friends
Her:Yeah I mean I’ve had a really good time talking with you and I’ve seen how much you care and everything. :) so I agree. Don’t sell yourself short travis.
Me: Lol I would never sell myself short :). Its not a big deal I just thought you were different than most girls. I just hope we can stay close when you transfer. Whatever makes you happy ya know?
Her: Aw, you do ? : ) thanks (my name). That means a lot. And yes ! Happiness is key. I love it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Seriously stop putting it off and go do it this girl is so into you.
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reader, partyprincess2011 +, writes (2 January 2011):
Because she shows all the signs that a girl does when she REALLY likes a boy! Complimenting, hinting, sharing everything just ask her!
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reader, alltheabove1212 +, writes (2 January 2011):
alltheabove1212 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionpartyprincess, how can you be so sure she DOES like me anymore? I was planning on calling her today to see what's up.
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reader, partyprincess2011 +, writes (2 January 2011):
why are you even asking?? She is totally in to you but too shy to admit it! Just ask her or you are gonna regret it buddy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Rather than just continuously putting it off by asking people what they think just go ask her out.
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