Is it normal for him to be jealous of other guys even though we are just friends with benefits ?
Q. is it normal for a guy in a "friends-with-benefits" situation to be jealous of another guy you might see? i recently told him about guy 2, who all i have done with is make out, and he was saying stuff like "well you can go have sex with..whats his ...
A. 20 September 2006: friends with benefits is never no strings as friends have an emotional bond. he has fallen for you and he wants you for himself. guy 2 means he cant have you so yes he is jealous and feels he has a right to be... (read in full...)
Sex hurts me, and my boyfriend doesn't enjoy it either...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times, but he never cums. Does this mean we are not really having sex? And it still hurts when we do it. I thought it is not supposed to hurt after a few times. Is this normal? Also, my boyfriend and I had sex ...
A. 29 June 2006: go back to basics. take the time to get to know eachothers bodies all over again. take it slow, and dont attempt sex unless you are both rarig to go and u are well lubricated. youl have fun. dont panic or youll tighten up and then youd be buggered. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell mum how im feeling about the family, without there being a row!!
Q. Ok so I have an issue. I asked a while ago about what I should do about my parents desintergrating relationship and how to deal with it. Its been 8 months now and I feel so...overwhelmed. All I've done is be there for my mum and done the hoousew...
A. 29 June 2006: its me who wrote the question, i tried to talk to her, all she did was say ' i dont need this' and told me to shut up. i cant get a word in edgeways. giving up... (read in full...)
I am scared my girlfriend has gone off me!
Q. Im 16 and I'v been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months. But in the last few days I'v noticed she doesn't talk to me as much and doesn't hug me all the time like she used to. Im really scared in case shes gonna finish me cause i love her with all ...
A. 4 June 2006: Well, all you can do is maybe surprise her, dont come on too strong and tell her youve bought her something special. you have to ask her whats happening to save your own heart... (read in full...)
He throws a tantrum when he doesn't get sex... !
Q. My boyfriend throws a temper tantrum (no exaggeration) when he does not get sex. What shuld I do?...
A. 9 May 2006: a temper tantrum,what is he 5?
You stick to your guns girl... (read in full...)
I would like to want sex, but it don't happen...
Q. I am 22 and still a virgin. The problem is that I have never wanted to have sex with anyone. I was with a guy for three years who I never slept with. I am quite religious and I hid behind that but the truth is that although I loved him madly, and ...
A. 5 May 2006: Well I can safely say there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You just are not ready for the next step. Thinking about it too much can also block out any want for actual sex. You are perfectly normal and should just go with the flow. So if youre ... (read in full...)
I'm always thinking I look fat and now I want to quit eating...
Q. Hi i have a bit of a problem on my hands... You see i'm 12 and in sixth grade and ever since 5th grade i've always considered myself fat.I was so upset about it last year i stopped eating and then got very sick but lost a lot of weight and looke...
A. 3 May 2006: OMG NO WAY! you need to eat. you are 12 and any weight u may think u have will drop as u hit your teens. you are not fdat, your perfect for your height and you need to think you are everyday so u can believe it xx... (read in full...)
How can I let her know that she is the one for me??
Q. I'm dating this girl now for about a month, she's completely changed my life for the better, after many rough relationships and I'm falling completely in love with her but I don't know how to tell her because she's not quite sure what she wants yet ...
A. 3 May 2006: give it another few weeks, really see her colours...if you think shes the one, tell her! wait for her to confess her feelings but for now back off, if you move too quick, you might ruin it x... (read in full...)
His mother does not approve of me, What is the best action to take??
Q. I've been dating a really sweet guy for 8months now. Everything's been going really well, untill his mother moved in with him a month ago, due to financial constraints on her side. She's always in my face when I'm there and she makes subtle comments ...
A. 3 May 2006: So nicely turn to her and say I love your son and I'm gonna be here for a while. Please accept us and I'm sorry if you cant, but I'm happy and i wanna make a go of things with him. I'm willing to be nice, please meet me half way. explain you get ... (read in full...)
He was getting messages from some girl at his school and I think I don't know everything...
Q. hi, i hope somebody can give me some good advice, i stayed over at my b/fs flat one weekend and about 3 0clock in the morning he had a missed call on his mobile, i didnt reconise the number as i looked to see who it could have been anyway when it ...
A. 3 May 2006: Trust him. Until you have facts, dont jump to conclusion...do something nice to remind him how much he needs you...make him want you more and ask him how he feels. x... (read in full...)
She absolutely refuses to use contreception and won't let me wear a condom!
Q. My Girlfriend refuses to take the any form of contraception OR let me use a condom. It takes much of the pleasure out of sex for me as I am constantly thinking about preventing orgasm inside her. She has let me use a condom on a few occasions ...
A. 12 April 2006: Yeah you need to sit her down and explain the risks. Ask her if she wants a kid, cos if she does and your not ready, stop having sex!! easiest way!!... (read in full...)
I'm really depressed and need good advice on how to help myself!
Q. I split up with my girlfriend 4 months ago - im 27 and feel chronically depressed at the moment. On top of feeling like I want my ex back, even though she is now seeing someone else - I feel like im going to be 'left on the shelf' as most of my fr...
A. 12 April 2006: The easiest thing to do is to widen your circle of friends. People at work for example, get people together, or even brothers/cousins etc can help you out.go for a drink, relax and learn to get over your ex. Just because you split up does not mean ... (read in full...)
Mum found a condom and a cheeky note from my boyfriend. Now I'm grounded 'cause she thinks we're having sex!
Q. Dear agony aunts, I am 13 years of age and my boyfriend is 14. We have been going out for 7 months now and we have kissed and snogged and he has fingered me and we have played with each other and we have fun with clothes on. We have been in the...
A. 9 April 2006: congrats on the protection. your still way too young for sex and from your letter i can see youre being very grown up about it all. you need to talk to your mum, tell her that you are in no way ready for sex and that the condom and the note were ... (read in full...)
How can I cure my premature ejaculation?
Q. Hi. This is slightly embarassing but i have a feeling theres people out there that will be able to help me. Its just I don't last long enough when my girlfriend performs oral sex on me - in under a minute ive ejaculated and it just messes up ...
A. 9 April 2006: wel you worry too much which is causing it. relax and enjoy the moment. also try the stop and start method..when u nearly their on ur own, stop and force urself to go back to the beginning. train your body to respond... (read in full...)
His best friend is destorying out chances of a relationship!
Q. Hi I have spoken with a guy for about a year now and we have gradually got closer. We have one slight problem though his best friend is a female and I think that she deeply resents me. She has her own relationship and is pregnant and has...
A. 9 April 2006: You need to ask yourself something. Do you feel threatened because shes female, or because you are insecure? My best friend is a boy and my boyfriend worries that I will leave for him. Your spouse is with you. Not her. Dont worry. If she is so much ... (read in full...)
She cheated when I wasn't affectionate, and when she admitted it, things got out of hand...
Q. My wife has admitted to having an affair. Over the last 12 months our life has been not good; she has a good job and works away a ot. To cope with this I started to distance myself from her so I would not become jealous and angry when she was away. ...
A. 9 April 2006: Well, the wrong thing to do was lash out. I understand your need for distance, but maybe your distancing pushed her away from you. Maybe she thought 'if he doesnt care, then fine, whatever.'
Any girl would
You were wrong to hit her. Maybe all you ... (read in full...)
I fancy a girl a year younger, but she says she's not ready to date anyone!
Q. Hi I'm 18 and I really fancy this girl in my school (she's 16 in year below). I asked her out a few months ago and she said she wasn't looking to date anyone yet. She knows me slightly and I can't stop thinking about her even though things probably ...
A. 9 April 2006: Well, the only advice I can give you is that you need to get to know her. Be a friend. Find out what she likes and talk to her. Let it grow slowly and then tell her how you feel. :)... (read in full...)
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