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Sex hurts me, and my boyfriend doesn't enjoy it either...

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Question - (29 June 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2006)
A female , *ierra48 writes:

Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times, but he never cums. Does this mean we are not really having sex? And it still hurts when we do it. I thought it is not supposed to hurt after a few times. Is this normal? Also, my boyfriend and I had sex without using a condom for a few minutes. Can I get pregnant from this? lease help!

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A female reader, Kierra48 +, writes (29 June 2006):

Kierra48 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you all for your help!

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A female reader, mystic_helper +, writes (29 June 2006):

go back to basics. take the time to get to know eachothers bodies all over again. take it slow, and dont attempt sex unless you are both rarig to go and u are well lubricated. youl have fun. dont panic or youll tighten up and then youd be buggered. so take your time, have fun and enjoy yourselves.

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A male reader, Dr. Reality Check United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2006):

Dr. Reality Check agony auntFirstly, yes, you could most definately be pregnant. Secondly, if it's hurting you and he doesnt cum, then I would say you arent doing much foreplay. Foreplay for a while will get you both excited, which should lubricate you and get him excited. There's no point him just going in and poking around if you're not both aroused.

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A female reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (29 June 2006):

Hot (Advice) agony auntWhy did you have sex without a condom for a few minutes? You are playing with fire, he could have had some pre cum there (men get a little dribble occasionally when they are excited) Maybe he needs to be turning you on more to get you wet down there. It hurts when you are dry, also you could be really turned on and need an extra helping hand down there. Get some KY Jelly, to lubricate, that should help. It will help him too as he may not be able to really enter you properly at the moment. ALWAYS USE A CONDOM...but it still is not 100%. Go on the pill as well if you can. xx

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