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writes: Dear agony aunts, I am 13 years of age and my boyfriend is 14. We have been going out for 7 months now and we have kissed and snogged and he has fingered me and we have played with each other and we have fun with clothes on. We have been in the bath together and slept in the same bed (without sex or anything) but the other day my mum found a condom and a note in my pocket and the note was from my bf sayin "hya babe love you loads can't wait till friday night. R u sayin u r stayin at Beths?" So my mum read this and she is disgusted and she thinks I have been having sex when I haven't and I think I am too young for it. My mum is grounded me and won't let me go see him or Beth and I have cried myself since it happened 4 days ago. I am really missing him. What can I do? HELP PLEASE .I really love him. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2006): i think that it would be a great idea to br nicr to your mum and twll her the truth if she is still bewing the same then, ask her what she would have done if she was in your shoes. Make sure you use eye contanct and let her no you are telling the truth GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!
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reader, mystic_helper +, writes (9 April 2006):
congrats on the protection. your still way too young for sex and from your letter i can see youre being very grown up about it all. you need to talk to your mum, tell her that you are in no way ready for sex and that the condom and the note were just mess-abouts. you are only 13 and need to relax a little. you dont need to be all hot and heavy with your boyfriend and i think its a good idea to be honest and open with your mum. show her she can trust ya!
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 Okay well what did you expect, you mother finds a condom and a note from you boyfriend in your pocket. she grounding you because she believes she's protecting you from getting into a sexual relationship. she doesnt feel that she can trust you or you can trust her.
i think you need to speak to your mother and be honest with her (maybe leave the bath thing out). she loves you but is scared for you.
if you feel you really need to prove to you mother that you arent in a sexual relationship there one way to do, go to your gp and she can tell if your a virgin or not. but only do that if you cant get thro to your mother by talking to her.
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