I dumped g/f 10 months ago and want her back!
Q. I dumped my girlfriend 10 months ago and everyday I regret it. I treated her bad. Now she's hanging around another guy who treats her like a queen and she acting in a way that she didn't act with me. It torments me to watch anothe guy make her ...
A. 28 October 2010: If she wasn't with someone else would you still want her back? You shouldn't just get back with her to prove a point.
Have you tried talking to her already? don't go in guns blazing, start with a sincere apology and see how it goes, just don't get ... (read in full...)
I think she likes me, despite the boyfriend and her telling me she just wants to be friends, how do I not mess this up?
Q. she told me she just wants to be friends am really heart broken she has a boyfriend but i dont think shes that happy and i know its wrong to case somebody with a boyfriend but we get on so well she comes out with me most lunch times at work...
A. 28 October 2010: Keep your crushes close and your crushes with girlfriends closer, isn't that how the saying goes?
Just be careful if she leaves him and starts going out with you straight away, she'll need some space between relationships and if she confronts you ... (read in full...)
Bored and depressed after being dumped!
Q. After being dumped cruelly by my ex, I'm trying to focus on other things. I've been really unhappy with my job. Its a dead end job and it bores me to death. The company doesn't promote anyone and there's no other areas that I can switch too. I ...
A. 24 October 2010: Sounds like it's time for a change. Push yourself to make the tough decisions about your job - maybe even leave the one you have now before you have something else lined up, although if you're unsure what to do then maybe you should look around ... (read in full...)
Winking before making love?
Q. What does it mean when a man winks at you when he is just about to make love to you?...
A. 22 October 2010: You're in for a good time... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 19 October 2010: Depends if he wants to know these things or not, some couples are happy not knowing, others like to know. The past is the past and you might not be the same person anymore, also are you sure his past is so golden..? ... (read in full...)
Why did boyfriend start treating me well after treating me badly?
Q. Me and my bf have had a sour relationship due to his lies and verbal abuse. He constantly threw me out and aftr i go back to my hometown it is then the nxt day he calls me up beging me to come back. Almst like he just wanted a nite to himself and 4 ...
A. 18 October 2010: Sounds like he was probably feeling guilty for treating you badly, so is now trying to make it up to you. Be careful as he may just go back to how he was once he's realised he can get you back easily when he messes up. Sometimes leopards don't ... (read in full...)
Away Backpacking - How or When Can I Break Up?
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend now for several years. Sometimes things are good, but a lot of the time I just want to end the relationship. We argue a lot and then just end up making up again. Much of my love for her has died and I now care ...
A. 18 October 2010: There's never a good time to split up with someone, but you can't go on burying your feelings. The longer you drag it out, the worse it will be for the both of you. I'd suggest doing it during the day (you'll probs have a lot to say to each oth... (read in full...)
I'm her half boyfriend!
Q. my ex girlfriend has me like a halfway boyfriend...even though i know that she still really does love me still it doesn't make what shes doing fair...i kno i need to tell her that shes needs to decide what she really wants but i don't kno how to ...
A. 18 October 2010: Try writing down what you want to say to her first, then meet up with her in a neutral place to talk things through, nowhere too public incase things get a bit heated, and not either of your places to stop her using you like a halfway boyfriend ... (read in full...)
What can we do about his jealousy problems stemming from his past relationships?
Q. My boyfriend's marriage ended due to his wife cheating. His next 2 girlfriends also cheated on him. Now in our relationship, I can not go out with my friends or visit my son who works as a bartender without it starting verbal fights. If I look too ...
A. 17 October 2010: Along with him sounding jealous, it also seems he doesn't trust you. Be honest with him and let him know his behaviour right now is unacceptable, he needs to get help with his jealousy and not let his past rule his present. Do not put that ... (read in full...)
Should I take a gamble...?
Q. For the past six months or so I have been getting to know this guy who started out as someone I was more or less just attracted to. I recently just got back into the dating world and don't feel things for people quickly or get attracted strongly to ...
A. 17 October 2010: Make a move and tell him how you feel, he sounds like a shy guy, so be gentle. If you found out down the road that he never made a move cos he was to scared you'd kick yourself. Whatver you do, don't regret a thing!... (read in full...)
What steps would you take if you were in my position???
Q. Hi all. Quick bit of background... Was in a relationship with a guy from Apr-08 to Feb-10. He lived 100 miles away and he is 33, I am 21. We stayed in constant contact even after we broke up and a couple of months ago were taking things sl...
A. 13 October 2010: If I were you I'd try to sort it out before Sunday, so that if you do see him this weekend then hopefully the air will be cleared. I'd contact him now and get it off my chest. I imagine the weekend will have enough emotion without the addition of an ... (read in full...)
I love her, she loves me, but she won't leave her boyfriend!
Q. I dated this girl 3 years ago while at the same time i dated her best friend. she was deeply in love with me, however I wasn't. Two years when by, we emailed once a week, and when i returned home from an assignment oversees, i saw her once again. ...
A. 13 October 2010: If a girl leaves her boyfriend for you, then she is more likely to then leave you for somebody else.
At the moment she has the best of both worlds and she's probably enjoying it too, who could honestly say that they wouldn't be flattered havi... (read in full...)
She's not the same girl I was dating 2 years ago
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, and it doesn't seem like she is the same girl that I began dating so long ago. When I first met her, she had several friends, was funny, enjoyed hanging out with people and didn't necessarily ...
A. 13 October 2010: Instead of pushing her to go out and do things on her own, start gently by going out with her and your friends/her friends/new friends. If she hasn't seen them for a long time then she might be nervous about initiating contact again.
Have you ever... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is addicted to his newest compute game
Q. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we still both care for each other very much. However, I feel like we are drifting away from each other. He is addicted to his newest computer game. He spends all of his time on it. ...
A. 13 October 2010: He probably snaps at you because he's trying to concentrate!
Would you rather he was addicted to a computer game or gambling or an alcoholic? We all have our vices and as long as he doesn't become violent towards you then this don't sound too bad.... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my boyfriend, but I can't help but wonder of what could have been
Q. I've began dating my first boyfriend around 3 weeks ago. He's a great guy and treats me better than I thought any guy ever would. I've got unbelievable guilt now because I feel something in me telling me that this isn't right. It's almost like ...
A. 13 October 2010: Stuffing feelings and doubts away will just make them grow and worsen. You need to be honest with him and honest with yourself. Talk to him about how you're feeling, if he's such a great guy like you say then the two of you will be able to work ... (read in full...)
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