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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my bf have had a sour relationship due to his lies and verbal abuse. He constantly threw me out and aftr i go back to my hometown it is then the nxt day he calls me up beging me to come back. Almst like he just wanted a nite to himself and 4 some reason had to lie n make me leave town first. Then after a huge split over him cheating with an escort, i let him have yet anthr chance. All of the sudden hes treating me perfect.. Rubs me down, tells the truth evn if its badnews, evn piked me over his sistr ect.. Im havin a hard time getn the feelings i used to have bt lost while he was the way he used to be. If he really has change completely is there a reason for me to give myself 2him agaim? Im stuck between the fact that this is what ive always wanted yet its not till after i do much more then a girl should have to do that i get wht i deserve. Its like a had feelings for a guy def. nt rght 4 me4 9mtns bt aftr i loose all love 4 him he magically woke up2mnths ago n decided to completly devote himslf to me
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 well only you can make this decision, if you want to make things work with him then go for it but tell him the first sign that he is going back to his old ways you are leaving him and never giving him another chance. But if your heart isnt in the relationship anymore and you dont have feelings for him anymore then your aswell to leave it at that.
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reader, morris_say  +, writes (18 October 2010):
Sounds like he was probably feeling guilty for treating you badly, so is now trying to make it up to you. Be careful as he may just go back to how he was once he's realised he can get you back easily when he messes up. Sometimes leopards don't change their spots.
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