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Is porn and masturbation everyday bad?
Q. Im 15 and i masturbate every day and look at porn is that a bad thing to do?...
A. 1 December 2008: No its not bad. As long as it doesn't interfere with your social and academic life. You also need to remember to not see women as sexual objects who only perform sex for a man's pleasure. As porn can affect how young men view sex. But other than ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?
Q. I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?...
A. 30 November 2008: I'd just like to add that babies have been observed masturbating in the womb. At a young age it is not sexual like it is for teens and adults. And I agree with Hotpinkgirl you need to be careful of not making her think it is bad and diry. ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?
Q. I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?...
A. 30 November 2008: I personally don't think you need to talk to your child about this. It is natural for young children to do this and is quite common. It is very unlikely they are thinking sexual thoughts. Children often simply do it because they discover that it ... (read in full...)
Does my fantasy seem normal? Anyone else fantasise about this or similar?
Q. I'm a 22-year old male, and I often fantasize about having unprotected sex. I find the thought that there's a possibility of of fertilizing a woman with my seed and creating a new life inside her extremely arousing. Often when my ex-girlfriend and ...
A. 26 November 2008: You are very normal, don't worry! I'm sure its a common fantasy, after all its your biological drive to do so. xo missrosie ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and have suffered from depression for a few years now and lately it seems worse than ever.
Q. I'm 18 and have suffered from depression for a few years now and lately it seems worse than ever and I dunno if i can take it anymore.. The problem is that noone knows about how i feel because I have never been able to tell anyone but I really nee...
A. 26 October 2008: You need to see your doctor, and s/he will talk you through your options for treating depression. Its an illness that many of us go through and you are certainly not alone.
Take care, and do confide in your tutor. It will be a relief to tell som... (read in full...)
Why is it that nowadays, looks are the only important thing to people?
Q. Why is it that nowadays, looks are the only important thing to people? Personality doesn't matter anymore. It's all about hotness. Personally, it annoys me. The pretty girls get everything; boys, money...but if you're overweight, no one cares. ...
A. 25 October 2008: I think character is very important.
Take me for example. I was painfully shy at school. So shy I couldn't actually make my voice work if the teacher asked me a question in class. I was severely bullied, and I had very few friends at school. ... (read in full...)
Am I making the right choice here?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I gave him my virginity, and now he wants it over and over again (I'm 15 and he is 15) and I try to tell him no but he pushes me too hard and just say yes. Am I making the right choice yes or no? ...
A. 25 October 2008: Tell him no. No one should be preassuring you into sex. If you're not ready then he just has to except that. Just because you lost your virginity to him doesn't mean you now have to give him sex whenever he wants it. You still have to value ... (read in full...)
Where do I "go" when I have to pull out?
Q. This is kind of a strange question but here goes. When having sex with an unfamiliar partner, where do you "cum" when you need to pull out? Is there some kind of ettiquette with this kind of thing? Seriously I never know what to do when that moment ...
A. 9 July 2008: Semen is released from the penis even before ejaculation. If you don't want to be a daddy then I sujest you wear a condom. The withdrawl method is not enough does not prevent pregnancy.
You should not be having unprotected sex with an 'unfamil... (read in full...)
What are some good hair removal creams?
Q. hey whats a good hair removal cream to use for "down there"? i have veet, and ive seen some comments from ppl here who've used it, but on the bottle i have it says on the warning label not to use it on the genitalia?? is it just dangerous to get in ...
A. 8 July 2008: I wouldn't advise using hair removal creams on that area if you're going to use it very close to your vagina or anus. There may be some very gentle creams that can be used for the bikini area, but I've never seen any. In my opinion, if you really ... (read in full...)
Could the anti-depressants be making things worse?!
Q. oh my god, im just so depressed , and i dont know why .i tried anti depressants a few years ago, they did nothing, i cant talk to anyone as i really dont know why im depressed, i can be fine in work one day,then get home and just feel like crying, ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi, I really understand how you feel and you're certainly not alone. Clinical depression can happen to anyone, and as many as one in three people experience it at least once in their lifetimes. Depression is caused by disturbances in body chemistry. ... (read in full...)
I would like some rational opinions on our 16yr age gap?
Q. I am a 27 year-old female. I just started dating a man who is 43. A little more background about the relationship: He has never been married, and has no children. He has a master's degree, good income, and people always think he is in his earl...
A. 8 July 2008: Well from my expierience of being with an older man (my current bf), the only thing that matters is that you get on with him really well and want to be with him. There are sooo many dreadful men closer to your own age who you couldn't possibly ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to tell her I'm in love with her. Can you advise me please?
Q. Hi am Josian.... and i want it to ask you a question about love. I have a crush on a neighbour, but i am to shy to tell her that i love her. Please - do you have some advice for me? Thank you. sincerely Josian....
A. 7 July 2008: Good answer Gecko. Definately ask her out for coffee, get to know her, and to hell with shyness!
Rosie x... (read in full...)
These panic attacks are ruining my life!
Q. Hey everyone, thx for reading. Basically ive been having panic attacks on the tube n buses n car (newhere travelling) for 2 and a half years and i was able to control it better, until a week ago i had the worse ones ever and was stuck in between my ...
A. 7 July 2008: Hi,
I'm only 20 and Iv'e been having cognative behavioral therapy since I was 13! like you I used to have severe panic attacks when I was younger from the pressure of social situations, I still get them occasionaly so I really understand how hard... (read in full...)
Embarassed about gingery brown pubic hair...
Q. I have gingery brown pubic hair although my natural hair colour is dark brown...I've always been really embarassed about this because when I was at school, kids would always make fun of 'ginger pubes'. Now I'm 25, and no man has ever seen me in ...
A. 6 July 2008: Gingerness can be as sexy as anything else! why shouldn't it? And as the first poster said, if you really hate it that much get the whole lot waxed off by a proffesional at a salon.
Take care x... (read in full...)
I suffer very badly from anxiety and my boyfriend doesn't help!
Q. hey everyone. I have terrible anxiety. to the point where I cant do anything until I feel not so worried anymore. I havent hardly eaten because I cant keep food down because my stomach goes into knotts. I get the shakes real bad. Its just a mess for...
A. 6 July 2008: Hey sweetie,
It sounds like you really do need mediction to deal with your anxiety. I had social anxiety as a teenager and I was put on an antideppressant that also helped with anxiety. You should definately talk to your mother about this again.
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Should I divorce him?
Q. should i divorce my husband? he always shouts at me, never wanting to spend time or talk to me and he puts everything else before the relationship....
A. 6 July 2008: Divorce should be an absolute last resort when a marriage goes wrong. Have you tried talking to him? How long have you been married? Do you have children together? Are there any factors that could be causing him stress or depression at the moment? ... (read in full...)
I want to clean properly down there, and I'm not sure the best way to do it.
Q. How do you properly clean your vagina? Like i knOw that people always say its a self cleaning organ and stuff, but i use a gentle cleanser and then rinse with warm water in the shower every night, and keep my pubic hair short. How do you clean the ...
A. 6 July 2008: What you're doing now is fine. You are right the vagina is self cleaning and to interfere with its naturally acidic enviroment can do more harm than good. Its also a good idea to wear cotton panties as this helps prevent yeast infections.
Take ... (read in full...)
He's addicted to porn but he's perfect in every other way. I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm pretty depressed right now. I've been with my 42 year old boyfriend for 3.5 years. I am 40. At the start of our relationship he was upfront about his porno tapes. About 6 months later when feelings started developing I became insecure with ...
A. 6 July 2008: Hi Jessica,
there is definately nothing wrong with not liking it, but I think you need to identify why you do not like pornography. Is it because it makes you feel inferior, or do you find pornography's portrayal of women distasteful? These ar... (read in full...)
Really, really like this nurse, have a lot in common, much older than she, still want to date her, any suggestions?
Q. Hello, I've got something that has been burning me up for 2 years. I'm 46m retired from US military. Now I've been around the world once or twice,learned a thing or two. I've never been so enamored with someone as this nurse where I work. On...
A. 6 July 2008: Just ask her to go for lunch/coffee. Its friendly and theres not to much pressure and it would be a great way to get to know each other better as well. And I promise the age thing will not matter to her if she really likes you.
Good luck! xx... (read in full...)
Questions about the olympic Games! Why is there so much trouble?
Q. Hello, I see all the things on TV with the olympic tourch but I dont really understand what the protests are for. What did China do that was wrong and why are people doing this? Why didnt people want China to have the Olympics? Sorry if this is a st...
A. 5 July 2008: I would just like to add to what oldfool said that China also has an appaling human rights record from the treatment of its own people. Westerners are often shoked at the level of state control that the Chinese government has over their citizens e.g ... (read in full...)
I feel self-conscious about my belly!
Q. I have a issue thats beginning too ruin my life. I am so self conscious about my belly being a little pudgy that the 4 of July party I just came from(like 20 minutes ago)sucked because I was too nervous too go swimming with everyone else. I...
A. 5 July 2008: I can really sympathise with insecurities about appearance. However, the thing to remember is that you are seeing your own flaws magnified a thousand times compared to how other people see them. Most people will not even have noticed your supposed ... (read in full...)
I hate feeling like this because I feel like I'm a bitter prude...so please help me.
Q. I hate teen sex comedies. I actually hate the way sex is presented in most western media. And I want to get over this, I want to be ok with it, I wanna enjoy it if it's possible. For example, all this "American Pie" things... where regular ug...
A. 5 July 2008: Darling I used to feel exactly the same way as you do. I could have written your question myself! I now simply don't really care about these films since I left being a teenager behind.
The fact is these comedies are meant to be purile and immature... (read in full...)
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