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I believe that advice should be logical and practical. I cant tell you exactly what to do, i can give you advice but cannot tell you the exact way of how to deal with a situation because it might not be right for you :) |
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Is it ok to take sleeping tablets with the contraceptive pill?
Q. Hello, I was just wandering, is it ok to take sleeping tablets with the contraceptive pill? i dont want to go to my doctor and ask because its a waste of time (they told me that i waste their time everytime i go back for repeat prescriptions - ...
A. 6 October 2007: yeah i have a new doctor now as i have moved to uni so i guess it is worth going to them.
and i have tried lookin at search engines and stuff but they dont mention anything.....and that must be a good thing musn't it?
im at home now but i will che... (read in full...)
Husband is behaving secretively...is he having an affair?
Q. my husband has been very secretive lately, i am really worried he is having an affair, he is 50 and i am 38, we have been together for 19 yrs and have 3 kids, i admit i have not been easy to live with but neither has he. but things that he tells me...
A. 9 January 2007: No you aren't being paranoid, dont worry but there must be something going on if he is hiding his phone but it might not be an affair. Maybe he is worried about other things such as a job or finances? But you definately need to bring it up again and ... (read in full...)
Too embarrassed to hold his hand or show affection in front of other people. Why am I this way?
Q. hi. this boy just asked me out a few days ago an i said yes. he goes to my school and im too embarressed to hold his hand or kiss or hug or anything infront of people like my friends and just people from my school. i can do all those things not infr...
A. 6 January 2007: Well its because you are not comfortable yet thats all! Don't worry, soon you will be more relaxed around him and your friends so it will all be ok, you just need to give it time and be confident, don't care what anyone else thinks! I promise it ... (read in full...)
How do I over come my fear of flirting?
Q. please help me!!!!!! i met theis absolutly perfect guy who comes in to where i work ( a cafe) on a regular basis ( every day) and i have developed feelings for him but just as i was begging to think thre was no chance with him he gave me his number ...
A. 5 January 2007: I have this awful fear as well, its just so hard to overcome. You just have to be confident and pretend its like your in a dream or a fantasy where you are a confident person and can do anything. just believe in yourself, start with a smile and just ... (read in full...)
Walked in on my boyfriend bashing the bishop...
Q. I went into the room that my bf was at and caught him masterbating. He had pictures taped on the wall, all of them with blonde hair. (his ex gf has blonde hair) He got upset with me, like I was interupting him!! I went out of there real fast. Was ...
A. 4 January 2007: Firstly all men masterbate, at least most of them anyway so it is perfectly normal that you caught him in the act.
Secondly just because the people were blonde doesn't mean he is thinking about his ex, he is with you and not her so just reme... (read in full...)
How do you know when someone likes you back?
Q. Right where do I start there's a boy I think I really like but I don't know if he likes me back I have never pulled before and I know he has I don't want him to be my first pull as I am scared of what he will say, in our friendship groups were in ...
A. 3 January 2007: Well seems like you sure have a crush. You just gotta get to know him more and talk to him a lot when you are in your friendship groups. Maybe try gettin some friends to hint to him that you like him and see his response? Hopefully then you can see ... (read in full...)
Do I have a low sex drive because of us fighting?
Q. I have been in a controlled relationship for almost 2 years.we are always fighting and i have NO sex drive at all and im 20 it shouldnt be like this but what can i do? Am i not wanting sex cause im unhappy or is my body telling me it isnt right with ...
A. 3 January 2007: Im going to say this straight - walk away. Leave him, you don't deserve to be in a controlled relationship, no-one does. You have to do yourself the bes tthing and walk away and move on with your life.
If you have no sex drive you clearly don't feel... (read in full...)
I have issues with how I look that are making me paranoid!
Q. ive got really bad self esteem issues but i dont know what to do about them. I hate myself so much that the only part of me that i can look at in a mirror is my face and even then it has to be in dark lighting and from the front view. i hate the ...
A. 3 January 2007: The main thing you need to do is work from the inside out. It seems your confidence is seriously in decline. As the other person said, you need to love yourself. How can anyone else love you if you dont love yourself?
There are a lot of other peop... (read in full...)
Developed feelings for my supervisor at work!
Q. hey this may not sound like a big problem but to me it is. i started my job a little over a month ago now but ive developed feelings for my supervisor and cant get him out of my head. i have no idea if he feels the same way and i want to approach ...
A. 3 January 2007: Is it really love that you are feeling or is it infatuation? you need to determine this before doing anything. You also really need to consider how its going to affect your work, if you confront him and he doesnt feel the same way, will things be ... (read in full...)
We cry all the time b/c we live 60 miles away and rarely see each other. Any advice?
Q. i have a girlfriend that i have not seen in almost a year, we talk a lot over the phone and have done since we last saw each other, the reason i have not seen her in nearly a year is ecause she lives 60 miles away, we love each other very much but ...
A. 3 January 2007: Well, why on earth havent you seen her in a year? 60 miles?! you could walk that if you really felt that way.
Well there must be something going on here, something that is stopping you from seeing each other. money? family? you can get past all of t... (read in full...)
I'm prepared to do anything to get her back. Any advice?
Q. hi, just wondering if anyone out there has any advice to get my girlfriend back? we had been 2gether 10 1/2 years (engaged for 5) and i thought everything was fine, geting on as normal etc. then out of the blue 2 weeks before xmas she told me she ...
A. 3 January 2007: It all depends on if you both love each other enough to get back together.
It seems that she does feel things for you truly but is it enough? You both need to sit down and sort out your feelings together, do you really want to spend the rest of your... (read in full...)
Both past ex bf's contatced me recently--Why do you think they are doing this?
Q. Been out with two guys over the last two years one relationship lasted 6 months which was a year ago and the other lasted 3 months which was 5 months ago both ending because the guys only wanted something casual which isnt for me. This Chri...
A. 3 January 2007: Yeah that could be the cause. That they can't find anyone else so run back to old flames.
At the same time tho, it is possible for guys to realise certain mistakes they made and want to get back with their ex's. If so, you need to do a little bit ... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong? Please help me.
Q. Ok so theres this guy(18) and he said he liked me and was interested in me. We've been talking for about two months now and everything was great but on Christmas he seemed kind of mad and then he stopped talking to me.He hasnt said one word to me ...
A. 3 January 2007: Well you seem to be quite young for this guy (i know that must be annoying to hear).
But men are men. Sometimes they like to lead girls on and then reject them its just the way that men are built, they like to show off their skills in front of mate... (read in full...)
I really loved him but he broke up with me. How can I get over him?
Q. My bf just split up with me after almost 3 months of been with him, i loved him loads and he said that he would never leave me it really upset me. I love this guy loads though and i don't know what to do with it. i've asked him to come round one day ...
A. 3 January 2007: I have been through the same thing
It hits you so hard and feels like nothing will be the same again. But i assure you, you will get through this.
And i think you did the right thing by asking him to help sort your feelings out. It can act as closu... (read in full...)
He texted another girl saying he loved her. He gave me excuses, should I believe him?
Q. My boyfriend of three years text another girl saying he loved her. When i confronted him he said because it was new years eve and she lives in another country he just wanted to show he cared. Should i believe him?...
A. 3 January 2007: Hmm well, love can mean different things. Telling a friend you love them can just symoblise friendship.
I advise you to just keep an eye on him and look for any signs that he does feel this way about this person. It is probably nothing but ther... (read in full...)
We broke up with her and seeing her talk to other guys really hurts. What can I do?
Q. Me and my gf went out for 3 months and she was the best thing that ever happen to me and she broke up with me and ive been so hurt for more then a month and me and her go to the same school and i just have too many good memories of her and i cant ...
A. 3 January 2007: I have been through this but obviously im a girl and your a guy.
The only thing you can do is move on. It will always feel awful seeing her talk to someone else but you really have got to get out there. I promise that if you put your efforts into... (read in full...)
When my gf and I are together, she calls her male friend to join us. And when he's around, she pays more attention to him than me!
Q. I'm dating a lovely girl but I fear she could be hung up on someone else! I've been dating a girl for 2 months and everything seemed to be going great. When I'm with her she's thoughtful, very affectionate in and out of the bedroom. for the...
A. 3 January 2007: Well, this sure is tricky.
I don't believe that this woman is right for you. It may seem harsh but if she is giving other men attention, it doesn't exactly bode well with your relationship.
Either that or she is trying to make you jealous by putti... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my current bf and my ex? Who should I choose?
Q. Torn between two loves but which one is the better one for me. im 20 and have been in a 2year relationship.i have no ambition to have sex its like its a chore for me,with the guy i am with. Yet with my first love we dated like 6years ago and still ...
A. 3 January 2007: Hi
you are in a very tricky situation.
Firstly i don't think it is going to work between you and your boyfriend. Although you do seem to care for each other, there is obivously no spark especially as sex is a 'chore' when it should be intimate... (read in full...)
Why do I kiss and hug my bf in my imagination and not in real life?
Q. heyyy its weird. im 16 and i always imagine i have a lovely b/f that treats me really nicely. i imagine that we are kissing and cuddling and i sometimes even kiss my hand pretending its him. is this abnormal? and also now i have a b/f since 2day...
A. 3 January 2007: Hello,
Don't worry this is normal. The thing you have to remember is to just take it slowly and do what feels natural. If you don't feel ready for kissing then you shouldn't be pressured into doing it.
Everyone gets nervous before their first ki... (read in full...)
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