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writes: I have been in a controlled relationship for almost 2 years.we are always fighting and i have NO sex drive at all and im 20 it shouldnt be like this but what can i do? Am i not wanting sex cause im unhappy or is my body telling me it isnt right with him...hope u can help
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): Hi There, it can be two things, first thing would be because you don't have any feelings for him and of course, your body is not physically attracted hence no sex drive dur to his controlling ways and also a hormone imbalance ??? like it does happen alot in women, so something you might want to look into if things don't get better, but since your in a controlled relationship, i do think you need to speak to them and if they persist without reason.. leave!
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reader, Miss trust +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Im going to say this straight - walk away. Leave him, you don't deserve to be in a controlled relationship, no-one does. You have to do yourself the bes tthing and walk away and move on with your life.
If you have no sex drive you clearly don't feel anything for this man. You really deserve a man that cares for you so you can enjoy yourself within a relationship. If you don't get out of ths soon you will do yourself serious harm. Do what you feel is best. You are still young so go out there and enjoy yourself with someone who deserves you :)
Good luck
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reader, Hag +, writes (3 January 2007):
Simply, yes. Letting this man control you is the problem. If the two of you are still fighting, instead of reasoning, after two years, it is not working. If you move on and start spending some time with a man who can treat you like an individual and let you have an opinion, among some other small liberties you have probably given up, I promise you will re-establish your sex drive. You may love this man strongly, but the fact that he refuses to allow you to be an individual is a huge turn-off. A woman has to feel attractive to feel sexual. He is making you feel as though there is nothing you can do right. Walk away and don't look back. If you feel there is danger, make plans to be in a protected situstion immediately after you leave him. Good luck and my best wishes to you
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