He says he doesn't want a relationship, I'm confused about my feelings for him...yet we're room mates who sleep together!
Q. Alright, so for the last three months i moved in with a very good guy friend. We are very good roomates and the "living together" is going on very well. We are in the same class in the university and we have the same part time job, meaning we spend ...
A. 21 February 2011: Many thanks for your advice!
Apparently he seems to be in a dilemma as well as i am. He says we should stop and then we don't. It wasn't a good idea from the begging but now that we got into it, i will talk to him. Keep things straight and clea... (read in full...)
I just don't think I love her, and while I'm still in love with my ex I don't think I ever will!
Q. Hey everyone, I'm having a bit of a crisis in my love life right now, and I've reached the point where I feel I need some impartial advice, so here goes: I'm currently going out with a girl who I've been seeing for about a month. The relations...
A. 8 February 2011: Hello, I am in a quite similar situation as you (split up with my ex of 2 years and a half relationship, 8 months ago and still love him very much, realizing now that he was the one). If it has been over a year you too broke up and you still ha... (read in full...)
Its killing me that my ex is dating again
Q. Hello, I left my boyfriend of 2 years and a half about 7 months ago. I never stopped loving him but at the time i thought it was the best thing to do since we had some problems. I started dating again about 2 months after the break up but it ...
A. 8 February 2011: I try focusing on other things in my life but in the end of the day when i am alone it all comes back suffocating me...
I realize now that he was the love of my life and i let him go. I had the chance to keep him and i didn't. Thank you for your... (read in full...)
Should I even try to save my relationship?
Q. Hello everybody, I need some advice so i turn to you. I am in a relationship with a good person for 2 and a half years. We've had our ups and downs, as everybody i guess, but every time we managed to get through it. I am 20 he is 21 and we've li...
A. 22 April 2010: Maybe you are right. But it is so hard to just let go of my boyfriend because we have been together for so long and even if i lost my interest now after all the problems, there are so many things we lived together and it is difficult. But i'll think ... (read in full...)
How do I get over the fact that my boyfriend is best friends with his ex?
Q. Hi, I am into a relationship with someone. I am madly in love with him and so does he love me. The problem is my bfs ex. They were into a relationship for quite a long while. This was long ago. Later they got over it and became good friends ...
A. 3 September 2008: well it seems that we have the same problem! and squiggel also.. haha. i am insecure and hate all my boyfriends ex... even those with who was just a one night stand. whenever we speak of our past and he tells me stories i get all jealous and want... (read in full...)
I feel that if he gets a new phone he's going to hide things from me!
Q. For some reason I have some weird insecurities. Me and my boyfriend have lived together for the past 8 months and I love it we do almost everything together - because we enjoy all the same things and we have alot of fun doing all those things. ...
A. 3 September 2008: hi. i have the same insecurity problems just like you. i am in a relationship for 7 moths out of the 4 we live together.everytime he gets an email and he delets it right away (just because its an advertisment) i get all nervous that it was something ... (read in full...)
I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 3 September 2008: be strong and dont give up. think positively and everything will go well. i'll pray for you tonight because i know very well how it feels to have problems like that. good luck and be strong. give love to your husband to receive love and dont be ... (read in full...)
If I continue like this at 15, will it affect me when I get older?
Q. Im 15 and usually cum about once a day. If i continue this at this age will it affect me when I get older? Like when I want kids and that?...
A. 29 June 2008: First of all, you are a teenager, which is normal in your age to cum once a day or even more! Believe me this will stop after a while. And even if it doesnt, there is nothing wrong with it. It will not affect you in any way. ... (read in full...)
What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?
Q. I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...
A. 29 June 2008: You should definetely NOT break up with her over a stupid thing like that. She doesnt like roller coasters SO WHAT? I love ballet but my boyfriend cant ballet like i do, Should i break up with him? NO! You go on your relationship with her and ... (read in full...)
I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?
Q. Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...
A. 29 June 2008: RELAX GIRL! You shouldnt worry at all. First kiss is a very nice experience. What you should do is be really relaxed and let him guide you. He knows you havent got any experience but he is still going out with you, which means that he doesnt care if ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?
Q. Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...
A. 29 June 2008: First of all I HATE GUYS WITH HAIR DOWN THERE. Obviously you cant give him the best satisfaction.. LOL. Anyway, my best friend was in the same situation as you so dont worry ill tell you what i told him, and with him it worked out perfect. Before i ... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend Is Pulling Away...
Q. If anyone has advice or is in a similar situation, I would really appreciate your comments or feedback. I've been with my boyfriend for a year a few months - and believe me, it has been a rocky relationship. We sort of got off to a rocky start: w...
A. 29 June 2008: Well it seems that you too have had a really strong and long history but however strong that might be there comes a time where histories like that end. I know it hurts but maybe now is the time to let go. Make a new start and get over him. The only ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed and jealous of his ex! What can I do?
Q. i hate my boyfriend's ex's and not for a serious reason! i think im obsessily jealouse or something. you see, what happens with me is that we live both in france but we come from different countries. i come from greece and he comes from argentina. ...
A. 18 June 2008: things going really better. i guess you guys were right!! just wanted to point out that we are better with my boyfriend!!!... (read in full...)
Is there a way to win back my cousin's friendship and respect? He found out I'm in a relationship with another cousin.
Q. Can anyone help? I have had a flirty relationship with my 1st cousin since we were kids, an i really think a lot of him an enjoy his company. We have often joked that if he wasn't my cousin then we might be together as a couple, because thats ho...
A. 23 May 2008: first of all, stop fooling around with cousins! there are plenty of men out there!! about your cousin you can say you are sorry and cut with the other cousin too. just find a guy that's not related to you or didnt grew up together! and show your ... (read in full...)
He's working so much and is so tired and depressed, I don't know how to help him!
Q. My husband is constantly depressed and there is nothing I can do to help him. He works 6 days a week, 12 hr days and is always tired. By the time he gets home at 8pm he just wants to have his dinner and go to sleep. We rarely even make love...maybe ...
A. 23 May 2008: well your situation is a little tricky. it seems you ran out of ideas. i can suggest you one this. one time he gets back from work surpire him with the following. great ambience. you know candles and stuff. slow music and a WONDERFUL dinner on the ... (read in full...)
I like her sooo much, but I'm confused by this!
Q. Okay, im now a junior in highschool, and ive liked this certain girl since my freshman year, i dont know why, but i do soooo much. I got a job at a grocery store, and then she started working there, but the twist is that she started talking to one ...
A. 23 May 2008: waterloo sunset is right! the only way to get this of your chest is to ask her out. even if she refuses you won't end up wondering what might have happened if you have asked her! and it is a good time now that she is flirting with you! what more do ... (read in full...)
He's still in love with his ex!
Q. Hi. just needing a little bit of advice. I've been getting close to this guy who is two years younger than me. We get on brilliantly and we've both told each other we like each other loads etc. we've had sex a few times. which i am fine with. ...
A. 23 May 2008: well if you are falling for him or want to have a serious relationship with him yes you are wasting your time. because even if the ex is away you can't be with a guy that is in love with another person. imagine the two of you and everytime the phone ... (read in full...)
We split up but can't seem to leave each other alone!
Q. I am in yet another dilemma. me and my bf split about a week ago now. I went over to his last night for the swapping back of personal items, as you do. However, when i got there we were talking for a while then we ended up sleeping with ea...
A. 23 May 2008: it seems that you are enjoying it as much as he does. if you want to get back together with him you can sit down and talk. tell him what made you go away and if he changes maybe you can try another time. but you have another choise too. if you don't ... (read in full...)
I have never ever felt this about anybody before...I would literally kill for him!
Q. Right here it goes. For the past 2 years i have been such close friends with a boy, and and i would do absoloutly anything for him. I have a ball when i'm around him, and he always knows how to make me smile. The thing is, the past year i think i ha...
A. 23 May 2008: it is really hard but you can't go on in this situation for a long time. sooner or later you have to chose. i say you can show him you are interested but not very much. you can give him some "hints" like hit on him but not too much. "pass him the ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed and jealous of his ex! What can I do?
Q. i hate my boyfriend's ex's and not for a serious reason! i think im obsessily jealouse or something. you see, what happens with me is that we live both in france but we come from different countries. i come from greece and he comes from argentina. ...
A. 23 May 2008: thanks peter pan! i guess you are right!!... (read in full...)
Should I cheat or not? I'm in a long distance relationship of 5 months and won't see her for 6 more!
Q. Hi I'm a student and I'm in a long distance relationship but its only been 5 months do, bad thing is that I wont be seeing her for the next 6 months,do you think I should cheat whilest I personally don't want to cheat coz I really love this girl but ...
A. 21 May 2008: long distance relationships are really tricky! i ended up breaking up with a guy because of a long distance relationship. what you should do is really think if you have a future with this girl. cause i can garantee you, once you do something with ... (read in full...)
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