Is there a wrong way to have sex ?
Q. When I was with my ex Andrew he wanted me to try differant positions.....I said no. Then today my current boyfriend asked me if he could do a differant position but I am too afraid I'll do it wrong...What should I do? Is there a wrong way to have ...
A. 13 July 2006: Sex should be about having fun with someone you love. As long as neither of you cause the other pain, there is no right or wrong way to make love......... (read in full...)
How do you spot a flirt? And what are flirt-differences between guys and gals?
Q. HEY. hpw do you spot a flirt, and how do you know when someone is flirting with you, but you just don't pick it up when everyone else says they are! Are there any signs? How different do woman flirt as apposed to men?...
A. 23 June 2006: Not an easy one hon! Story! I was working in a hotel and I spotted one of the regular very attractive easy to talk to I used to smile and giggle but thought he was way out of my league. One of my bar staff said to me one night have you ever... (read in full...)
He says our relationship is now a "trial"... Is this worse than just breaking up?!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of over a year have recently had a big argument and now he is saying that he will stay with me but we are on trial to see if i can make him happy. Is this acctually worse than breakin up and is it making me look needy by waiting ...
A. 23 June 2006: Sweet heart tell him that it is over you should be putting in on trial stand up for yourself!!! The question should be is he good enough for you? It is not your responsibility to make him happy he has to make himself happy. Don’t let any man walk... (read in full...)
10 years of living with a man who has taken everything from me - friends, job etc - how do I get rid of him?
Q. I have been living with a selfish, insecure, opinionated, big mouthed, controlling man for the past 10 years and i want to end this relationship. We are living in my house from a former divorce, but he pays the mortgage(interest only). in fact he ...
A. 23 June 2006: Simple you just end it say I want you out of my life! But before you do that you need to be a little smart contact an old friend you have lost contact with you are going to need support! Then make an appointment to see a lawyer, they can handle all ... (read in full...)
I've been with my boy for over a year but bumped into my old highscool flame... !
Q. Ok i been with my bf 4 a year and a half. Tonight i bumped into a old highschool friend who was also a highschool flame. I went the homecoming in eleventh grade with him and then it went great but we stop talkin til the nite of graduation which was ...
A. 23 June 2006: If you are considering the possibility of a new relationship then you mustn’t be in love with your current man. If not then this relationship is not for you have fun!
Or alternatively it could just be a passing whim.
I have a mate who I love ... (read in full...)
Should I go visit my out of state ex?
Q. I left my boyfriend (of three years) for a guy that I am very much in love with. I've been with him a little over 6 months now. Every 4th of July for the past 4 years I've gone with my ex and his family (who I've been close to all my life) to shoot ...
A. 23 June 2006: Of course you should go, why would you consider not going? afraid that you new man will be jealous? The only question is does your man trust you if he does it isn’t an issue and if he doesn’t then he is a waste of time to begin with.
Enjoy the show... (read in full...)
Should I wish my ex happy birthday as I still have feelings for her
Q. Do you think I should text my ex fiance to wish her a happy birthday - even though its been several months since we have spoken and the relationship ended poorly? I still have feelings for her even though she is now with someone else......
A. 6 June 2006: If I were you I would send her a card to wish her happy birthday. However, only if it is a genuine act of friendship and not as a means of ingratiating yourself, back into her life.
Miss Nade... (read in full...)
I am trying to get pregnant and I think I am obsessed!
Q. I dont know where to start...to cut a long story short i found out almost 3yrs ago that i may not be able to have a baby if i leave it too late. My bf and I are very happy together and havent used contraception now for 2yrs though we have been quite ...
A. 5 June 2006: Dearest Chantelle,
I always find that getting pregnant happens when you least expect it, have fun making love and relax. I have a mate who has had six miscarriages, was told that she would never have another baby, and threw all her baby stuff out ... (read in full...)
Pressure to have sex, but I'm not comfortable with it!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I've done it before but I don't feel comfortable with him. What should I do?...
A. 5 June 2006: Dearest xxemilyxx, Never have sex when you don’t want to… Your body is yours; tell your boyfriend that you don’t want to have sex with him. If he dumps you then you know he just wanted your body. Self respect is the most important thing ... (read in full...)
He treats me badly, then sweet talks me back into his life, only to abandon me again!
Q. I really like this guy who I was with for well over a year, but he treated me really bad with the things he said and did, like he has no respect for me. He is my first so I love he so much and when I know he's treating me badly I leave him, but he ...
A. 5 June 2006: Unfortunately Sweetheart, a leopard never changes its spots. Realising that your first love is just that, is never easy, but remember you have strength inside your soul you are a worthy of someone that respects and loves you and treats you the way ... (read in full...)
Kissed someone else when I was drunk, and now the guilt is making me pull away from the man I love!
Q. I have been with my man for 9 months and I love him so so much. Recently things have been difficult. I feel like all the things that are important to me were insignificant to him and it really started to hurt me. I told him how I felt and that I was ...
A. 5 June 2006: Dearest
I tend you to preach honesty but at the end of the day a kiss is only a kiss… isn’t it? I mean if you slept with the other person, less said easy mended. Did it clarify your feelings for your boyfriend?
If so lesson learnt.
Guilt is ... (read in full...)
My period's gone irregular in the last 4 months. Why?
Q. Hi I'm 14 years old and really worried. I started my periods when I was 12 and I got into a routine where I came on on the 6th or 7th of every month, but I have not been on for 4 months. Is this normal? Hope I get replies. Thanx ox...
A. 5 June 2006: Dearest Anonymous,
There can be a number of reasons why your cycle has stopped; it is nothing to be embarrassed about the best way to find out what is going on with your girly bits is to see a doctor. They will perform blood tests to check ho... (read in full...)
Boyfriend was late home knowing I am jealous!
Q. I have been seeing a counsellor for my anger and jealousy problems. I used to get mad at my boyfriend a lot, but because of my counselling, I haven't really got mad at him in the last couple months. I've been real proud of myself. On Tuesday my ...
A. 2 June 2006: I really don’t think that you should be in a relationship at all. A good relationship is one where the two people in it are able to trust each other enough to let each other have fun apart. Your boyfriend must have thought ‘Freedom! God knows when I ... (read in full...)
One minute shes cool to date me, then shes a but busy, but now it seems she just wants to be friends!?
Q. She simply doesn’t seem interested but I would like your input. LAST WEEK - I asked a woman out for dinner. She accepted but with her friends planning a surprise for her birthday that weekend, she called off our date for Saturday. Fri...
A. 2 June 2006: Dear Anonymous Unfortunately sometimes life gets in the way of new relationships… and old ones too. I think people give up on each other to readily; sometimes slow and steady wins the race. While flirting was taking place was there consumpt... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant?
Q. i haven't had sex with my boyfriend for 2weeks now cause he works away, but i forgot the pill when we did on many occasions, i have started feeling very light headed, but i had a period just last week, but i dont know whether it was a period because ...
A. 1 June 2006: Sweet heart do a test NOW TODAY only way to know for sure, worrying about it can upset your cycles......... (read in full...)
Her past involved drugs and orgy's, How do i get over this?
Q. I've been dating a girl for a few months now and it's gotten fairly serious. I know she's special cuz it's been over 8 years since I've felt so strongly about somone. I was single and loving it for years but she changed all that. And it's cool. ...
A. 1 June 2006: p /> It sounds like you have met someone really special, and the fact that she was honest enough to share her past with you, means that she must trust you. Her past experiences have made her the person she is and you if you love her then you hav... (read in full...)
Who should I choose?
Q. well.. I am sort of in a relationship with a guy, however it's not an actuel relationship, we just have deap feeling for each other and act as if we are in this relationship. (i know, kind of confusing huh!) anyway.. i met this other guy at a ...
A. 1 June 2006: Dear Anonymous, If 1st guy really loves you, a pure love that connects your souls then he will always have a place in your life. You should ask him if he wants a relationship with you or if he is happy to have your friendship. Remember just be... (read in full...)
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