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writes: I really like this guy who I was with for well over a year, but he treated me really bad with the things he said and did, like he has no respect for me. He is my first so I love he so much and when I know he's treating me badly I leave him, but he always seems to sweettalk me again and say he really wants me back. But when he's got me, he's not interested after the first few days. We aren't together now but I'm scared it will happen again cos I still love him...What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, dream10000  +, writes (11 December 2009):
It sounds like there is a bit of a cycle going on with this person that may not be healthy. I would try looking for love in a new direction. You are worth more than what he is offering you.
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reader, dream10000 +, writes (11 December 2009):
It sounds like there is a bit of a cycle going on with this person that may not be healthy. I would try looking for love in a new direction. You are worth more than what he is offering you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): Just wondering is he nice to you until you sleep with him? If he starts cooling off after he's slept with you, then my suspicions are he is using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): This is a deviant response, but I say allow yourself to get hurt with him a few more times. Why? Then maybe you will finally learn to stop doing such stupid but understandable things.
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reader, miss nade +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Unfortunately Sweetheart, a leopard never changes its spots. Realising that your first love is just that, is never easy, but remember you have strength inside your soul you are a worthy of someone that respects and loves you and treats you the way you want to be treated. Next time you leave him cut off all contact with him plan your escape down to the last detail. Remember that a life lived in a lovelessly is only a life half lived.No retreat no surrender and when it is all done go out dancing, to ‘I will survive’Blessings on you child.Miss Nade
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Give him a wide berth and learn to live without him, he is a looser and you need someone who will treat you with respect and be a partner not just a user.
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Stay away for awhile and get yourself together. Don't keep playing this cat and mouse game with him, because you are only hurting yourself. He has to realize and I mean really realize what it is that he is losing and you haven't made him feel that yet. If you keep doing the same things you can expect the same results. Hopes this helps. Good Luck.
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